lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts
Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
What is going on with this Capricorn guy? (Page 2)
You are on page out of 3 | Reverse Order
Posted by lisabethur8
got cut off...but damn what a break down O___O
it sounds so much work just to be with this guy. it should be black and white to me.
yeah it is a lot of work.... it's annoying. I usually lose interest in guys fast but maybe that's why I'm so drawn to him, he's sorta challenging... nothing lost, nothing gained. 🙂
Posted by Orangedreamsyou sound like you are wearing the pants. lol 😛Posted by lisabethur8
got cut off...but damn what a break down O___O
it sounds so much work just to be with this guy. it should be black and white to me.
yeah it is a lot of work.... it's annoying. I usually lose interest in guys fast but maybe that's why I'm so drawn to him, he's sorta challenging... nothing lost, nothing gained. 🙂click to expand
you want a challenge? heehee.
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
or run away.
😆
Posted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?
Posted by Orangedreamswhat continent?? O_OPosted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by lisabethur8Why would he /should he pursue her?!! He has already "milked" her.... next!!!!
besides he is the MAN. he should act like the man in my eyes, he should PURSUE you, tell you that he wants to marry you and make a home with you and a family. That should be the end of discussion.
You tarzan me Jane kind of deal. And a cozy little cottage where you snuggle and huggle lots.click to expand
I guess if you're living in a world where people milk each other and are just after sex this would make sense. Pretty sure not all guys just want sex and to "milk" girls whenever they can.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Orangedreamswhat continent?? O_OPosted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?click to expand
A very progressive city here in the states 🙂
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by OrangedreamsBecause as much as you little girls want to kid yourselves that society's attitude has changed, it has notPosted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?
Men are the hunters and they still prefer to hunt ie pursue. Caps are earth signs and old fashioned and prefer to hunt.. You already handed yourself to him on a platter way way too easily no challenge involved.. There's nothing left for him to do other than pursue another target which will be less easy to obtain... You are no challenge...click to expand
I can see what you're saying, but I don't like your approach. It's very condescending.
Posted by OrangedreamsIn college? Yes, most guys do.Posted by busyeyes88Posted by lisabethur8Why would he /should he pursue her?!! He has already "milked" her.... next!!!!
besides he is the MAN. he should act like the man in my eyes, he should PURSUE you, tell you that he wants to marry you and make a home with you and a family. That should be the end of discussion.
You tarzan me Jane kind of deal. And a cozy little cottage where you snuggle and huggle lots.
I guess if you're living in a world where people milk each other and are just after sex this would make sense. Pretty sure not all guys just want sex and to "milk" girls whenever they can.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88lolPosted by OrangedreamsThat is exactly the world were are BOTH living in and 98% of males will sex you without any commitment.... No problem at all!! You will learn!!!Posted by busyeyes88Posted by lisabethur8Why would he /should he pursue her?!! He has already "milked" her.... next!!!!
besides he is the MAN. he should act like the man in my eyes, he should PURSUE you, tell you that he wants to marry you and make a home with you and a family. That should be the end of discussion.
You tarzan me Jane kind of deal. And a cozy little cottage where you snuggle and huggle lots.
I guess if you're living in a world where people milk each other and are just after sex this would make sense. Pretty sure not all guys just want sex and to "milk" girls whenever they can.click to expand
i agree with busy!!! 😆
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by OrangedreamsYou are not supposed to like it... The truth sucks...Posted by busyeyes88Posted by OrangedreamsBecause as much as you little girls want to kid yourselves that society's attitude has changed, it has notPosted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?
Men are the hunters and they still prefer to hunt ie pursue. Caps are earth signs and old fashioned and prefer to hunt.. You already handed yourself to him on a platter way way too easily no challenge involved.. There's nothing left for him to do other than pursue another target which will be less easy to obtain... You are no challenge...
