What has gotten your capricorn man to commit? How long before a relationship started?

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Ilikejeffy
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8 Years

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I known my cap for 11 years. We started talking on and off for past two years. He always dissappear but we get closer each time.

My cap recently dissappear two days ago after we spent a long night together. He was telling me how he feels like we are soo connected now and he would want to start a relationship soon (he left twice before because he wasn't ready for us to move a step closer) he was telling me how hell yea he really enjoy spending time with me and then went from contacting me each day to nothing for the last 2 days. Last text I sent him was me telling him Im not into casual sex but as long as he wants me there im here long term. (We never had aex) I called him today and he sound quite vague on the phone. I just said bye and I was calling to see how he is doing...what should I do now...
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SweetestFatale
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18 Years1,000+ Posts

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Left him cold turkey when he said he wasn't ready. Was civil but short when he contacted me. Kept working out and lost 10 more lbs. Posted a pic looking amazing. Maybe 20 minutes later get a text "You're going to be mad at me. I'm coming to see you. I can't NOT see you." He shows up, pleads his case, proposes on one knee with a ring he made for me to be his girlfriend and that we spend the rest of our lives getting to know one another.

I think he realized I wasn't as torn up and stuck as he thought. I was going on without him. If he wants you he will act. Stand firm and let him know that you won't accept anything less than a proper relationship and that if he won't oblige you WILL HAVE TO move along.
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rochellea
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8 Years

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I known my cap for 11 years. We started talking on and off for past two years. He always dissappear but we get closer each time.

My cap recently dissappear two days ago after we spent a long night together. He was telling me how he feels like we are soo connected now and he would want to start a relationship soon (he left twice before because he wasn't ready for us to move a step closer) he was telling me how hell yea he really enjoy spending time with me and then went from contacting me each day to nothing for the last 2 days. Last text I sent him was me telling him Im not into casual sex but as long as he wants me there im here long term. (We never had aex) I called him today and he sound quite vague on the phone. I just said bye and I was calling to see how he is doing...what should I do now...
*What is your and his age? What is your zodiac sun sign?

11 years is a long time to know someone and feel like you do about your Cap man.

I am a Cap female and have had very close relationships with 2 Cap men. I don't find them difficult at all.