Venus in Capricorn

venus is the way we love, right?

how does capricorn in affect venus personality?

Posted by M
Well, flings aren't in the agenda. Relationships and friendships are treated with respect, and are typically very meaningful. Loyalty and dependibility are associated with that aspect as well.

thats sounding pretty good

Posted by morningsb
Not good for finding long term mate. Generally land up having VERY high standards.

what characteristics is not good long term?

the above is sounding pretty good

Posted by M


Absolutely. And it makes it uber hard to let go of someone who actually wins that placement over :/

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i'm wanting something thats not going to end up in divorce - especially when kids are involved. i want a have to make this work kind of mentality - can get through any problem together

I've looked this up, and from what I can gather..it's like the guy or gal, is very proper about everything when it comes to love...they're the ones that cosign all the rules..don't kiss on the first date, the guy should ask the girl out..etc.etc.

Also, it makes them not willing to give up easily....like...oh, she doesn't like me..well that's cool..I'll wait.

Lol....

Its a better placement for women than men as far as Ive noticed.

Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle
I've looked this up, and from what I can gather..it's like the guy or gal, is very proper about everything when it comes to love...they're the ones that cosign all the rules..don't kiss on the first date, the guy should ask the girl out..etc.etc.

Also, it makes them not willing to give up easily....like...oh, she doesn't like me..well that's cool..I'll wait.

Lol....

sounds good to me, as long as i can sign a contract i dont mind being the initiator

capricorn is known to be the initiator, right
virgo the compatible, taurus the stable

Posted by janettam
i have this im super cautious & i think this aspect contributes to my mature men fetish.

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thats why a lot of dirty old men think its ok to be the old cow that chews the fresh grass haha

why would you go for old men because you are cautious?

Posted by janettam
no i guess im security conscious & men are mature.

i have mars venus mercury saturn uranus and neptune in capricorn ahahahahah saturn is pretty dominant in my chart


i was born to marry a 50 year old man


ahahahha jk. my taste changes with time.

wow, what day in september?

i say you're pretty cool

if i'm 50 and dont care about people people teasing me as an old cow that chews fresh grass, i hope i can find someone with those statistics as you, janet

the amount of vitality virgo has can deal with a 30yr age difference haha

Posted by janettam
bwahahah actually the only virgo i have is my ascendant



ahahah im sun in aquarius
moon in gemini
🙂

if i was 50, i wouldnt really care haha as long as you stick like glue and dont blow away haha

Posted by janettam
ahahahah problemm is im conflicting. 2 air signs and all earth

i would love to stick but i also want to have my independence.

some say conflicting but others say balancing

i'm ashamed to tell what other signs my planets are in hahaha

Posted by janettam
ahaha

i can only assume itd be in either virgo or libra or scorpio or leo.

you are not bad, not bad at all...

3 out of 4

substitute the leo for sagittarius

notice how they all one group too!

Posted by thxbutnothx
I don't make the first move to capture love. I however make the first move to define who/what we are. A man who would make the first move (physically) would scare me lol.

i like that, its honest

seems like initiator behaviour of capricorn

Posted by janettam


well i def agree with you. but i dont force love. i just patiently wait. if they come back then yay if they don't, then more mental/ emotional training for me. ahahahah.

but i never make any moves on a guy. i think i lack fire. and i half the time im a bit apathetic. ahahah 😢 debbie downer here.

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thats still a nice trait, being a virgo i have to hold back on being dominant in the relationship if the other also needs this need to be satisfied too. so submissive is useful, can mutually satisfy. with people you have to be compatible - kind of like resonance

Posted by thxbutnothx
Tbh, I have never felt that my standards were impossible until dxp lol. My standards are working fine for me in real life and I thought they were basic qualifications for a decent partner.

what are such standards and qualifications?

i used to have very high requirements. now more specific requirements. but at my age i'm going wide so i'm including earth element as the requirement haha

generally now it is transparency, honesty, communication. the relationship of these three you can see

i'm not superficial anymore. i actually been with only women that arent skinny, which demonstrates i'm not superficial like i was when i was young. besides the body is easy to change

the profession - doesnt matter as long as she would do it for below average salary to show she has passion. that means she will be highly competent in her job. money or status is no object or requirement

cleanliness - oh how i really desire this..... next to godliness. i will treat her like a goddess if she is clean

can critique me so that i can purify myself. i need a cooperative partner

i like earth element a lot, earth me up baby, rub that dirt all over me!

but in a clean virgo way....ahaha.... and wash your hands too haha

Posted by thxbutnothx
I don't make the first move to capture love. I however make the first move to define who/what we are. A man who would make the first move (physically) would scare me lol.

Just because you have a different 'code' from what I listed above, doesn't mean that you don't have a code...like I said a round about way, but it's like, you are "pragmatic" when it comes to love. Some people want it to be organic, some people want it done the right way...I also when I said 'not willing to give up.'..I don't mean you are a stalker..I mean that you're patient..becuase you want it done...'the right way.'

Feel me?