I can see what you're saying, but I don't like your approach. It's very condescending.click to expand
Cool time to be celibate 4 life in that case LOL
Aww come on, ppl. No, it was not a great move for OP to sleep with him so early, but it's done and as far as I'm concerned, she has two options:
1. Try to get the guy from the situation as is.
2. Get a time machine.
And us other than OP also have two options, imo.
1. Give her constructive actual advice (telling her that she slept with him too soon is not advice, btw)
2. Tell her over and over again in different ways that she slept with him too soon, and by that, bore us all to death.
Pick'n choose.
1. Try to get the guy from the situation as is.
2. Get a time machine.
And us other than OP also have two options, imo.
1. Give her constructive actual advice (telling her that she slept with him too soon is not advice, btw)
2. Tell her over and over again in different ways that she slept with him too soon, and by that, bore us all to death.
Pick'n choose.
Posted by HappyCapper
Aww come on, ppl. No, it was not a great move for OP to sleep with him so early, but it's done and as far as I'm concerned, she has two options:
1. Try to get the guy from the situation as is.
2. Get a time machine.
And us other than OP also have two options, imo.
1. Give her constructive actual advice (telling her that she slept with him too soon is not advice, btw)
2. Tell her over and over again in different ways that she slept with him too soon, and by that, bore us all to death.
Pick'n choose.
ugh I love u
Posted by busyeyes88no it isn't... she wants to hear something else.
ADVICE OP... Give up and this horse! Find another and then keep your legs shut!!
This horse was a trial run!!
Is this advice better?!!!
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
WHY NOT? why hold back now
Posted by busyeyes88not to mention, i find it a TURN OFF when men act like women.Posted by OrangedreamsBecause as much as you little girls want to kid yourselves that society's attitude has changed, it has notPosted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?
Men are the hunters and they still prefer to hunt ie pursue. Caps are earth signs and old fashioned and prefer to hunt.. You already handed yourself to him on a platter way way too easily no challenge involved.. There's nothing left for him to do other than pursue another target which will be less easy to obtain... You are no challenge...click to expand
Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
why are u even here? take that attitude somewhere else missy
Good lord..
Give her a break already. OP, you can relax.. I don't see you sleeping with him as big a drawback for you as many others here seem to think it is.
This is the classic reason people point to to explain his distance...because: it requires a minimum of thinking/analyzing..not because it is right..and at the same time it makes you feel like you've done a big, inreversible mistake, fkks your head up even more.
Congrats to all of you, helping with this!
Personally I would feel backstabbed if the girl who wanted to come home with me showed no interest in being intimate..Wouldn't judge her, but I would question it (for my self), and feel kinda awkward about it. He knows he got you if he wants to, and that is a-ok! You can absolutely use this to your advantage.
I think the number one thing you should try to do for yourself, is accepting the situation. Accept that it is what it is. It doesn't feel good, and it's not what you hoped for, but here you are. Shitty luck!
This will require some time and begins with you slowly managing to distance yourself from your feelings, wich are the main reason you stay up thinking all night, not eating, sleeping and not at all concentrating in other things. It is not the guy doing this, your feelings are.
Number two, wich you ofc do simultaneously.. Begin to not excpect anything. Excpectations will kill you...at least try to kill you. They will bring you to the ground. The same goes for hoping too much.
Distance yourself from this. This also takes time. You have to be patient as your brain needs to adapt. It takes a lot of willpower and energy.. Not at least because you secretly don't want to do it..you want him to come around so you can breathe free, put your mind to ease, and use all this energy on him instead. I know this very well.
As a woman you have the upper hand. I can understand you don't think that.. And that's because of his cap-ness. Being a smart, patient, all cool no stress-kinda guy. Well, guess what. His brain is about to be challenged with you pretty soon.
When you find peace and accepting the situation is where the fun (for you, not him) starts. Then you can twist and bend and aim right and think straight about this and how to deal with him, giving you more confidence. You need to be in control!
