My aqua man and I have been so back and forth and he's said he does not want another kid right now and I certainly don't want to do that without being certain and him being certain. We both have kids from other ex's and he just went thru a divorce a little over a year ago. I have a copper IUD and in the almost 6 years having it (good for 10) I have had it checked each year and never been pregnant or close to it while having it (actually pretty dangerous if I did get pregnant with it still in - if it slipped down or something). But the more he tells me I need to bleed and this and that the more frequently I've been having my periods now. This month I'm about to start my second one. Just a few days ago I had a dream I was pregnant again and could feel the baby moving around in my belly and I remembered how much I missed that feeling and it was so intense. Then someone (maybe my bf in the dream) comes up and says something to me and puts there hand over my belly and pulls out the baby directly out of my belly and I cried NOOOO! And was so upset after that. It was so intense.... I had another dream before that of getting an STD test and finding obvious parasite looking things in my fluids down there and it disgusted me horribly.... the whole next day I felt so gross and that I needed to run out and get an STD test to make sure. But physically I've been having more issues in my female reproductive area like pains here and there... nothing HUGE but enough to notice it along side all these dreams. Anyone have any idea why this is happening? I don't usually have too many dreams and lately those are pretty much the only one's I'm having are focused on that.
Well he didn't say that he never wanted to have another kid. I said he didn't want to have another kid right now. He's still trying to move forward from the chaos of the divorce and a 13 year relationship that ended horribly with her having an affair. His daughter just turned 3 and my son is gonna be 6 in april.... so we have enough on our plates right now. But he constantly brings up when I'm gonna get my period and makes comments about me being pregnant and I keep trying to tell him that will not happen with my IUD in. I don't want to have a kid unless we are both in agreement with that. I adore kiddos..... I'd love to have another with a guy I'm in love with but the reality is... single parenthood sucks and adding more kids to that mix if we don't work out is just gonna be too much.
I just still don't get what is going on..... hopefully it's nothing actually physical that's manifesting dreams in my head :-/