When things are too good..where's your mindset at?

My Cap called me very late to tell me he has alot on his mind and its keeping him up. He said things are to good to be true. Everything's going right for him and it scares him.

Very short back story.

Before we started dating, he told me a list of things he wanted to accomplish. He wanted this year to be his year so I've helped and supported him to make it a reality. He's done 4 out 5 already.

He said he feels like he's got the world in his hands and that he can do anything.

To me it's amazing! I whole heartily want him to be happy and do what he wants in life.

But he's definatly waiting for something to go wrong, I can tell..Or is it wanting something to go wrong..

So my first question, is it possible for a cap to just be happy and enjoy the moment?

Second question, should I be concerned that he may start things just to create problems for himself?

Thrid question, What can a S/O do in a situation like this? Or is it really just a Caps burden to bear..

sometime it is like 'whens the other shoe going to drop' lol. a storm always come. what kind of storm is the question. i try not to let it mess up my fun on the good times but it slips in there from time to time. so i tell myself enjoy the fun while it last.

Posted by WitchmitchAries
sometime it is like 'whens the other shoe going to drop' lol. a storm always come. what kind of storm is the question. i try not to let it mess up my fun on the good times but it slips in there from time to time. so i tell myself enjoy the fun while it last.

I used to think the same haha. But now, while it's good I know it can get better! I use to worry and contemplate what my next move should be and if it goes wrong to be prepared and come up with ABC planning. It's exhausting. Lol. I live day by day not worrying what's to come next, so I can understand it in others to an extant.

Always try to stay level headed in good times and bad times. Expect the worst, hope for the best.