@Myaaaya
10 Years
But sometime I feel like he is just disappeared, I msg him and have to wait for a day for his reply as he is jobless for the moment so he is not busy. But once we start the convieration we talk for long time. Is he actually just see me as a frd
If I ask him will I scared him away? I worry if I being direct he will stop talking to me. For a Capricorn they prefer to take control no? I'd let him know indirectly I like him..
Thank you so much! I will find a good timing to ask him those questions!
Capricorns move extremely slow. They do not rush into a serious relationship quickly. But they will continue to talk to you if they do like you! That's because they don't waste their time on nothing.
Don't ask him. It's too early. You're still getting to know eachother. At this point, he owes you nothing...and vice versa.
If you ask him so early on, he will think that you are already "keeping tabs on him".
Yea! I think so too that's why I will wait a bit until the good timing then I will try to ask indirectly. But also wanna know when a cappy find not interested in a girl anymore will they still keep in touch and update things to a girl?
I'm a bit lose becoz we talk a bit less than before but still update each other sometimes
Yes, I think a Cap can and will talk to multiple girls of interest at the same time when they are single. No question IMO. When I met mine about 3 months in, no title, he was traveling and an old fling happened to be in the same city. He let her visit and spend the night after she got drunk. He said nothing happened and she left in the morning. We never discussed exclusivity except that we weren't sleeping with anyone else. He actually asked me to tell him to stop texting with other girls at one point. I think it was getting to the point of them maybe meeting up and he wanted to know I wasn't ok with it. After that, he stopped texting with other girls.
Anyway, it's very early on for you and him, just take it easy.
As I feel like he started texting me less, is it better to let him text me first? Maybe give him some space is a better idea... I'm just confused that he seems so interested in me before and now stop talking to me like the way he did before (this week he didn't say sth sweet to me anymore as he had been used to texting me sweet msg before)
Posted by Myaaaya
I would like to know does Capricorn men will put effort to texting more than one girl at a time? I met a cappy from a dating site we r not in the same country 6 hours different.we have been texting each other for a month twice a week and each time we had some long conversation, also make jokes sometime. As I had plan to go to his country before I met him, we talked about the plan during my trip and he also looking for a job that out of his country(not my country but he said he will try to meet me up in my country) which he has been leaving on and off in other countries for 10 yrs but he once told me that if he meet a girl he like enough then he would try to stay in a location that they both want to stay. Also he once said that I'm a long term bet for him not sure he is just making fun or what... And sometime he will remind me time to sleep or make sure I back home safe if he knows I went out late.
My questions is: does Capricorn men put effort to talk to more than one girl like that at a time. And he talks like this is that means he wanna try with me?
Thanks in advance for all of you!
Per my own experience with a few Cap males that I've casually dated, yes, he will text and communicate with more than one female at a time. Excellent communicators but of course my experiences were with extroverted Cap males.
The extroverted, good looking, charming Caps are a lot of fun but they do have a tendency to create multiple open ended type situations with more than one female. The ones I dated would have actual girl friends that they communicated with daily, the females were confused because they felt the next natural step would be a real relationship but the Caps were not confused they knew where they wanted these women in their lives so they kept it platonic and then there were the sex buddies, then there were the women they were attracted to and chasing but not actually having sex with, just seemed to have their hands in all the female pots all at the same time.
Thanks all answering my questions! I will try to be patient, I think if he really wants to work thing out he will do something.. But I'm tired of guessing just so confused sometimes
I think its a safe bet to think that since u met him on a dating site, hes dating multiple ppl.
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Posted by Myaaaya
I would like to know does Capricorn men will put effort to texting more than one girl at a time? I met a cappy from a dating site we r not in the same country 6 hours different.we have been texting each other for a month twice a week and each time we had some long conversation, also make jokes sometime. As I had plan to go to his country before I met him, we talked about the plan during my trip and he also looking for a job that out of his country(not my country but he said he will try to meet me up in my country) which he has been leaving on and off in other countries for 10 yrs but he once told me that if he meet a girl he like enough then he would try to stay in a location that they both want to stay. Also he once said that I'm a long term bet for him not sure he is just making fun or what... And sometime he will remind me time to sleep or make sure I back home safe if he knows I went out late.
My questions is: does Capricorn men put effort to talk to more than one girl like that at a time. And he talks like this is that means he wanna try with me?
Thanks in advance for all of you!
Per my own experience with a few Cap males that I've casually dated, yes, he will text and communicate with more than one female at a time. Excellent communicators but of course my experiences were with extroverted Cap males.
The extroverted, good looking, charming Caps are a lot of fun but they do have a tendency to create multiple open ended type situations with more than one female. The ones I dated would have actual girl friends that they communicated with daily, the females were confused because they felt the next natural step would be a real relationship but the Caps were not confused they knew where they wanted these women in their lives so they kept it platonic and then there were the sex buddies, then there were the women they were attracted to and chasing but not actually having sex with, just seemed to have their hands in all the female pots all at the same time.
