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Will he regret his decision?
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Next day which was the 31st march... he called me up in the evening..and I was thinking everything was ok even after his goodbye text and he was calling to have a normal conversation with me. He said hi and how are you and what you doing like normal, and I said I was just catching up on some tv series. Next thing I know hes like "I didn't want to just text you a goodbye, we've known each other for this long i thought I would call you". I was too shocked to even speak, i literally had no idea how to react or what to say.. I just ended up saying "whats the point". He said "what do you mean what the point". He said "i'm not going to lie I did like you and I did want to get to know you better, but I think we are from two different worlds and i'm sure you'l make someone very happy some day".
He then continued and said "is there anything you want to say". I said "its kool if thats what you want". But to be honest I was far too surprised to be able to speak or express what I was thinking at that moment. But I suppose thats how I ALWAYS am with him so to be expected.
In hindsight I should have told him more or said more..like where on earth has this all come from but I didnt. I did try to call him the next day but his number had changed.
Two months later and i'm stilll like wth happened.
He thought I was "special"..basically always made out like i was the "one" for him and how much he cared about me and would always bring up marriage.and how he could see me as his future wife..Why would he then say goodbye forever So suddenlyl and change his number so suddenly.
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Next day which was the 31st march... he called me up in the evening..and I was thinking everything was ok even after his goodbye text and he was calling to have a normal conversation with me. He said hi and how are you and what you doing like normal, and I said I was just catching up on some tv series. Next thing I know hes like "I didn't want to just text you a goodbye, we've known each other for this long i thought I would call you". I was too shocked to even speak, i literally had no idea how to react or what to say.. I just ended up saying "whats the point". He said "what do you mean what the point". He said "i'm not going to lie I did like you and I did want to get to know you better, but I think we are from two different worlds and i'm sure you'l make someone very happy some day".
He then continued and said "is there anything you want to say". I said "its kool if thats what you want". But to be honest I was far too surprised to be able to speak or express what I was thinking at that moment. But I suppose thats how I ALWAYS am with him so to be expected.
In hindsight I should have told him more or said more..like where on earth has this all come from but I didnt. I did try to call him the next day but his number had changed.
Two months later and i'm stilll like wth happened.
He thought I was "special"..basically always made out like i was the "one" for him and how much he cared about me and would always bring up marriage.and how he could see me as his future wife..Why would he then say goodbye forever So suddenlyl and change his number so suddenly.
I do care about this person a lot..but i've always had a difficult time expressing my feelings. and that has obviously been the problem
I just want him to come back for real..I just dont kno what exactly to say to him..
for example i do want to facebook him..but i wouldnt even know where to start.
HELP!
I just want him to come back for real..I just dont kno what exactly to say to him..
for example i do want to facebook him..but i wouldnt even know where to start.
HELP!
I'm sorry that he has gone away so suddenly. What are your signs and his? Did he ever explain why he disappeared the first time around for 9 months?
How you responded is how I would have before meeting my Cap if he just disappeared without an explanation. Now I understand that Cap men need a lot of patience and nurturing. It's like they need what Cancers need but don't show it at all.
In your case, it seems like he came back and wanted to make amends/rekindle, but didn't get reassurance from you to proceed. Then when you texted him that comment about it not being bothered and it's a joke, he took that very seriously!My Cap has told me that the only way he would ever leave me alone is if I asked him to. In his previous relationship of 8 years, he and his ex shared a house for 1 year after breaking up. One night he came home drunk at 5am, and she in frustration said you have to move out. He found a place in 2 days.
Maybe try sending him a message on FB and explain why you said that, just be honest with your feelings. At this point, I don't think he will regret his decision because he thinks that's what you want.
Really hope it works out for you, good luck!!
How you responded is how I would have before meeting my Cap if he just disappeared without an explanation. Now I understand that Cap men need a lot of patience and nurturing. It's like they need what Cancers need but don't show it at all.
In your case, it seems like he came back and wanted to make amends/rekindle, but didn't get reassurance from you to proceed. Then when you texted him that comment about it not being bothered and it's a joke, he took that very seriously!My Cap has told me that the only way he would ever leave me alone is if I asked him to. In his previous relationship of 8 years, he and his ex shared a house for 1 year after breaking up. One night he came home drunk at 5am, and she in frustration said you have to move out. He found a place in 2 days.
Maybe try sending him a message on FB and explain why you said that, just be honest with your feelings. At this point, I don't think he will regret his decision because he thinks that's what you want.
Really hope it works out for you, good luck!!
Posted by SunMoonStars
I'm sorry that he has gone away so suddenly. What are your signs and his? Did he ever explain why he disappeared the first time around for 9 months?
