Xun3, sarasa, Sweet&Sour ...

Where are you—? 😢

I thought cappygolightly (aka cappywench) was gone but she came back lol.

All of my cappy sisters have left me ...

Well, Feb hasn't been much fun for me either, look at what just happen ....

and it will get worse before it gets better. But it will get better.

I will say one thing ...

I understand now why my official natal reading suggests that the perfect fit for me is all Aqua hahaha.

Across the board its Aqua -- 1st, 2nd, and 3rd, I'm a bit shacky on the Cap-Aqua and Aqua-Pisces but an okay forecast.

Second in line I think is leo ... which I really don't understand that but okay

Next is Virgo and oh mercy ...

Hey girlie! 😄!!!!

How are you—?

I think Astro wants me to be with Leo or Virgo when I am older ... yeah, thats it.

hahahaha!!! no no no, now they are too much for me lady 😉

I'm okay sb

I have always seen this paradox (—?) with some guys. They want ambitious independent women as lifemates so that those women can give up everything and do as they are told......

........................... _^.

I will be returning his things this week, you know, what he gave me for V-Day.

Well, I feel its better to give it back. Its my decision to do that. How could I keep it, I would not feel right?

I believe that if things were different, I could have worked with him a bit on that temper of his and things would be fine. But, I know I cannot do it now.

I know you can't change a person but I think that temper of his is promoted by some other things he does not like in his life.

So yeah, I do not want any more negativity so he can take the gifts and give them to someone thats more his type at the moment.

my friend broke up with her man the day before valentines and gave me the chocolates she was going to give him!

🙂

Well, if things were different, I'd do the same. But there's a bit of saddness with all of this so I will give it back.

Yeah, I think dxpnet is just trying this out LOL! I like the idea but he just needs to work on it.

What did he say when you broke up?

Nothing really ...

Its still complicated, but ... I don't know. I'm trying to figure things out here and I'm trying to deal with this situation too.

A cousin of mine just passed away and my Aqua cousin tried to get in touch with me but I didn't get the message in time 😢

I had a cold this week, plus it was the last day on my full-time job -- so I had to create some notes for the new girl and clean up the desk. I'm not done yet, I have to go back early in the morning and finish it up.

I have an assignment that totally late and I know it may not be excepted but I'm working on it anyway.

So my ex-bf situation is something that I'm trying to deal with too -- thats why I say it will get worse before it gets better. I'm not being negative, just stating the obvious.

I see what he says when I return the gifts, until then I don't want to talk to him.

Since, we "can't" be friends ...

Which I think is silly because we haven't been going out long enough to have that deep involvement to not want to know or see each other. You know, there's not alot of history there.

He has a certain issue and I know it will bother me if he doesn't take care of himself. For some reason, I think he knows that.

*rolls eyes*

No ...

After he stated but he wanted us to do more than just date -- I asked him about friendship because I knew I was attracted to him but I felt we needed to get to know each other better first.

It wasn't until V-Day where he really addressed the "friend" thing for some odd reason. He said that I should not treat him like a boyfriend and a buddy, I should treat him like a boyfriend only. "I'm not one of your buddies, so never put me in that area again." I said, "When we were friends, we could talk about me things." And he said, "Well, we aren't friends anymore and I will never be your friend, I want to talk about US and US only. Nothing else matters so all that we talk about has to concern you and I. You and I are the only things that matter in each others world ..."

Yeah ... that whole conversation messed me up ...

So now that things are over, its a bit arkward

NO NO NO!!! Sagi, I didn't say that, he did.

Oh, sorry, I know what you mean lol

* if there is "NO" friendship first and always.

yep, thats the problem.

now the background just changed from red to white... err... too bright for my eyes lol

Same thing happen to me when I logged on lol

I tried to give him what he needed, but to be honest ... just talking about us and how we can make each other feel and all that was sooooo ... BORING! Sorry, it was lol.

If I tried to venture off else where, he'd bring it right back to US.

Example, we had an arguement concerning that woman who had 8 children --> he was upset with me because he taught I wasn't being sensitive enough about her BUT he turned it around and said that this means that my overall attitude about everything was this way about everything and then he says no wonder I wanted to "hurt" him by merely staying friends instead being more than just friends. He was like, "if you feel that way about her, then that explains why you feel the way you do about our relationship progressin. Be more open-minded dear ...."

ME BE MORE OPEN-MINDED— :O

Anyway, yeah that a good example, jeezzz, I just gave my opinion about the woman and he completely went ape-shit lol

I should have forced the friendship more, I loved it when we were friends ... it seems as if he turned into someone I didn't know after the fact.

sagigoat, here's a 🍹 for you, you can go to the "edit your profile" page and enter for "Background Color":

B7302D

for the red background or any other color you wish

sorry cappygolightly, you can't change the font color. here's a drink for you, 🍹

what browser are you using?

It can be quite an eye opener and is also a good
way to lose good friends.

I agree 😢

Is this the guy who would chat you up at the gym?

NOOOOOOO cappywench, totally different dude. I know I have confused you lol. I've almost gotten close with 2 Leo-Virgos and one Virgo-Libra (NOT THE SAME ONE I'M TALKING ABOUT HERE). Than this other Virgo-Libra guy comes along and then I let down my reservations and ... yeah.