If this is an option for you, try making him a little jealous.. Not with another guy, but with a situation or something. Update something on your social media, be casual and happy.."looking forward to janes birthdayparty this weekend. Gonna be a blast"...whatever.. u get it.. He will not show jealosy.. But it gets his brain going. Stick it to him in small portions.. But as I said before, balance it. Try saying no to him some time..altough he almost never reach out..try it and propose something else, another date or such.. This way you will be in control.
And yeah.. U will not loose feelings for him doing it this way, but you will control them better 🙂
Give her a break already. OP, you can relax.. I don't see you sleeping with him as big a drawback for you as many others here seem to think it is.
This is the classic reason people point to to explain his distance...because: it requires a minimum of thinking/analyzing..not because it is right..and at the same time it makes you feel like you've done a big, inreversible mistake, fkks your head up even more.
Congrats to all of you, helping with this!
Personally I would feel backstabbed if the girl who wanted to come home with me showed no interest in being intimate..Wouldn't judge her, but I would question it (for my self), and feel kinda awkward about it. He knows he got you if he wants to, and that is a-ok! You can absolutely use this to your advantage.
I think the number one thing you should try to do for yourself, is accepting the situation. Accept that it is what it is. It doesn't feel good, and it's not what you hoped for, but here you are. Shitty luck!
This will require some time and begins with you slowly managing to distance yourself from your feelings, wich are the main reason you stay up thinking all night, not eating, sleeping and not at all concentrating in other things. It is not the guy doing this, your feelings are.
Number two, wich you ofc do simultaneously.. Begin to not excpect anything. Excpectations will kill you...at least try to kill you. They will bring you to the ground. The same goes for hoping too much.
Distance yourself from this. This also takes time. You have to be patient as your brain needs to adapt. It takes a lot of willpower and energy.. Not at least because you secretly don't want to do it..you want him to come around so you can breathe free, put your mind to ease, and use all this energy on him instead. I know this very well.
As a woman you have the upper hand. I can understand you don't think that.. And that's because of his cap-ness. Being a smart, patient, all cool no stress-kinda guy. Well, guess what. His brain is about to be challenged with you pretty soon.
When you find peace and accepting the situation is where the fun (for you, not him) starts. Then you can twist and bend and aim right and think straight about this and how to deal with him, giving you more confidence. You need to be in control!
If this is an option for you, try making him a little jealous.. Not with another guy, but with a situation or something. Update something on your social media, be casual and happy.."looking forward to janes birthdayparty this weekend. Gonna be a blast"...whatever.. u get it.. He will not show jealosy.. But it gets his brain going. Stick it to him in small portions.. But as I said before, balance it. Try saying no to him some time..altough he almost never reach out..try it and propose something else, another date or such.. This way you will be in control.
And yeah.. U will not loose feelings for him doing it this way, but you will control them better 🙂
Posted by Orangedreamsyou don't like what people say? don't post in public forums...Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
why are u even here? take that attitude somewhere else missyclick to expand
Good luck but next time have some self respect.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by Orangedreamsyou don't like what people say? don't post in public forums...Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
why are u even here? take that attitude somewhere else missy
Good luck but next time have some self respect.click to expand
LOL
Posted by busyeyes88Posted by OrangedreamsEr.... Yeah!! I'm practically a nun!!!Posted by busyeyes88Posted by OrangedreamsYou are not supposed to like it... The truth sucks...Posted by busyeyes88Posted by OrangedreamsBecause as much as you little girls want to kid yourselves that society's attitude has changed, it has notPosted by lisabethur8
send this to him; "he'll get it."
or run away.
😆
haha he would be mortified and probably just look at me like i'm crazy. seems like where I live, gender roles are reversing. Us girls don't want to wait and settle for guys to pick us, why can't we pick who we want?
Men are the hunters and they still prefer to hunt ie pursue. Caps are earth signs and old fashioned and prefer to hunt.. You already handed yourself to him on a platter way way too easily no challenge involved.. There's nothing left for him to do other than pursue another target which will be less easy to obtain... You are no challenge...