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You always have the best, most refreshing insight when it comes to Cap men. Wish I'd run across this 2 years ago lol
Does cappy really needs space sometimes? I know that he is stressful about looking for a job now, so maybe that's why he doesn't have a mood to talk to me?
Posted by Myaaaya
Does cappy really needs space sometimes? I know that he is stressful about looking for a job now, so maybe that's why he doesn't have a mood to talk to me?
I can only speak about one Capricorn. And I say absolutely they love space and hate feeling too crowded too soon. But every guy is different so I don't know
Yes! I had been trying to look for a job for him as well but I'm not sure am I doing right, or he doesn't like I help him on that. So now I try to give him some space and see how things goes
Not for me. I put all my effort into the one I want and nothing else will do. I will talk friendly to other girls but if there is someone who has me interested then that's the only on I will focus all my attention on. We do disappear a lot. We like to just withdraw and deal with things on our so that's extremely common for us.
What if you guys interested in a girl but after get to know them and found not interested anymore.. Will you just stop contacting them? Or still text/update them as a friend?
Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns move extremely slow. They do not rush into a serious relationship quickly. But they will continue to talk to you if they do like you! That's because they don't waste their time on nothing.
I think i relate to that, i like to be the one setting the pace. But when in a situation with another cap taking it slow with me.....its kind of unsettling for me
I didn't read all the other posts.
Six hours is too far to take anything seriously. Don't put too much thought into this and keep your options open until there's actually a chance you'll be in the same proximity.
Look at it as entertainment until then so you don't work yourself up and build this into a relationship that's not there.
Posted by Myaaaya
What if you guys interested in a girl but after get to know them and found not interested anymore.. Will you just stop contacting them? Or still text/update them as a friend?
It would be a slow fade. So, yes to both. Less and less frequency in communication but friendly when there is communication
Thanks Truecap, becoz he once said he will try to look for a job in my country (he used to work out of his country.) But I'm not sure is he serious trying to look for a job in my country, or just saying it, becoz he text me less in these 1-2 weeks. I know that he is stressful about looking for a job now so I try to not text him too. But I hope that not becoz he found someone more interest that why contact me less than before.
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Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns move extremely slow. They do not rush into a serious relationship quickly. But they will continue to talk to you if they do like you! That's because they don't waste their time on nothing.
I think i relate to that, i like to be the one setting the pace. But when in a situation with another cap taking it slow with me.....its kind of unsettling for me
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Definitely confusing, but not necessarily a bad thing!
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Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns move extremely slow. They do not rush into a serious relationship quickly. But they will continue to talk to you if they do like you! That's because they don't waste their time on nothing.
I think i relate to that, i like to be the one setting the pace. But when in a situation with another cap taking it slow with me.....its kind of unsettling for me
Definitely confusing, but not necessarily a bad thing!
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I really hope so....
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Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns move extremely slow. They do not rush into a serious relationship quickly. But they will continue to talk to you if they do like you! That's because they don't waste their time on nothing.
I think i relate to that, i like to be the one setting the pace. But when in a situation with another cap taking it slow with me.....its kind of unsettling for me
Definitely confusing, but not necessarily a bad thing!
I really hope so....
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I've noticed just telling a guy what you want can make a big difference. Because they are sometimes very clueless!!
So how's it going? Any updates?
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Posted by pinkbird03
Capricorns move extremely slow. They do not rush into a serious relationship quickly. But they will continue to talk to you if they do like you! That's because they don't waste their time on nothing.
I think i relate to that, i like to be the one setting the pace. But when in a situation with another cap taking it slow with me.....its kind of unsettling for me
Definitely confusing, but not necessarily a bad thing!
I really hope so....
I've noticed just telling a guy what you want can make a big difference. Because they are sometimes very clueless!!
So how's it going? Any updates?
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Not much for now....l did, tell him that i dont feel that he is serious and i m prepared to walk away....fast fwd 2 mths i havent ask him how serious this is going. But i m willing to wait for now
Depends on his Venus sign...
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I would like to know does Capricorn men will put effort to texting more than one girl at a time? I met a cappy from a dating site we r not in the same country 6 hours different.
we have been texting each other for a month twice a week and each time we had some long conversation, also make jokes sometime. As I had plan to go to his country before I met him, we talked about the plan during my trip and he also looking for a job that out of his country(not my country but he said he will try to meet me up in my country) which he has been leaving on and off in other countries for 10 yrs but he once told me that if he meet a girl he like enough then he would try to stay in a location that they both want to stay. Also he once said that I'm a long term bet for him not sure he is just making fun or what... And sometime he will remind me time to sleep or make sure I back home safe if he knows I went out late.
My questions is: does Capricorn men put effort to talk to more than one girl like that at a time. And he talks like this is that means he wanna try with me?
Thanks in advance for all of you!