How you responded is how I would have before meeting my Cap if he just disappeared without an explanation. Now I understand that Cap men need a lot of patience and nurturing. It's like they need what Cancers need but don't show it at all.
In your case, it seems like he came back and wanted to make amends/rekindle, but didn't get reassurance from you to proceed. Then when you texted him that comment about it not being bothered and it's a joke, he took that very seriously!My Cap has told me that the only way he would ever leave me alone is if I asked him to. In his previous relationship of 8 years, he and his ex shared a house for 1 year after breaking up. One night he came home drunk at 5am, and she in frustration said you have to move out. He found a place in 2 days.
Maybe try sending him a message on FB and explain why you said that, just be honest with your feelings. At this point, I don't think he will regret his decision because he thinks that's what you want.
Really hope it works out for you, good luck!!
thanks for replying! he is a capricorn and I am a virgo.
When he initially came back he kept apologising and saying that he would tell me what happened for nine months on the condition that i met him for dinner..(a date). Initially i couldnt help but keep mentioning tht he went away for so long etc so why should I roll out the carpet for him when he comes back etc..and at times tht didnt go down well and he threatened to go. But in my opinion he should have expected some kind of repurcussion with his actions. Im not an easy girl..im not just going to be fine with everything and run into his arms.
Eventually I said its fine u dont have to explain anything and that I was sorry for being harash..after that point i didnt want to bring it up again.Needless to say I didnt even end up meeting him for dinner like he wanted. :/ which was my mistake
Youre totally right about caps though, they do need nurturing. I mean I think he just wanted me to be a woman lol not s girl and show my emotions and love for him. He did hint to me so many times though how he wanted someone, for example on valentines day he said he was down in the dumps and i asked why and he said because he wished h
Posted by SunMoonStars
I'm sorry that he has gone away so suddenly. What are your signs and his? Did he ever explain why he disappeared the first time around for 9 months?
How you responded is how I would have before meeting my Cap if he just disappeared without an explanation. Now I understand that Cap men need a lot of patience and nurturing. It's like they need what Cancers need but don't show it at all.
In your case, it seems like he came back and wanted to make amends/rekindle, but didn't get reassurance from you to proceed. Then when you texted him that comment about it not being bothered and it's a joke, he took that very seriously!My Cap has told me that the only way he would ever leave me alone is if I asked him to. In his previous relationship of 8 years, he and his ex shared a house for 1 year after breaking up. One night he came home drunk at 5am, and she in frustration said you have to move out. He found a place in 2 days.
Maybe try sending him a message on FB and explain why you said that, just be honest with your feelings. At this point, I don't think he will regret his decision because he thinks that's what you want.
Really hope it works out for you, good luck!!
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he wished he had a "girl" or someone to share the day with..and my reaction was to laugh :/..it was automatic and i think partly a way to not sho my own emotion too..Another time he did say it would be nice to be able to have someone to be in a relationship with so he could spill out his troubles and the person would always b there for them..and I said but u have friends for that. I think that was another hint from his part and again i just deflected it in another direction :/..when ACTUALLY i should have said i want the same.
Yes he did take my joke comment seriously. i think if it wasnt for that we would b in contact right now, I personally think he reacted quite suddenly and maybe out of frustration..I forgot to mention this earlier but I did try to text him later and say that i dont want him to go ahead and say goodbye..but it wasnt enough. He proceeded to change his number.
He knows its not something i WANTED..but i didnt say anything to him on the phone when he called to say goodbye i saved it for a few txt messages later :/
Ill try facebook
What do u think about me going to his house or is tht way too much? especially after he said goodbye.
OMFG, you're back.
Will you ever stop being desperate?
I just can't believe someone is THAT stupid in real life.
Will you ever stop being desperate?
I just can't believe someone is THAT stupid in real life.
If he does dissapear for that long,i think is better to quit on him.
Posted by Damnata
OMFG, you're back.
Will you ever stop being desperate?
I just can't believe someone is THAT stupid in real life.
It's sad...
She does not want to see it. It's right there in her own words too.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by Damnata
OMFG, you're back.
Will you ever stop being desperate?
I just can't believe someone is THAT stupid in real life.
It's sad...
She does not want to see it. It's right there in her own words too.click to expand
Dude, I have lurked on this site for 4 years. I have never ever seen someone so desperate in my entire life. From one topic to the next she keeps pissing against the wind and asking herself whether it's raining.
It would be sad if she wasn't a disrespectful imbecile. I have low tolerance for that type.
+ She really drives my point home about the insecurity in Virgo Women.
Ugh, so glad I moved past that.
Once again for the peanut brain..