I can see what you're saying, but I don't like your approach. It's very condescending.
Cool time to be celibate 4 life in that case LOL
I held out for taurus. He officially asked me to exclusively date him four times... I have not had sex with him, he has been my rock, still has the hots for me and we have been able to form a strong bond.. Keep your legs shut and get to know the person first... Make your Deal and then sign the contract...click to expand
My most recent ex is a Taurean, I could not deal with his eagerness. He was a good guy though.. Just wayyyy too serious for what I'm looking for. They def know how to treat a lady 🙂
Posted by Orangedreams😄Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by Orangedreamsyou don't like what people say? don't post in public forums...Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
why are u even here? take that attitude somewhere else missy
Good luck but next time have some self respect.
LOLclick to expand
Posted by Capn
Good lord..
Give her a break already. OP, you can relax.. I don't see you sleeping with him as big a drawback for you as many others here seem to think it is.
This is the classic reason people point to to explain his distance...because: it requires a minimum of thinking/analyzing..not because it is right..and at the same time it makes you feel like you've done a big, inreversible mistake, fkks your head up even more.
Congrats to all of you, helping with this!
Personally I would feel backstabbed if the girl who wanted to come home with me showed no interest in being intimate..Wouldn't judge her, but I would question it (for my self), and feel kinda awkward about it. He knows he got you if he wants to, and that is a-ok! You can absolutely use this to your advantage.
I think the number one thing you should try to do for yourself, is accepting the situation. Accept that it is what it is. It doesn't feel good, and it's not what you hoped for, but here you are. Shitty luck!
This will require some time and begins with you slowly managing to distance yourself from your feelings, wich are the main reason you stay up thinking all night, not eating, sleeping and not at all concentrating in other things. It is not the guy doing this, your feelings are.
Number two, wich you ofc do simultaneously.. Begin to not excpect anything. Excpectations will kill you...at least try to kill you. They will bring you to the ground. The same goes for hoping too much.
Distance yourself from this. This also takes time. You have to be patient as your brain needs to adapt. It takes a lot of willpower and energy.. Not at least because you secretly don't want to do it..you want him to come around so you can breathe free, put your mind to ease, and use all this energy on him instead. I know this very well.
As a woman you have the upper hand. I can understand you don't think that.. And that's because of his cap-ness. Being a smart, patient, all cool no stress-kinda guy. Well, guess what. His brain is about to be challenged with you pretty soon.
When you find peace and accepting the situation is where the fun (for you, not him) starts. Then you can twist and bend and aim right and think straight about this and how to deal with him, giving you more confidence. You need to be in control!
If this is an option for you, try making him a little jealous.. Not with another guy, but with a situation or something. Update something on your social media, be casual and happy.."looking forward to janes birthdayparty this weekend. Gonna be a blast"...whatever.. u get it.. He will not show jealosy.. But it gets his brain going. Stick it to him in small portions.. But as I said before, balance it. Try saying no to him some time..altough he almost never reach out..try it and propose some
Male point of view before any involvement....^
Posted by HappyCapperLol
Aww come on, ppl. No, it was not a great move for OP to sleep with him so early, but it's done and as far as I'm concerned, she has two options:
1. Try to get the guy from the situation as is.
2. Get a time machine.
And us other than OP also have two options, imo.
1. Give her constructive actual advice (telling her that she slept with him too soon is not advice, btw)
2. Tell her over and over again in different ways that she slept with him too soon, and by that, bore us all to death.
Pick'n choose.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Male point of view before any involvement....^
Yeah that's what I'm thinking..So nice and refreshing to have MALE CAPPIE pov
Posted by aquapiscescuspHi there!
Male point of view before any involvement....^
Thank you for commenting. Would love to hear why that is your opinion. Maybe I agree too.
