Would it work out even in long distance?

She is a Virgo, I'm a Capricorn. Before we were best friends and then fell in love with each other but with time and distances things started to change. Now she is in a different country and is in love with a Sagittarius guy. I kept telling her I still but she says we were just friends and now she loves that other guy. I don't know what should I do. I really need her. Because of my feelings and distance, the contacts between us is decreasing since she is being defensive. I don't want to lose her.

But she did love me. And is not often happy with him.

I've tried many time before. It's just so hard to do.

Especially since she asked last time if I still loved her. I refused to answer. But later thinking over it after a few days I finally said that yes I do. She didn't replied and later her boyfriend calls me to say to be in my limits. But all I did was to answer her question.

I really find it hard to move on. Like I'm lying, cheating and betraying different people.

I truly believe she loved me. Only if there wasn't any distance between us.

When I try to see other girls. It's like I'm lying to myself that I'm still not over with her. I feel like cheating the other girl, cause I know I don't love them like I loved her. And worst of all I feel like I'm betraying the person who at least once loved me too.

Actually this is not the first time. Things always worked out before, we were always back to ourselves each time we tried to see other person. But now things are seeming more difficult because we now live in different countries and I'm starting to lose my hopes.

I know it's worth trying for though. Will try.
Thank You

Posted by forevercappynvirgo
She is a Virgo, I'm a Capricorn. Before we were best friends and then fell in love with each other but with time and distances things started to change. Now she is in a different country and is in love with a Sagittarius guy. I kept telling her I still but she says we were just friends and now she loves that other guy. I don't know what should I do. I really need her. Because of my feelings and distance, the contacts between us is decreasing since she is being defensive. I don't want to lose her.

No it's not going to work. You are pushing her away and she should be withdrawing from you. She loves someone else. She's his, not yours.