If a Cardinal sign wants you..YOU WILL KNOW!!! It's us mutables that give people headaches.
They might move slow as snails but in the end they are men and they know.
I've never had any grief at the beginning of my relationship with my ex cap. He didn't verbalize, he didn't commit off the bat but he was always there, stable and strong. It's in the actions ffs.
If a Cardinal sign wants you..YOU WILL KNOW!!! It's us mutables that give people headaches.
They might move slow as snails but in the end they are men and they know.
I've never had any grief at the beginning of my relationship with my ex cap. He didn't verbalize, he didn't commit off the bat but he was always there, stable and strong. It's in the actions ffs.
I agree, actions -- They speak volume. If he's not showing interest for months on end, it's time to realize he's not THAT into you.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
I agree, actions -- They speak volume. If he's not showing interest for months on end, it's time to realize he's not THAT into you.
It's been YEARS in this case.
"He thought I was "special"..basically always made out like i was the "one" for him and how much he cared about me and would always bring up marriage.and how he could see me as his future wife..Why would he then say goodbye forever So suddenlyl and change his number so suddenly."
Well, he got tired of your wishy washy inappropriate comments and behavior.
Good for him! He finally walked for good.
This is what I want you to do:
1. Go back and print out every, single thread you have made over the years.
2. Put them in chronological order in a notebook.
3. READ IT!
4. Find you communication errors with him.
5. Read your threads again.
6. Learn from it.
7. Wipe the piss off of yourself (good analogy Damnata).
8. Grow up.
Well, he got tired of your wishy washy inappropriate comments and behavior.
Good for him! He finally walked for good.
This is what I want you to do:
1. Go back and print out every, single thread you have made over the years.
2. Put them in chronological order in a notebook.
3. READ IT!
4. Find you communication errors with him.
5. Read your threads again.
6. Learn from it.
7. Wipe the piss off of yourself (good analogy Damnata).
8. Grow up.
Posted by truecap
"He thought I was "special"..basically always made out like i was the "one" for him and how much he cared about me and would always bring up marriage.and how he could see me as his future wife..Why would he then say goodbye forever So suddenlyl and change his number so suddenly."
Well, he got tired of your wishy washy inappropriate comments and behavior.
Good for him! He finally walked for good.
This is what I want you to do:
1. Go back and print out every, single thread you have made over the years.
2. Put them in chronological order in a notebook.
3. READ IT!
4. Find you communication errors with him.
5. Read your threads again.
6. Learn from it.
7. Wipe the piss off of yourself (good analogy Damnata).
8. Grow up.
I swear to God I know shit just got real when you post like that 😄
You usually leave a lot of leeway for circumstances but this time..no mercy lol.
Posted by DamnataPosted by truecap
"He thought I was "special"..basically always made out like i was the "one" for him and how much he cared about me and would always bring up marriage.and how he could see me as his future wife..Why would he then say goodbye forever So suddenlyl and change his number so suddenly."
Well, he got tired of your wishy washy inappropriate comments and behavior.
Good for him! He finally walked for good.
This is what I want you to do:
1. Go back and print out every, single thread you have made over the years.
2. Put them in chronological order in a notebook.
3. READ IT!
4. Find you communication errors with him.
5. Read your threads again.
6. Learn from it.
7. Wipe the piss off of yourself (good analogy Damnata).
8. Grow up.
I swear to God I know shit just got real when you post like that 😄
You usually leave a lot of leeway for circumstances but this time..no mercy lol.click to expand
Well, some people you try to help and they just don't listen until you get firm with them.
lol!
Posted by champranger
candy10:
I'm not trying to be mean or condescending and I'm not going to be doing an "I told you" dance. Below is my opinion but I don't know how to say it anymore to get my point across. No offense intended and I apologize in advance if I caused any.
This Cap had liked you for a LONG time and it looks like you keep pushing him away out of a self defense mechanism of not wanting to be vulnerable. Prior to the 9 months disappearance, you did not believe he liked you at all.
After he came back, apologized, and tried to meet up with you, you DID NOT BUDGE until he gave up trying altogether. It sounded like he had tried for 3 months.
Then you summed the whole thing up by discrediting his effort and feelings after he came back, by saying the whole thing is a joke. Even if you didn't mean it that way, it was probably how he saw it.
Lastly, when he had tried to get some closure between the two of you, your responses made it sound like that you did not care about such a closure. But AFTER the call and when he had completely burned the bridge, now you are going after him.
If anything, you had proved to him how much you didn't care about him and that you are only willing to put in effort when he walks away from you or completely falls off the face of the earth. The only thing that may change this outcome is if you tell him how you feel. But the problem with that I think, is he will most likely to see it as FAKE (or as something you are only saying due to losing him), IF he is willing to hear you out AT ALL.