You know, even though one is anonymus here and you can write almost whatever you want, there is no need to be trolling.
I see a lot of people coming here with questions regarding relations to others, me included.. Hey, maybe that was the reason you signed up in the first place to.
People do things, say things, act, wonder, have hopes and dreams, searching for love etc etc.
There's no shame in contacting others in a public forum needing advice and guidance.
You seem to judge rather quickly, and doing it in a way that offends most people.
I guess you wont tell us why..? I'd love to hear it, though. And I will not be judgemental.
People here come down hard on OP for being sexual.. wow, big deal. I guess you also judge the guy then. No? No comments telling OP what an easy, unclassy guy he is..? No-one?
Have fun living in the 17th century! 🙂
Posted by CapnCapn you gave the best advise to the OP, very insightfulPosted by aquapiscescuspHi there!
Male point of view before any involvement....^
Thank you for commenting. Would love to hear why that is your opinion. Maybe I agree too.
You know, even though one is anonymus here and you can write almost whatever you want, there is no need to be trolling.
I see a lot of people coming here with questions regarding relations to others, me included.. Hey, maybe that was the reason you signed up in the first place to.
People do things, say things, act, wonder, have hopes and dreams, searching for love etc etc.
There's no shame in contacting others in a public forum needing advice and guidance.
You seem to judge rather quickly, and doing it in a way that offends most people.
I guess you wont tell us why..? I'd love to hear it, though. And I will not be judgemental.
People here come down hard on OP for being sexual.. wow, big deal. I guess you also judge the guy then. No? No comments telling OP what an easy, unclassy guy he is..? No-one?
Have fun living in the 17th century! 🙂click to expand
I dont get this sex bashing thing at all...... milk for free?? hello 🙂 its your personality that counts
Posted by champrangeryeah, he may think he is just another friend, not the chosen "One" 🙂Posted by OrangedreamsIt might not be. I would give a more obvious green light than just asking to do homework together.Posted by champrangerPosted by OrangedreamsDoes he know you like him? Maybe he thinks you think of him as just a friend?
.
so then i started texting him randomly like "hey come hang out with me and my friends" or "hey lets do homework together" and he would always be like I'm sorry I can't. consistently so I'm like okay he doesn't like me anymore and felt rejected. so then I started ignoring and avoiding him in class.
No I haven't told him I liked him, I thought it was obvious.
IMO 🙂click to expand
Just wanted to add that the reason I thought this:
"be friendly, be happy to see him, give a green light so it sets him up to ask YOU." (originally written by truecap)
would be the best way to go was that if he is shy(I don't know if he is, but he may be) he will gain greatly in confidence if you can make him feel like he has hunted you down.
"be friendly, be happy to see him, give a green light so it sets him up to ask YOU." (originally written by truecap)
would be the best way to go was that if he is shy(I don't know if he is, but he may be) he will gain greatly in confidence if you can make him feel like he has hunted you down.
Posted by Pandora101Yup. Some guys are just completely dense when it comes to that.Posted by champrangeryeah, he may think he is just another friend, not the chosen "One" 🙂Posted by OrangedreamsIt might not be. I would give a more obvious green light than just asking to do homework together.Posted by champrangerPosted by OrangedreamsDoes he know you like him? Maybe he thinks you think of him as just a friend?
.
so then i started texting him randomly like "hey come hang out with me and my friends" or "hey lets do homework together" and he would always be like I'm sorry I can't. consistently so I'm like okay he doesn't like me anymore and felt rejected. so then I started ignoring and avoiding him in class.
No I haven't told him I liked him, I thought it was obvious.
IMO 🙂click to expand
Posted by champrangerPosted by OrangedreamsIt might not be. I would give a more obvious green light than just asking to do homework together.Posted by champrangerPosted by OrangedreamsDoes he know you like him? Maybe he thinks you think of him as just a friend?
