Valid for Cap men too?

Just curious, most men would treasure ladies that are hard to get....does it apply to Cap men too?

If Cap men are at a busy stage of their career, if u rejected their invitation without rescheduling, will they just give up or will they be intrigued?

If u were already seeing each other for a while, and the lady never proactively schedules for a date but always agree to every date u ask, are we too easy to go after? Or are Cap men more appreciative that we try to accomodate them whenever (not referring to booty calls), for a drink etc...

I can only speak from experience. I tried playing hard to get for a little while and it had the opposite affect. No Bueno.

Dated a few Caps and I'm currently in a ~something~ with a Cap. Not necessarily hard to get. More so they gravitate towards those who already have busy lives and are naturally hard to get because they are in many places at one time.

I think they also need you to initiate something once they've clearly shown their interest. However, personally, I don't directly ask them out. My go to thing is to ask if he wants to join me in doing something and it's something that he knows I'm already going before I asked him to join me.

Posted by pinkbird03
I can only speak from experience. I tried playing hard to get for a little while and it had the opposite affect. No Bueno.

I hv never tried.....but i always agree to dates he set. And it got me thinking have i been to easy

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Posted by Jalent99
Just curious, most men would treasure ladies that are hard to get....does it apply to Cap men too?

If Cap men are at a busy stage of their career, if u rejected their invitation without rescheduling, will they just give up or will they be intrigued?

If u were already seeing each other for a while, and the lady never proactively schedules for a date but always agree to every date u ask, are we too easy to go after? Or are Cap men more appreciative that we try to accomodate them whenever (not referring to booty calls), for a drink etc...

Honesty works better with them. Be playful not hard to get.

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Ok! Playful during dates and sometimes in text right? I happen to always be available when he asks.....ok maybe i had fo slightly reschedule some of my stuff to accomodate him.....i know i shd honestly tell him when i m unavailable but he is too busy and i do want to see him ?

Posted by scarletvixen
Dated a few Caps and I'm currently in a ~something~ with a Cap. Not necessarily hard to get. More so they gravitate towards those who already have busy lives and are naturally hard to get because they are in many places at one time.

I think they also need you to initiate something once they've clearly shown their interest. However, personally, I don't directly ask them out. My go to thing is to ask if he wants to join me in doing something and it's something that he knows I'm already going before I asked him to join me.

Ok let me try this! But I always feel that Cap men likes to wear the pants in taking decisions from where and when to meet, what to do etc, soo I always let him take the lead. Soo far i like what he likes thus its ok for me....

Posted by Foreverloveme
@Greentea are you okay? It's not like you to post & hide lol

It's driving me crazy lol

The curiosity...

Hi FLM

I'm about to open a new thread on Cap men (well men in general) advice from a Cap man himself, so I'm experimenting if the video will post or not. lol. So far it's only posting the link, and I don't like that.

Sorry ladies.

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Posted by Foreverloveme
@Greentea are you okay? It's not like you to post & hide lol

It's driving me crazy lol

The curiosity...

Hi FLM

I'm about to open a new thread on Cap men (well men in general) advice from a Cap man himself, so I'm experimenting if the video will post or not. lol. So far it's only posting the link, and I don't like that.

Sorry ladies.

Ooh..I can't wait! Sounds good! I'll be patient then 🙂

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Only the links are showing still. This isn't how I roll.

I'm starting to think it's user error. 😭

See I feel like this may be where me and caps kind of don't see eye to eye. Maybe I need to meet a more playful cap bc it may seem like I'm playing hard to get when in reality I'm just very playful and I'm praying you understand my heavy sarcasm and put me back in my place. Buuuuutttt I feel like I would need someone to aggressively... Not chase me? But dish out what I serve, sort of speak.

Not sure if all caps are like that bc a lot of them are practical and may think I'm playing a game.

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Posted by scarletvixen
Dated a few Caps and I'm currently in a ~something~ with a Cap. Not necessarily hard to get. More so they gravitate towards those who already have busy lives and are naturally hard to get because they are in many places at one time.

I think they also need you to initiate something once they've clearly shown their interest. However, personally, I don't directly ask them out. My go to thing is to ask if he wants to join me in doing something and it's something that he knows I'm already going before I asked him to join me.

Ok let me try this! But I always feel that Cap men likes to wear the pants in taking decisions from where and when to meet, what to do etc, soo I always let him take the lead. Soo far i like what he likes thus its ok for me....

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True.. the trick is to get them to do something as if it's their decision to join you. Like for example with one of the caps from my past, one of the ways I did it was talk about how I really wanted to go to this book fair that was happening in two weeks. I already knew that he likes reading books so there was rapport there. I just kept talking about how excited I was to explore it. Then out of the blue, a few days before the fair, he asked me for my ETA and said that he'll be there.

I suppose different people will have different experiences but with the Caps I know, it has always been somewhat like that. More like, "I want to hang out with you so that we can explore something together," rather than just hanging out with him.

@scarletvixen

I would love to do that....but the prob would be that he is soo busy and he is quite random in where he likes to go. Ie i wanted to go to this art exhi previously but he suggested another art exhi and we ended up goin to the other one.....

Then again we dont really spend weekends together soo its not easy ? Mostly weekdays evening only

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Posted by pinkbird03
I can only speak from experience. I tried playing hard to get for a little while and it had the opposite affect. No Bueno.

I hv never tried.....but i always agree to dates he set. And it got me thinking have i been to easy

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Don't worry about being too easy. Dont play games with him. If you're busy, you're busy. You don't need to change your plans for him. However if you are not busy and you want to see him, just do it.

Posted by pinkbird03
I can only speak from experience. I tried playing hard to get for a little while and it had the opposite affect. No Bueno.

Same. And with another Cap... lol