Whoever yall are, you might have saved me.

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by OhGabriel on Thursday, June 2, 2011 and has 14 replies.

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@highfructosecornsyrup
15 YearsCancer

These are actually not traits typical of a Capricorn. I suspect some Sag influence prominantly placed in your chart. Capricorn is actually a sign to stability, though they are a cardinal sign that initiates change.

Do you know your time of birth and the exact place you were born?

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@highfructosecornsyrup
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@Gabe - is it safe to say between 2am and 3am? no later than 3am? that would actually be good enough.

We can get some clues from the planets but houses are equally important.

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@lnana04
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I wish I could say that these were not typical Cap traits but I'd be lying.

My thing is, do we sometimes feel horrible because we ARE horrible, or do we feel horrible because we are perfectionistst thus causing us to be extra critical, judgemental, and hard on ourselves?

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@lnana04
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Idk yall. Our charts are completely different but if I'm honest with myself I can relate to nearly everything he wrote.

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@highfructosecornsyrup
15 YearsCancer

Capricorn trait - let's not jump to conclusions 🙂 If we can get a good estimate on the houses we can least look at the house rulers and where they reside to also check up on some of these.

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Posted by lnana04
I wish I could say that these were not typical Cap traits but I'd be lying.

My thing is, do we sometimes feel horrible because we ARE horrible, or do we feel horrible because we are perfectionistst thus causing us to be extra critical, judgemental, and hard on ourselves?

Can happen and Ive been on the receiving end of that a few times, but you know what? Im often the one who at the end of the day gets a text message by my cappy apologizing for how horrible she was at a particular moment of the day. The point is, if you as a cappy's partner, know that she is being overly irrational/bitchy/too emotional at a particular moment, and decide to stick to the "lets talk" approach instead of getting emotional at her, you'll make her realise her mistake without her feeling uncomfortable about it, she gets the opportunity to get rational and sensible again at HER OWN pace.

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And you should never keep the big picture out of sight, caps may have their horrible moments like we all do and trust me..when they are bad, they are the worst lol however if you look at all the pros and cons, they're usually doing an alright job as partners.

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@BoomShakalakaBoom
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And that was a message for you too Gabriel, you're not being rational at this moment, you're only focussing on your flaws/shortcomings. You're not telling us about the whole of you.

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@lnana04
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Heck yeah, many Capricorns are emotional wrecks. I just admitted to my friend I'm one. It's obvious in the thread I posted about the athlete the other day, in Mel Gibson, in Tiger Woods etc.

Even with the success they've reached, it still doesn't get a grip on what goes on inside.

The best thing you can do is pay attention to whatever bothers you. I notice that Caps try to pretend things don't matter, especially something we consider small. My friend does this alot. He'll tell me something that happened then he'll quickly say "but I'm not worried about it" or "it's no big deal" and try to change the subject. If you mentioned it, then it's been on your mind. I think we need to learn to stop for a second and really feel whatever it is that have an affect on us, so it can pass. We try to gloss over too much.

I also think Caps need more hobbies and just different ways to release in general.

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Posted by amethyst2002
Lolz. Oh honey, I think a lot of Capricorn guys your age go through this. The last two in my life were around your age and are doing the SAME thing. Even our mutual friends noticed a lot of the traits you mentioned (esp the moodiness). Just don't be self destructive about it is all. You'll be fine once you get older.

I also think that a lot of the obstacles that Caps have to face are the ones they make for themselves. These last two in particular were always going on about issues of theirs and that was the only thing stopping them. They had all these high hopes and plans of what they wanted to do in the future but neither are going NOWHERE because they're stopping themselves by being self destructive.

That's funny. Singer Tyrese(Capricorn) just wrote a book titled "How To Get Out of Your Own Way." He admits to being self-destructing and sabotaging many good things in his past.

Gab, maybe you should pick up the book. I haven't read it, but I'm sure you will be able to relate to a thing or two since he's a Cap aswell.

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Posted by Strider
I think you should go date a cap chick immediately . Relive all your tensions through her and tree trunk her REALLY REALLY HARD! I think this will finally give you peace and happiness . Then you can marry her and tell her to plan her pregnancy so you can have CAPRICORN kids . After that i believe you should move to a Capricorn country .

Raise your kids well and send them to Yale or Harvard . Then tell them to marry Capricorns ONLY and create a capricorn legacy . Your future heirs will become extremely powerful and will start controlling vast amounts of property .

This is the only way to your sanity ......................

LMAOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Strider
Also stop whining like a teenage brat . Lord Saturn doesn't care about your stupid emo problems . Saturn has worked tirelessly to become the planet known for "Authority and Power" . Do you know how long it took to earn that position ?! Do you ?! Do you think he wants a goat to be whining about some emo bullbutter ? Get out there and make Saturn proud .

BIGGG LMAO!!!! YOU'RE SO FUC KIN RETARD FUNNY MAN..........

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@MissBizarre
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Gabriel, you are being too nice. Any capricorn worth his salt would've placed a curse on Strider's bowels, reported him to DPX's Most Wanted, and still have completed the crossword puzzle in the newspaper before leaving his manor, to conquer the world.

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@OhGabriel
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Na man up is about right. Ive never whined in my life. Nor am I a brat. No one has ever even daydreamed of calling me either of those. But I guess everything I wrote came off like that. I have this problem where I type what i'm saying in my head. It's more like a "conversation" rather than a post. If that makes sense. I was smiling and being super sarcastic when I wrote all my posts. In a "oh god can you help me now " type of way. I'm no emo. I suffer no fools and cut through the shit. Ha I just thought all this was interesting when I stumbled upon this I was intrigued to see people explaining my very soul to a T. So I spat me some game and it didn't get me very far lol. I tried tho lol. I'm a collector of experiences !....the dramatic online one.. eh I don't think I could really participate to often. Not my thang lol. It was fun though. You guys seem like a fun bunch ! Maybe once the topics change Ill stop by again. Stir the pot a little eh ?

Oh I got one last thing. You all seem fairly diverse. For those of you are glued to this website... What demographic would you say makes up the majority of the people on this site ?

It's weird reading entries from people of all ages, sex's and nations. The shroomery, where I usually chilll at typically is dudes ages 18-30. This dxpnet site is awfully laid back with all this femme energy floating around !!