.
so then i started texting him randomly like "hey come hang out with me and my friends" or "hey lets do homework together" and he would always be like I'm sorry I can't. consistently so I'm like okay he doesn't like me anymore and felt rejected. so then I started ignoring and avoiding him in class.
No I haven't told him I liked him, I thought it was obvious.
IMO 🙂click to expand
Green light like how? Ask him out—
I told you how on page 2 of this thread.
*smh*
*smh*
Capn your advice is pretty much on point. If you really care about him and try to make him jealous please don't go overboard with that technique because that can backfire on you and you'll be the one feeling hurt. Remember you want this man more than he want you at this point. If you play games with him he will see right through it. Earlier you stated that he won’t argue with you. That's may not be in his nature. They don’t like drama at all!!!
Posted by CapnOh get off your high horse 😄 white knightPosted by aquapiscescuspHi there!
Male point of view before any involvement....^
Thank you for commenting. Would love to hear why that is your opinion. Maybe I agree too.
You know, even though one is anonymus here and you can write almost whatever you want, there is no need to be trolling.
I see a lot of people coming here with questions regarding relations to others, me included.. Hey, maybe that was the reason you signed up in the first place to.
People do things, say things, act, wonder, have hopes and dreams, searching for love etc etc.
There's no shame in contacting others in a public forum needing advice and guidance.
You seem to judge rather quickly, and doing it in a way that offends most people.
I guess you wont tell us why..? I'd love to hear it, though. And I will not be judgemental.
People here come down hard on OP for being sexual.. wow, big deal. I guess you also judge the guy then. No? No comments telling OP what an easy, unclassy guy he is..? No-one?
Have fun living in the 17th century! 🙂click to expand
Posted by lou.mAnd they exhaust us, drain us. We tire of the drama. But, yet we are the as assholes when we walk away.Posted by faith $ golphinCappies are oblivious to drama. They don't sense it they don't feel it. It's why overly emotional people tend to gravitate towards them.
Capn your advice is pretty much on point. If you really care about him and try to make him jealous please don't go overboard with that technique because that can backfire on you and you'll be the one feeling hurt. Remember you want this man more than he want you at this point. If you play games with him he will see right through it. Earlier you stated that he won’t argue with you. That's may not be in his nature. They don’t like drama at all!!!click to expand
Posted by lou.mPosted by faith $ golphinCappies are oblivious to drama. They don't sense it they don't feel it. It's why overly emotional people tend to gravitate towards them.
Capn your advice is pretty much on point. If you really care about him and try to make him jealous please don't go overboard with that technique because that can backfire on you and you'll be the one feeling hurt. Remember you want this man more than he want you at this point. If you play games with him he will see right through it. Earlier you stated that he won’t argue with you. That's may not be in his nature. They don’t like drama at all!!!click to expand
I wouldn't go that far. A lot of my Capricorn friends attract drama in their lives because they are never satisfied with what they have, they are sometimes pessimistic and want more than they have and get into a really weird funk I don't understand.... I dont really agree with them attracting "overly emotional" people.
Posted by lou.mPosted by OrangedreamsI don't claim to understand them. It was just my experience with my ex.Posted by lou.mPosted by faith $ golphinCappies are oblivious to drama. They don't sense it they don't feel it. It's why overly emotional people tend to gravitate towards them.
Capn your advice is pretty much on point. If you really care about him and try to make him jealous please don't go overboard with that technique because that can backfire on you and you'll be the one feeling hurt. Remember you want this man more than he want you at this point. If you play games with him he will see right through it. Earlier you stated that he won’t argue with you. That's may not be in his nature. They don’t like drama at all!!!
I wouldn't go that far. A lot of my Capricorn friends attract drama in their lives because they are never satisfied with what they have, they are sometimes pessimistic and want more than they have and get into a really weird funk I don't understand.... I dont really agree with them attracting "overly emotional" people.click to expand
What was she like..,?