I think he's done and he's done for good. Caps can be patient and persistent. However, when enough rejection is enough, they will cut ties and those ties will be severed forever more.
Posted by CaplovePosted by champrangerPosted by truecap
I think he's done and he's done for good. Caps can be patient and persistent. However, when enough rejection is enough, they will cut ties and those ties will be severed forever more.
He has the patience of a saint. Where can I find such a Cap lol? 😛
No kidding! Who wants to bet he has an earth moon? I say Taurus, those suckers never give up.click to expand
That would be my ex.
*shudders at the amount of stubborness*
No Taurus Sun ever managed to beat him at it.
Posted by DamnataPosted by CaplovePosted by champrangerPosted by truecap
I think he's done and he's done for good. Caps can be patient and persistent. However, when enough rejection is enough, they will cut ties and those ties will be severed forever more.
He has the patience of a saint. Where can I find such a Cap lol? 😛
No kidding! Who wants to bet he has an earth moon? I say Taurus, those suckers never give up.
That would be my ex.
*shudders at the amount of stubborness*
No Taurus Sun ever managed to beat him at it.click to expand
Fixed moons are scary arent they? Their stubbornness and relentlessness does make one shudder.
Great moon for business, horrible moon for love.
taurus sun/ taurus moon?
holy shit woman, how much food did you cook daily?
holy shit woman, how much food did you cook daily?
Posted by Damnata
Great moon for business, horrible moon for love.
😆 maybe for you.
but i'm good with it.— (hubs is dominantly fixed) I like shuddering a little.... /masochist. 😛
Posted by Damnata
taurus sun/ taurus moon?
holy shit woman, how much food did you cook daily?
lmao!!
give him a taurus merc/mars and venus too..
that venus taurus will love the food as much as the woman 😄
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Damnata
Great moon for business, horrible moon for love.
😆 maybe for you.
but i'm good with it.— (hubs is dominantly fixed) I like shuddering a little.... /masochist. 😛click to expand
With the Cap Sun, I mean.
I can see a Scorpio faring well with a Taurus Moon.
Posted by Caplove
I gained a bunch of weight during that time period, that's for sure!
I wonder why..
bwhahaha, astrology win.
I bet he could cook up a storm. The Cap was useless, despite his Taurus Moon.
The Aries..with his Mars and Ascendant in Taurus..dear God can that man cook. When we broke up, since we're still good friends now, I asked him
"Does this mean we can still cook for each other?"
"Lol, of course..the cooking experience transcends everything"
such.a.taurus
CAN SOMEONE TELL THAT STUPID C*** DAMATA TO F**** OFF MY THREAD. ALWAYS GT NOTHIN BETTER TO DO THAN CRITICISE AND CALL ME NAMES.
and why are people encouraging someone who is that nasty? i dont understand.
Posted by candy10
CAN SOMEONE TELL THAT STUPID C*** DAMATA TO F**** OFF MY THREAD. ALWAYS GT NOTHIN BETTER TO DO THAN CRITICISE AND CALL ME NAMES.
hello crazy. how are you?
Posted by backtokemet
I didn't read the OP but judging by somme comments, you must be a RELATIONSHIP SCARFACE
"normal" women need women like you so they can point the finger and say: "here's a truly messed up woman .. compared to her, I'm not that bad" .. we all have roles to play in life and God gave you a shitty one 😢
I absolutely see some Scorpio in you or you in some Scorpio at some point.
Posted by candy10
and why are people encouraging someone who is that nasty? i dont understand.
It's because I'm right and you're wrong.
Get it or do you need caps lock? It's the only way you'll ever lock a cap guy..using that button.
LOL im crazy. youre the one dwelling on my thread like a parasite.
if you wern't small minded and basically a complete b**** who gains pleasure or i dunno some esteem or something by putting others down you wouldnt waste your time on here.
says it all really.
SAD
and me? not being able to lock down a guy. with a face like yours i'd be worryin about your ability to do that looooooool
if you wern't small minded and basically a complete b**** who gains pleasure or i dunno some esteem or something by putting others down you wouldnt waste your time on here.
says it all really.
SAD
and me? not being able to lock down a guy. with a face like yours i'd be worryin about your ability to do that looooooool
Just do yourself as favour
go away man.
jeeeeeeeesus. what is wrong with you
go away man.
jeeeeeeeesus. what is wrong with you
Posted by candy10
LOL im crazy. youre the one dwelling on my thread like a parasite.
if you wern't small minded and basically a complete b**** who gains pleasure or i dunno some esteem or something by putting others down you wouldnt waste your time on here.
says it all really.
