Capricorn advice! So here is the deal. I met a guy 3 weeks ago at a pub. We kissed, exchanged numbers. The next week, we met up again. This time I went back to his house. We had sex and did lots of other things. I left his house at about 3.30am.
A few texts were exchanged during the week- some naughty pics also from both of us.
The following week he messaged me and came to meet me. It's was a group thing. He had his friends, I had mine. He approached me right away. Later during the night a work colleague of mine (male) turned up and he got quite agitated. I told him to calm down... He asked me to leave with him and I did.
We went back to his house and had a semi deep conversation about life and where he wants to be and his ultimate goals. Then we moved to the bedroom and hooked up. Very passionate- very good connection. So I tell him I should go and he says no, stay. I knew he had to work early in the morning but agreed (don't know why!) lots of spooning, cuddling, back rubs- god even a foot massage- he just really seemed very comfortable, relaxed and happy. Very sweet, sweet talker- saying the right things at the right time. But it felt genuine.
Morning comes in and I'm still wrapped in his arms. He tells me he is bailing on work. We have sex which he seemed to really enjoy, a lot. Afterwards he asks me if I'd like coffee, he makes me one and we talk. I must admit I was a little awkward as I have never done this before and wasn't expecting him to be so nice about it all. He gave me 2 kisses bye and walked me down the stairs. When I turned around, he was running up the stairs with a huge smile on his face like a kid- very cute.
So I text him the next nite- I thought very cool and calm. Just said 'had a great night - it was amazing. Hope you didn't get into too much trouble for not going to work'
No reply.
Don't get me wrong, I wasn't looking for a life long relationship- just a bit of fun with the same dude. I'm a cancer and this is literally my first time doing anything like this. Obviously I am totally inexperienced in booty call/one nighters?!
Why did he not message me? I thought he actually liked me after how he acted. He told me he liked me. I'm turning into a nut job- I just want an acknowledgment and maybe an indication that we can still have this fun?! Thoughts?
He's not messaging because of how you started out together - FWB. Titles are extremely important to Caps in my experience. If he doesn't have one he will not overdo anything. I'm guessing he will message you again/respond but only at his convenience.
I would agree with everyone here. Sex way too early to be more than sex buddies. You gave it up too easily so he's probably thinking he doesn't need to work for it.
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A few texts were exchanged during the week- some naughty pics also from both of us.
The following week he messaged me and came to meet me. It's was a group thing. He had his friends, I had mine. He approached me right away. Later during the night a work colleague of mine (male) turned up and he got quite agitated. I told him to calm down... He asked me to leave with him and I did.
We went back to his house and had a semi deep conversation about life and where he wants to be and his ultimate goals. Then we moved to the bedroom and hooked up. Very passionate- very good connection. So I tell him I should go and he says no, stay. I knew he had to work early in the morning but agreed (don't know why!) lots of spooning, cuddling, back rubs- god even a foot massage- he just really seemed very comfortable, relaxed and happy. Very sweet, sweet talker- saying the right things at the right time. But it felt genuine.
Morning comes in and I'm still wrapped in his arms. He tells me he is bailing on work. We have sex which he seemed to really enjoy, a lot. Afterwards he asks me if I'd like coffee, he makes me one and we talk. I must admit I was a little awkward as I have never done this before and wasn't expecting him to be so nice about it all. He gave me 2 kisses bye and walked me down the stairs. When I turned around, he was running up the stairs with a huge smile on his face like a kid- very cute.
So I text him the next nite- I thought very cool and calm. Just said 'had a great night - it was amazing. Hope you didn't get into too much trouble for not going to work'
No reply.
Don't get me wrong, I wasn't looking for a life long relationship- just a bit of fun with the same dude. I'm a cancer and this is literally my first time doing anything like this. Obviously I am totally inexperienced in booty call/one nighters?!
Why did he not message me? I thought he actually liked me after how he acted. He told me he liked me. I'm turning into a nut job- I just want an acknowledgment and maybe an indication that we can still have this fun?!
Thoughts?