Posted by ShadowAbsorberHow is that rude? LolPosted by aquapiscescusp@aquapisces You are SO rude!Posted by Orangedreamsyou don't like what people say? don't post in public forums...Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
why are u even here? take that attitude somewhere else missy
Good luck but next time have some self respect.click to expand
becauae I don't have the same opinion as you ? Pahhhhlease 🙂
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
OP, do you have Venus in Capricorn?
And I understand why you would hook up with him, because you've liked him for a long time. Don't let what people say put you down or feel ashamed, if this cap guy wasn't a dick, then he will still like you and treat you with respect!
Yep 🙂 my Venus is in cap!
Thank you for the kind words
Posted by OrangedreamsPosted by ShadowAbsorber
OP, do you have Venus in Capricorn?
And I understand why you would hook up with him, because you've liked him for a long time. Don't let what people say put you down or feel ashamed, if this cap guy wasn't a dick, then he will still like you and treat you with respect!click to expand
Yep 🙂 my Venus is in cap!
Thank you for the kind words
How's it going, did he contact you finally?
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by OrangedreamsPosted by ShadowAbsorber
OP, do you have Venus in Capricorn?
And I understand why you would hook up with him, because you've liked him for a long time. Don't let what people say put you down or feel ashamed, if this cap guy wasn't a dick, then he will still like you and treat you with respect!
Yep 🙂 my Venus is in cap!
Thank you for the kind words
How's it going, did he contact you finally?click to expand
We have been on holiday break. He told me about some concert this week but I didn't text him to ask him about it because I was busy that day. I'll just see him in class. He's not the only guy I'm interested in, but I like him the most. oh well...
Posted by ShadowAbsorberNut jobPosted by aquapiscescuspThe way you're treating her is dismissing the fact that she is seeking a relationship with this guy. Where on EARTH did she post that she wanted a "repeat of last time"? Watch your fucking tone when you speak to her. Do not allude to her being a whore in any way. Have some self-respect by respecting other people.Posted by ShadowAbsorberHow is that rude? LolPosted by aquapiscescusp@aquapisces You are SO rude!Posted by Orangedreamsyou don't like what people say? don't post in public forums...Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think you should call him up, because you want a repeat of last time you got together.
WHY NOT? why hold back now
why are u even here? take that attitude somewhere else missy
Good luck but next time have some self respect.
becauae I don't have the same opinion as you ? Pahhhhlease 🙂click to expand
Posted by OrangedreamsPosted by aquapiscescuspCap men are a strange phenomenon, wait for him to a make next move...Posted by OrangedreamsPosted by ShadowAbsorber
OP, do you have Venus in Capricorn?
And I understand why you would hook up with him, because you've liked him for a long time. Don't let what people say put you down or feel ashamed, if this cap guy wasn't a dick, then he will still like you and treat you with respect!
Yep 🙂 my Venus is in cap!
Thank you for the kind words
How's it going, did he contact you finally?
We have been on holiday break. He told me about some concert this week but I didn't text him to ask him about it because I was busy that day. I'll just see him in class. He's not the only guy I'm interested in, but I like him the most. oh well...click to expand
Posted by ShadowAbsorberHaha I don't think anyone cares
P.S. OP, I am in love w/ Aquarius w/ Venus in Capricorn ppl. They are such a nice breed. 🙂
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
how is aquapisces gonna come around & start asking OP for a follow-up as if she cares. OP, why are you even giving this person the time of day after this bitch was so rude??