SAD
and me? not being able to lock down a guy. with a face like yours i'd be worryin about your ability to do that looooooool
yeah but you still can't do it loooooooooooool
same as spelling loooool
but it's all good loooooooooool
Posted by candy10
Just do yourself as favour
go away man.
jeeeeeeeesus. what is wrong with you
You post stupid shit, I reply. It's the way life goes.
There is no darkness without light and there are no deluded virgos without sane ones.
It's my life's mission to post in your threads, consider it a favor.
i cant do it u joking right
there are ppl askin me out everyday
its my choice not to take up their offers
there are ppl askin me out everyday
its my choice not to take up their offers
anyway enough now damnata
Posted by champrangerPosted by truecap
I think he's done and he's done for good. Caps can be patient and persistent. However, when enough rejection is enough, they will cut ties and those ties will be severed forever more.
He has the patience of a saint. Where can I find such a Cap lol? 😛click to expand
ill inbox u in a bit
Posted by candy10Posted by SunMoonStars
Ill try facebook
What do u think about me going to his house or is tht way too much? especially after he said goodbye.click to expand
Wow...lots of responses and differing opinions on this...
I'm not sure what exactly happened as I'm still new to this site, but I sympathize with you... At this point, if you want to get him back, think about what you want and be honest with him about it. Showing up at his house...don't recommend this. Just message him on Facebook...take responsibility for what happened and see if you can start new together. However, let him know if he did things to hurt you too..?
Wish I had more advice...listen to truecap, she knows what she's talking about.
Hopefully my experience can help - If I could start over again with my Cap fwb..well I wouldn't have started yet to begin with because I'm not in a place for a relationship. He knew and didn't care so partly his responsibility too. But I would have waited until I was ready because he's so serious. I think they get frustrated if you are not ready and resisting of their desire to build and move forward as they are Cardinals. It's the whole follow lead or get out of the way mentality... I'm debating whether I should just leave him now and come back when I'm ready so as not to ruin the possibility of things later.
Wish you all the best, good luck!
Posted by StillWater
wtf damnata...what is your issue?
she needs advice and if you can't be polite about it, take your haughty ass to the aries board (no offence to aries).
you devil's advocate you 😄
Posted by StillWaterPosted by DamnataPosted by StillWater
wtf damnata...what is your issue?
she needs advice and if you can't be polite about it, take your haughty ass to the aries board (no offence to aries).
you devil's advocate you 😄
there is one thing to have an opinion and then another to be overly patronizing.
click to expand
there is one thing to post a topic and there's another thing to post the same issues for years and years with the same man, who keeps dodging you.
i'm being harsh on her because she's a virgo and this is unacceptable behavior.
you're talking about patronizing? 😄 you're in a real good mood tonight.
Posted by candy10
a parasite
if you wern't small minded .....
It's a rare day that I post on the Cap board .... mainly because of my respect factor for you, but, I am compelled to highlight this above. In fact, I may go to a board with more traffic to make a spectacle out of it .... because it is close to the funniest thing I've ever encountered.
Candy is talking to Damnata ... lol
Candy is telling Damnata that she is small minded !!!!!!!!
I'm rolling on the floor here, my cats are looking at me like I have three heads .....
IKR? 😄
I've been in tears since yesterday lol.
I've been in tears since yesterday lol.
Capricorns know exactly what we want. If we don't get it or earn it, we just don't leave or disappear as many word it, we simply revisit at a later point in life to see if it is now available using the time in between to accomplish other goals in life...
The problem is that many loved feeling as a priority by a Capricorn.
The problem is that many loved feeling as a priority by a Capricorn.
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He started becoming distant after coming on really strong and wanting to meet me between december and february i'd say. after that.like he wouldnt call or text me anymore..and I was wondering what had happened to him. I assumed it was because of us not meetin up and me taking my time about it, so I tried to message him a couple of times about meetin and he said yes thats fine but he didnt follow through with it or didnt seem particularly enthusiastic.
The week leading up to the end of march I started to get annoyed with him for not replying to my txts or calling.. but then when he eventually did I ignored him, and then texted him something i'll probably regret for the rest of my life. i only said it to get a reaction out of him and to see where his head was at.
I said "I can't be bothered anymore..this whole thing is a joke". He replied and said " you're right this whole thing is a joke.. Goodbye".
I was thinking he didn't mean it and he just texted it after my joke comment, after all we've been friends for five years..would I really think he meant goodbye?
Next day which was the 31st march... he called me up in the evening..and I was thinking everything was ok even after his goodbye text and h