The leo-virgo I met at the gym came back in my life but once he saw I was different towards him, he left and thats a good thing, I don't think he's grown much yet.

what version of the firefox? do you have the latest version? and i haven't received your nominations for DXPnet.com Weekly User Awards. makes me 😢

Yeah .... I didn't really know what to say with DXPNET popped up so I just kinda kept typing ... LOLOLOL!!!!

HAHAHAHAHA!!! You almost gave me a heart-attack 😆!!!!

cappygolightly is right lol.

But its cool, hi DXPNET 🙂 You have distracted me from my guy problems so you are welcome, that you are ^_^.

nominate by sending me a private message and make me 🙂

Yeah, where do you go and whats the whole awards thing ... I'm confused hahaha

Posted by dxpnet
nominate by sending me a private message and make me 🙂

Okay, well I have a question ....

Is this for user of the week or something. Is that what it is—?

It's free-form. It'll make sense. Trust me. I nominated myself as "Most Talkative User".

Hope I win! 😏

ha ha suddenly we are all a bit nervous

heck yeah hahahaha!!!!

OH! I SEE SAGIGOAT 😄!!!

Well Mr.DXP, all you had to do was tell me it was right in front of my face 😛 😛 😛

shhhh Sagi girlie 😛

DXPNET maybe a virgo, you know how they are when you ask way too many questions hehehehehehe

😉

Yeah, I gotta run to Meijer, I totally lost track of time, but I will return.

Bye Sagi, bye cappywench 😄

Bye bye DXPNET, I sent my noms 🙂

Cappysweetie, Not to be nosey or get in your business but I hope you feel better about this break-up and sorry for your recent loss. I KNOW how you feel, I just lost my pastor and he's like my 2nd grandpa because he preached his first sermon in my grandmother's living room and has watched me grow up all my life(baptized me, christened me, etc). Cheer up and things will indeed get BETTER! Consider me a new sister!

Hey Cappy!!!!😄 Me and Evan were just talking about YOU, good things ofcourse!=) How you been girl? Me been ok, just in and out of sickness. It's been a sucky start to the year. I hope you are doing well. Hit me a PM, will ya?🙂

Cappysweetie, Not to be nosey or get in your business but I hope you feel better about this break-up and sorry for your recent loss. I KNOW how you feel, I just lost my pastor and he's like my 2nd grandpa because he preached his first sermon in my grandmother's living room and has watched me grow up all my life(baptized me, christened me, etc). Cheer up and things will indeed get BETTER! Consider me a new sister!

Hi noire 😄

No way, you are not being nosy, thank you for you concern, really, I appreciate it. I'm sorry about the lost of your pastor, he became just like family, so I know that must have broke your heart.

My cousin dying bothers me a bit because it seems as if some of my family are just dropping like flies all of a sudden. Things are going wrong and its like, "What happened—??"

And with the break up, its just crazy, I will not sleep tonight, I can't sleep tonight really.

Posted by sarasa
Hey Cappy!!!!😄 Me and Evan were just talking about YOU, good things ofcourse!=) How you been girl? Me been ok, just in and out of sickness. It's been a sucky start to the year. I hope you are doing well. Hit me a PM, will ya?🙂

Hey girlie 😄!!!!

You and Evan were talking about me, huh 😛 Behind my back grrrrrrr!!!!!! lol, just kidding 😄

I will PM you, don't worry, you've missed alot lol.

Posted by Xun3
I have always seen this paradox (—?) with some guys. They want ambitious independent women as lifemates so that those women can give up everything and do as they are told......

Why do you think you won't be in control of your life after you married a man? This is a huge misconception.....

Posted by Shaks
yeah..hey cs! its nice to be back..or maybe not oops lol sorry youre going through such crap really 😢

OMG OMG OMG!!!!!

SHAKA!!!!! 😄 😄 😄

*hugs*

*hugs*

*hugs*

I am not here long, for I am tired ...

I want sleep but cannot have that, I need to stay up. Goodness, I have done this in a while, hahaha, I can't do it like I use to hahaha, getting old hey ...

Posted by dxpnet
sagigoat, here's a 🍹 for you, you can go to the "edit your profile" page and enter for "Background Color":

B7302D

for the red background or any other color you wish

by the way the background color was configurable also before 21Feb2009.
Mine was always light blue as long as I was logged in. When I am logged off, then it is red which I find a chic.

😈

😄

🍹

Where's everyone ——

For some reason, I thought I'd come to this thread. And then I see the last post by Cappy dated 17th March, and I'm thinking, NO WONDER!!!😄

How's you Cappy? I'm doing well, just applying for jobs at the moment and am totally hating it! How's everything at your end?

Posted by sarasa
For some reason, I thought I'd come to this thread. And then I see the last post by Cappy dated 17th March, and I'm thinking, NO WONDER!!!😄

How's you Cappy? I'm doing well, just applying for jobs at the moment and am totally hating it! How's everything at your end?

Heeeeeyyyyyy there sarasa 😄

Yeah, I've been a bit busy myself. I was too slow about doing things, now everything happening at once. Its cool, I can handle it 🙂

We need to chat girlie 😉