I am qualifying my statement...I didn't explain it well the first time, and so I'm restating it.

And I was NOT arguing with you.

Okay..sooooo, you are not willing to wait for someone you don't want...but would you be willing to wait for someone you DO want but it's the wrong timing?

It seems like you're taking this as i'm insulting you...when my very first post was meant to be taken 'lightly' in the first place...

Plus, I've known guys that have a venus in capricorn..and persistence is one thing that's about how they flirt....Sure there could be other aspects in play, the same could be said of you...other than that, I dont know what you're 'mad' about.

Posted by morningsb
Not good for finding long term mate. Generally land up having VERY high standards.

Yes, this is true. But the same standards we impose on our lovers, we also impose on ourselves first. So it's fair. And why wouldn't we have high standards? Does anybody want to settle? It's easier to be alone than to settle.

but such standards would be placed before a relationship starts and not after it has started, right?

If what I said is 'wrong'..that's fine..the vibe from your first post after mine is that it seemed like I was painting a picture like you were a controlling, boring stalker type(forcing love?)..and that is as far as what I was trying to convey....that's the only thing that I felt bad about.

I admire venus in capricorns in far as the persistence 'bit'..think about it, when one of ya'll said that someone rejects you, you don't appear to be 'fazed'..as in, it doesn't make you insecure, or make you feel hurt or 'unworthy' that someone doesn't like you as in other signs...it's that 'cool inner confidence vibe' that ya'll have that's very sexy.

So when I was saying 'oh you don't like me, oh that's cool, I'll wait.' I wasn't talking about 'forcing love.' I was trying to convey the vibe that these 'won me over.' just from the idea that since they thought they were awesome(that 'real' inner confidence) made me reconsider my percpetion of them.

Yah I'm having a hard time trying to convey what i mean....but its not a negative opinion at all. I think its a great placement.

To have high standards for one self is great, but that's not what a healthy relationship is about, a healthy relationship is much about self-respect as it is about mutual compromising and acceptance. To have a strict set of rules ready for what your potential partner should be like automatically means the other person is entitled to have one of those as well, so can you imagine what would happen if we all went on about relationships like that? Im pretty sure there would be no relationships at all. The answer is as usual somewhere in between. Of course there are certain traits that NO ONE is supposed to tolerate in order to accept the other person, some things just can't be accepted, however most people are not either assholes or saints, they can be both depending on the circumstances and at the end of the day you'll HAVE to learn to tolerate a few less pleasant traits by your partner IF you know its worth it in order to keep a relationship functioning and vice versa, if you weigh all of her/his prons and cons and realise theres much more pros than cons, then the acceptance has not been in vain.

define high standard?

Posted by thxbutnothx
TheBeautifulStruggle,

I was not mad. I can be very impatient / short when I see people trying to discuss/argue without thoroughly understanding or even reading what s/he herself says left along what I said. Your response to my first reply was talking about something new didn't make sense to me at all that was why I determined that you were "arguing" for the sake of arguing and I only had enough paitence to break it down to you one more time in a bullet point format like I did. I have an elephant memory and naturally very logical so everytime I read or pay attention, everything that has been said would be listed in my head automatically in a logical order and can be used now or later. That's part of the reasons that if someone wants to discuss/debate something, I expect a logical discussion unless you appeal to me emotionally (like my scorp) otherwise I'd get very impatient and can pick everything you said apart. That's one of my flaws.

It's probably because we respect it. Even if it hurts, especially if it hurts..if it hurts we can grow from it.

Posted by CappyyLuv30
Besides define "impossible standards".

Sometimes we THINK our standards are impossible but it's just merely that in our circles, we lack options.

And you know how we Caps prefer that mutual friend/work option...

So if work or mutual friends are not lining them up, we remain single thus "impossible standards"?

do capricorns look for husband/wife material from within their workplace?

damn, there is one capricorn in the lab, but i feel she is lesbian... but thats ok, i'm a lesbian in a man's body, that might work right?

otherwise i need to go somewhere where there is a high density of capricorn women

Posted by zeoblade
but such standards would be placed before a relationship starts and not after it has started, right?

Yes. It has to be defined and fixed so that you may be fair to your partner. Otherwise you'll end up sending flighty mixed signals, and you want to give your partner a fair chance.

Most Capricorns are pretty fixed in general, though. And some good advice would be to keep in the back of your mind that you can't define anything that you haven't experienced. So in other words, be mindfully open as well.

Thats good advice for the young ones but I'm almost 30 haha. But I hope the young ones take your advice onboard

You think so? I thought it was pretty accurate for all ages. What's your view at 28?

