Help with Capricorn man

So, I met this guy on POF. We seemed to connect almost instantly, I'm a Taurus. We had been talking for about 3 weeks, and he was being very patient with me waiting for me to be okay with meeting up. I have been burned in the past so I had a couple days where I tried to push him away, afraid of getting her. He kept saying "Don't push me away" "Give me a chance" "I think we'd be good together" Finally the day rolled around, TODAY! I was so excited, had been prepping all day. We were talking (via text) for a bit and I asked him if the plans we had were still on, so I could figure out waht to wear and he said "I dunno, maybe lol" I said "lol okay, what time are you picking me up?" he said "lol i dont know" so I kind of got a little sassy and said "geez. maybe we should it it another time. I mean it doesn't seem like we've put much effort into it" he said "okay, I'll be there at 7 to pick you up, I'll pick something by the time I get off work" we laughed and I said "okay I'll talk to you later, i have some errands to run". Well he got off work and tried to call me, my daughter had my phone, he texted and said "I tried to call" I explained and said I'd call him back. he said "yeah ok" i said "are you okay?" he said I dunno so I said "whats wrong? Are we still going out" he said "Yeah. But I have to be honest I don't think things are going anywhere between us." with a long drawn out conversation he explained that if I can get "that mad" about something so small how mad will I get for something big. He told me his mind was pretty much 100% made up, even though he feels a genuine connection with me, adn still really likes me, he just doesnt see it going any further.

What do I do? We really clicked, got along, were pretty much headed in the direction of things getting serious. Then BAM, he's just done because I got a little sas mouthed?

So confused.

What did you get "that mad" about? Is a part of the story missing? What was said to make him think you overreacted?

He told me he had plans to go out and get drunk soon as we were done, and I said some smart ass sarcastic comment about "well you can make those plans but not plan a date" and explained that if he wants to take this further, like he kept saying he did, he would need to understand that I expect more than just someone who leads me on. Because that's what it felt like...

You got pushy.
If theres ome fact of cappy men iknow its that they HATE that.
he looks at you like youl start agging him about dumb shit.
You did nothing wrong girl. Cappys are assholes. You just need to learn them well. Aybe pretend to be uninterested n not care if he wnts yoh or not and wit fo it to ll redo. next time don be pushy.

I wonder if he'll come back around.

Sass doesnt slide with Capricorns. Believe me. My dad is one and i see him ith his girlfrends. it doesnt work and they hate it. its pushy jts rude and its bossy. THEY are the bosses...remmber that. Taurus, if you want a cappy you cant be dominant

Or if I completely blew my chances.

Girl. You ddnt blow anything. Mistkes hapen an if nyon know that its a cappy. Its only if you dot learn from this tht youll blow t. Nooooooo sarcasm. No kindly reminding him or pointing nythin out to him. If he must know tel him. If you realy wonde thn ak him. if it snt relevant to the relationship jst dro it. itf it doent build nyhing drop it. if itwont matter next wek dropit.

excus my sellig. the interne is ugh. PM me i want to hlp you

I just messaged you, and thank you so much!

Posted by MegVar
Or if I completely blew my chances.

By being you? Imo, this only means that he can't handle you, so if I were you I would move on.

I'm not you, so we don't accept the same things, obviously, but in your shoes I would never accept that level of nonchalance. It was supposed to be the first time you ever met and he made plans afterwards... I just don't think he is that interested and tried to put the blame on you.

Sorry, but this is what I truly think.

He is/was interested but she made him feel some type of way about calling out a particular flaw at that moment. You can do this, but you can't do that.

Honestly, it was a little pushy and snappy so early on, and hinted at irritation on your part, which isn't a good start, even if he was wrong, which that isn't a good start either.

I can tell you now, a cap male doesn't like hearing about what he can't do...ever.

He may or may not come back around but it seems like the two of you would get annoyed with eachother quick.

I agree that comment wasn't in line of what I would have done, but she said it and would probably say things along those lines again...which he wouldn't appreciate...meaning that they are not compatible. Certain habits are just really really hard to break and comments like that one would be one of those, imo. But I may be wrong. Hopefully so.

UPDATE: He drunk called me last night, telling me all about how he's been talking to this other girl for three days, but he has all of these deep strong feelings for me, because of our instant connection, yet he still wants to see her and not me. Because he sees a "FUTURE" with her. He offered me the ever so tempting opportunity to prove him wrong, and I politely declined, I told him from the get go that I am not one for competition, games or jealousy and I won't be someones second choice KNOWING he doesn't think there is a future with me.

So, we got into it a little and I ended it, for good. I don't need this shit from someone who is afraid of a woman who knows what she wants.

Yup, regardless of your feelings for him dump him. Very immature behavior drunk call and about the other woman. Be a top puck priority not second pick back up. Ufff nerve of that guy

Pick not puck sorry darn autocorrect

Ah. Wanted to have two women fighting for him, did he? Glad you got out of that one!

Lolllllll@seeing a future with someone after three days.

Good you are leaving it alone.

Lol great update that made me laugh...

What an immature guy, dodged a bullet there!!

Posted by MegVar
He told me he had plans to go out and get drunk soon as we were done, and I said some smart ass sarcastic comment about "well you can make those plans but not plan a date" and explained that if he wants to take this further, like he kept saying he did, he would need to understand that I expect more than just someone who leads me on. Because that's what it felt like...

Geesh! It was ONLY a first date. Seems like you were expecting too much, too soon. Who cares if he goes out and gets drunk after he takes you out. A first date is just a meeting, a first impression and no pressure.

Posted by MegVar
UPDATE: He drunk called me last night, telling me all about how he's been talking to this other girl for three days, but he has all of these deep strong feelings for me, because of our instant connection, yet he still wants to see her and not me. Because he sees a "FUTURE" with her. He offered me the ever so tempting opportunity to prove him wrong, and I politely declined, I told him from the get go that I am not one for competition, games or jealousy and I won't be someones second choice KNOWING he doesn't think there is a future with me.

So, we got into it a little and I ended it, for good. I don't need this shit from someone who is afraid of a woman who knows what she wants.

There is a difference between knowing what you want versus outright DEMANDING what you want.

But, yeah, you did the right thing. If you're already having problems at this point, the future doesn't look very blissful.

There's a better guy out there for you!

relationship between men CApricorn and women TAurus is the worst of all.

Women Bulls are very possessive, nervous, fatalistic, thinking too practical, they must fulfill the traditional role even by force, Capricorn man is a freelancer, do not like to be choking, he is independent, man Capricorn thinks abstractly, and Taurus girls cant that understand.
The best connection for a man of Capricorn is the one with the Virgo girl.

CApricorn rule 10 house horoscop,He is natural cheef,He is a leader, a lot of his career is more important than the emotions that are familiar.

Posted by ennzo38
relationship between men CApricorn and women TAurus is the worst of all.

Women Bulls are very possessive, nervous, fatalistic, thinking too practical, they must fulfill the traditional role even by force, Capricorn man is a freelancer, do not like to be choking, he is independent, man Capricorn thinks abstractly, and Taurus girls cant that understand.
The best connection for a man of Capricorn is the one with the Virgo girl.

CApricorn rule 10 house horoscop,He is natural cheef,He is a leader, a lot of his career is more important than the emotions that are familiar.

I've been seeing a capricorn and I'm a taurus lady but we get along great... I give him his space, I never question his actions and I trust him. I agree that we can be possessive and forceful but as long as we keep ourselves in check we make a fine couple. and the sex.... is AMAZING😉