Why is this man so freakin lost in the sauce?!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by stillstillwater on Friday, July 20, 2018 and has 20 replies.

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Ok GOd bless him. I love him dearly as a friend but damn...

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Venus Scorpio

Gem Mars

He's good with his job. But everything else in life he's such a moaner... and little things make him moody. And not Cap kind of moody where they just get quiet and do their own thing but moaning about it. Also he comes off feminine and he dared one time to slap me in the butt. I was so mad and will punch him next time he tries some shit like that. Grown man...doesn't know you can't just do that!

Also he sends me million texts a day about nothing interesting n particular like how he got emails from yelp about new restaurants. I'm just like uh huh.

Supposedly Caps are good planners ( i know i am ) but he's so lost in the sauce and asks advice on the most miniscule shit. One time I drive all the way to his house to take him to work bcz of car problems and then he changes his mind taht he will take the train. I was pissed but was all like no problem. Then msgs me from the train station like they won't take cash and i forgot my card. LMAO! I was like ok, just stop the nonsense I'm picking you up and taking you to work. No ifs and buts.

I guess this a vent and more than anything I'm so curious about him because other than his negativity at the sight of anything new, he doesn't strike me as a Cap. Very sensitive. Changes his story every day. One day he wants a new apt. Another day he wants to move back up north.

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The first time I told him about a traumatizing event in my life, he laughed at my face. Then he was wondering why I'm so reserved. Always saying things like when will you just open up, you're so reserved and cold bla bla bla.

This guy is a gem.

But he's also the sweetest and will help with anything you need.

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Posted by Caliope

Posted by stillstillwater

The first time I told him about a traumatizing event in my life, he laughed at my face. Then he was wondering why I'm so reserved. Always saying things like when will you just open up, you're so reserved and cold bla bla bla.

This guy is a gem.

But he's also the sweetest and will help with anything you need.

How rude lol

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lol yes exactly! But we have that type of relationship where I can just tell him FUCK YOU! And we'll be fine and move on.

But i still won't let it die down. That'll be like my forever weapon against him.

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Posted by Sagicorn

Reminds me a bit about my ex Cap. One time, he parked a car literally 2m away from atm to go pick some money. He comes to the card and says shit, I lost my credit card...and I'm like how? Where, when?

He says, well now, from the ATM to a car...I'm thinking how's that even possible? He goes to the ATM and card isn't there or on the way to the card...someone probably took it from ATM right after he left it or something. So I ask aren't you going to call a bank to report you lost a card? Nah, I can do it tomorrow. Then tomorrow, did you report your card, nah, not yet...all in all that guy was so nonchalant about everything in life that you'd never take him as a Cap either lol well that one seems like he's all over the place, sounding like Gemini but he only has Mars in Gemini so not sure if that all can be ding from Mars alone lol Libra possibly too? Not organized even though they want to be so badly? Not sure, just guessing lol

lol what was your ex Cap chart?

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Posted by Dreamyboy

Posted by stillstillwater

Ok GOd bless him. I love him dearly as a friend but damn...

Cap

Libra Moon

Cap Merc

Venus Scorpio

Gem Mars

He's good with his job. But everything else in life he's such a moaner... and little things make him moody. And not Cap kind of moody where they just get quiet and do their own thing but moaning about it. Also he comes off feminine and he dared one time to slap me in the butt. I was so mad and will punch him next time he tries some shit like that. Grown man...doesn't know you can't just do that!

Also he sends me million texts a day about nothing interesting n particular like how he got emails from yelp about new restaurants. I'm just like uh huh.

Supposedly Caps are good planners ( i know i am ) but he's so lost in the sauce and asks advice on the most miniscule shit. One time I drive all the way to his house to take him to work bcz of car problems and then he changes his mind taht he will take the train. I was pissed but was all like no problem. Then msgs me from the train station like they won't take cash and i forgot my card. LMAO! I was like ok, just stop the nonsense I'm picking you up and taking you to work. No ifs and buts.

I guess this a vent and more than anything I'm so curious about him because other than his negativity at the sight of anything new, he doesn't strike me as a Cap. Very sensitive. Changes his story every day. One day he wants a new apt. Another day he wants to move back up north.

That leeb moon and square merc I suspect is your problem 😬

Teeter tottering between two different realms there

AND the gem mars! A finger in every pie

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I'm trying to think of ways that he's a Cap:

- he's cheap and brings out his coupons lol

- his house is nice & clean

- he's considerate when I come over

- offers help all the time

I guess he's just a really good person! But yes his lack of planning and moodiness is offbeat.

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Posted by 2Moon

Gem mars, slap in the arse.

😂😂

I was mad then I let it go... but thinking back it makes me more mad. That's my body! Not yours to fucking touch whenever you feel like it...grrrrrr

Men just don't understand. lol! I had a bf who said some girl grabbed his junk and he was just shocked. Not insulted or anything. lol.

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by 2Moon

Gem mars, slap in the arse.

😂😂

I was mad then I let it go... but thinking back it makes me more mad. That's my body! Not yours to fucking touch whenever you feel like it...grrrrrr

Men just don't understand. lol! I had a bf who said some girl grabbed his junk and he was just shocked. Not insulted or anything. lol.

Hahahaha i like when they slap my ass 😄 😜😇

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lol ay. I saw him today and gave him so much shit for it...again.

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Posted by tiziani

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by 2Moon

Gem mars, slap in the arse.

😂😂

I was mad then I let it go... but thinking back it makes me more mad. That's my body! Not yours to fucking touch whenever you feel like it...grrrrrr

Men just don't understand. lol! I had a bf who said some girl grabbed his junk and he was just shocked. Not insulted or anything. lol.

Hahahaha i like when they slap my ass 😄 😜😇

lol ay. I saw him today and gave him so much shit for it...again.

It's a sign of dependency or so I've been told.

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L O L

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Posted by Arielle83

He sounds like the guy I moved to aus for.

He was two faced and pathetic.

Noooo! That's not him at all. He annoys the hell out of me sometimes but honestly he's just the best. If the attraction was there I'd probably marry him because we'd be bffs forever. lol.

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"I'm not giving in fuck that, I want a keeper not a skeezer"

Same man who said, "as i'm getting older I enjoy getting to know people" But then when he got a date he's like I'm tired of this process.

smh...