Just wanted to give an update about what's going on. This thread is actually kinda helping me get over him or feel like I like him less and less. I appreciate the support
Posted by ShadowAbsorberStay away from my man!! Lol
P.S. OP, I am in love w/ Aquarius w/ Venus in Capricorn ppl. They are such a nice breed. 🙂
😄
Update: I figured out why he's being so distant/weird/slow. He's moving back home after we graduate college this semester. He probably doesn't want to be tied down. Anyways, everyone's advice has really helped me slowly move on away from him. I'm an out of sight out of mind person, so not seeing him anymore will make it a lot easier. Thank you everyone
No, he doesn't want to be tied down. The future is wide open with career and he should be able to move wherever he needs to for his career without any ties/guilt/restrictions. And long distance relationships are not only impractical, they are also not very feasible. Caps are realistic like that.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
☺ï¸ I never meet caps I mean never ! So a couple weeks ago there's this new guy at work. Totally chill laid back dry humor and we have esp I swear . Anyways today I find out he's a cap . I'm excited! Never had a cap friend before .yay
I read something that I believe applies: "Capricorn prefers to plan sexual encounters and then proceed according to plan. A seduction feels like cooperation, foreplay like a warm-up, and intercourse like work. It should take time, and it should have a
One of the biggest complaints I see about Caps is that we don't open up to people. People say that's the way to really get to know one another and they have a hard time getting to know us because we don't open up. Yes, we are definitely selective with who
Hello to all, thanks for taking the time to read. I'm strongly attracted to this Capricorn, but don't know if I should proceed. I believe I already may have pushed him away with my emotional and being bipolar and what not we started talking on face
So I met this Capricorn a week ago. He gave me his number the Friday so I messaged him the Saturday afternoon. Every thing seemed great lots of chat getting to know each other we have a few things in common which is good. We were speaking for the whole we
This is a pretty good article on cappy, especially the men. Capricorn Capricorn, like Virgo, gets a bad rap. Cap may not have the pizazz of a Gemini or the downright sultriness of a Scorpio.However, Cap is the real deal. Gemini can be here today and
We went for a drive yesterday. Cap says " i'm hungry". Stops at a bakkery. Asks what i want. I say " 2 croissants". He came back 10 minutes later with 3 pastries. I say " where are the croissants" He says " didn't ask for them", " those pastries did lo
I have a regular normal question: Why do I feel that Capricorn people are the most egoistic people ever? Or it just appears that they are egoistic but inside they are a sweetener? If you guys are really very very sweet, then why do you like to appear
Met a male cap in December went out twice in January & ever since then all he's done is make plans & cancel . I admit I might have come off a little too strong but stopped after I noticed. The last 3 times he asked to go out I said I was busy & maybe anot
Hey caps. I know it's a trait for us to be condescending at times, especially when we have tried other means to communicate with someone and they just aren't getting it. How do you guys feel about this? Do you try to prevent it? How do you go about avoidi
Ok so my Cap and I are obviously very different. He's the type that isn't emotional in day to day life. Ie. asking about my day, or how I am feeling etc. He'll do it once in a blue moon, but not often at all. Instead, he's all about doing practical things
Really sucks sometimes... always struggling and working hard while others breeze by or are just naturally lucky. ''
Hi, I am all new here and I could really do with some advice from someone. I have met this cap over work, who works for my company in another city (5 hours drive). We have talked and skyped for about 3 weeks when he decided to come and meet me. We spen
Out of curiosity, have you ever cheated? If so, why? More details the better :)
Hey dear lunar Cappies hope y'all doing good. So What do you do when you get hurt by someone very deeply. Recently something similar happened in my life I got hurt very deeply my trust has been broken a bit and I (being a lunar cappy) found myself freezin
If someone says something to them and they immediately think the worst of themselves....no one's perfect? Some things you can't control in life? Why can't they talk about such things? Even if talking will not change a thing but will clear things out for t
Any others Aquas out there have a best friend that is a Capricorn? A very annoying one at that? If so, are there times y
Have you ever had a Cappy bf/gf, or married one? How was the experience?
Ever hear that saying "You fight the current on the river and you'll drown but if you don't struggle then you'll live?"
Is it a cappy thing that if you know someone don't like you or is jealous of you, you make it a point to bother with the
You tarzan me Jane kind of deal. And a cozy little cottage where you snuggle and huggle lots.