And I see you're from Gold Coast. I do a lot of business there.

i figure pretty similar experiences at 28, only a year younger than me

Its alright gc, just poor planning

What's poor planning about Gold Coast?

sorry, misinterpreted

my view is you have your relationship needs. when you get to know someone, you need to assess how this person can meet those needs. need to find if your love philosophy and their love philosophy (needs) are not only the same destination, but also the same vehicle

thats why you see people ask, why is my person doing this? why is my person doing that? they didnt make their initial assessment thorough, they didnt know the person before getting into the relationship. now they want each other to conform and change into someone that matches their love philosophy. fitting a circle into a square and a square into a circle

in the end, if its love, then all problems can be solved. your partner will address your needs because thats their job. you dont need to worry about your needs anymore, because you're busy taking care of your partner's needs

you become the vessel, the safe, the temple where your partner banks their emotions. protect your partner's emotions from those that would do your partner harm and injustice. then your partner can never be harmed because you protected them good

the same goes for your partner, you bank your emotions inside. how can others hurt you when your emotions are not inside you? i believe thats how you grow together, thats team work

Posted by zeoblade


do capricorns look for husband/wife material from within their workplace?

I would avoid that like the plague. Bad idea to mix business and pleasure...

I think Caps may not like the *idea* at all of getting involved with someone from work, however when have theory and practice ever been in harmony? 😛 I find they can definitely open up more and faster to people they already have something so important in commonn with, like work. How it all pans out, well..thats another story 🙂

Capricorn in venus here. When it comes to love I'm pretty reserved, I have the walls around me that no one has been capable of tearing down yet...I feel I have problem with demonstrating my emotions, a fear of becoming vulnerable. I really wish my venus was in different sign:/

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I think Caps may not like the *idea* at all of getting involved with someone from work, however when have theory and practice ever been in harmony? 😛 I find they can definitely open up more and faster to people they already have something so important in commonn with, like work. How it all pans out, well..thats another story 🙂

Sooo true! When I'm at work I can only focus on work tasks even it means I have to bang heads of my fellow colleagues 😄 I feel competetive and where's business there is no friendship involved... And same goes with school! I'm just very serious and strict about those things.

lucky i'm not in business, in chemistry we dont have so much time to get into work place politics haha. when we do talk each other, we're bouncing ideas off each other to narrow down the things we have to investigate

i can only imagine what it would be like working in other industries, so i can understand some what why venus in capricorn may not like looking for partners in the workplace

Posted by gya
Capricorn in venus here. When it comes to love I'm pretty reserved, I have the walls around me that no one has been capable of tearing down yet...I feel I have problem with demonstrating my emotions, a fear of becoming vulnerable. I really wish my venus was in different sign:/

do you think those walls can come down if someone communicates to you transparency and honesty?

Posted by zeoblade
lucky i'm not in business, in chemistry we dont have so much time to get into work place politics haha. when we do talk each other, we're bouncing ideas off each other to narrow down the things we have to investigate

i can only imagine what it would be like working in other industries, so i can understand some what why venus in capricorn may not like looking for partners in the workplace

Posted by gya
Capricorn in venus here. When it comes to love I'm pretty reserved, I have the walls around me that no one has been capable of tearing down yet...I feel I have problem with demonstrating my emotions, a fear of becoming vulnerable. I really wish my venus was in different sign:/

do you think those walls can come down if someone communicates to you transparency and honesty?

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Lolol I was just joking about banging heads, I'm still a student working part-time at a restaurant so I don't take it for real. But if I was already working at some big ceo, I know I wouldn't want any partnerships. I'm very capable of doing all the work myself and people only bring issues. So I rather do everything quietly and cautiously, that's just me 🙂 That's the problem with honesty, there are only few honest people out there. I've learned this the hard way and now I'm just one of those boring coworkers who never parties with the rest of the crew... I always had only few friends and they're the only people who actually know the real me, people whom I can truly trust and confide in.

hot...

My Ex Capi Bf has Venus in Capricorn..... Hard to read him!!

how difficult is it? could you give us a scenario?

wow, lucky you got rid of him

i hope he learns to be more selfless when he finally becomes an adult otherwise he wont get respect in life

that is really weird, maybe he has a lot of guy friends and no female friends so he doesnt have much experience in expressing himself despite his age

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I think Caps may not like the *idea* at all of getting involved with someone from work, however when have theory and practice ever been in harmony? 😛 I find they can definitely open up more and faster to people they already have something so important in commonn with, like work. How it all pans out, well..thats another story 🙂

we have crushes and fantasise if there is someone interesting to crush on, but certainly for me, taking it further is another story. if someone is irritatingly around getting all lovey dovey when you want to be in no nonsense business mode that throws some water on the union.

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

what are you hiding shaks? 😉

Because...

Posted by janettam
no i guess im security conscious & men are mature.

i have mars venus mercury saturn uranus and neptune in capricorn ahahahahah saturn is pretty dominant in my chart


i was born to marry a 50 year old man


ahahahha jk. my taste changes with time.

woahh!!! thats alotta cap :-O

Posted by M
Well, flings aren't in the agenda. Relationships and friendships are treated with respect, and are typically very meaningful. Loyalty and dependibility are associated with that aspect as well.

this

I would also give up and walk away completely and permanently as soon as I know a man does not feel me the way I thought. Forcing a love is not what I live for. Both parties deserve better.

^^This^^ I have a cap moon, cap venus and other cap placements. If he isn't into me, I am already gone!