Tallsagdude
@Tallsagdude
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Need Gemini Women Advice
You two have had your ups and downs. Now, she freaked out on you, and apparently moved on real quick.....
1) What did you do?
2) Could she have been fooling around on you, or had another guy waiting the whole time?
1) What did you do?
2) Could she have been fooling around on you, or had another guy waiting the whole time?
@Tallsagdude
You can't leave balls in her court because there apparently some other balls?
On a serious note - what can you do if she refuses to be with you?
You can wait. But she is with another man.
You wrote it clearly - she said the end!
And you haven't said how you freaked her out! Something serious? Got to fess up and maybe then it'll get easier to advise you.
You can't leave balls in her court because there apparently some other balls?
On a serious note - what can you do if she refuses to be with you?
You can wait. But she is with another man.
You wrote it clearly - she said the end!
And you haven't said how you freaked her out! Something serious? Got to fess up and maybe then it'll get easier to advise you.
Thanks for all the input. Yeah, I'll admit that I do have a lot to prove. We have had a lot of ups and downs together.
I have to admit most of this is my fault. I stopped paying attention to her like a boyfriend should, and I guess she found someone that was.
IDK. Im just in shock that she was able to move on so fast with the past that we share.
Lesson learned
I have to admit most of this is my fault. I stopped paying attention to her like a boyfriend should, and I guess she found someone that was.
IDK. Im just in shock that she was able to move on so fast with the past that we share.
Lesson learned
Posted by Geminiforever23Posted by TallsagdudeYou remind me of the only consistent guy in my life-- a sag. And we go back 5 years of beinng so close but no actual committment. Weve been on dates many times but he seemed to beat around the bush and not really seal the deal. So until then, I kept ending up with different guys. The thing is... if you dont lock us down... we will keep moving on until we find that one person who can assure us that we are the one for them. Being on and off does not makeus feel safe. We wanna feel safe. Not until you do that, you will keep losing your chances with a gem...
Thanks for all the input. Yeah, I'll admit that I do have a lot to prove. We have had a lot of ups and downs together.
I have to admit most of this is my fault. I stopped paying attention to her like a boyfriend should, and I guess she found someone that was.
IDK. Im just in shock that she was able to move on so fast with the past that we share.
Lesson learnedclick to expand
To lock you down ? to commit to you? or to try to convaince
Posted by Geminiforever23Posted by TallsagdudeYou remind me of the only consistent guy in my life-- a sag. And we go back 5 years of beinng so close but no actual committment. Weve been on dates many times but he seemed to beat around the bush and not really seal the deal. So until then, I kept ending up with different guys. The thing is... if you dont lock us down... we will keep moving on until we find that one person who can assure us that we are the one for them. Being on and off does not makeus feel safe. We wanna feel safe. Not until you do that, you will keep losing your chances with a gem...
Thanks for all the input. Yeah, I'll admit that I do have a lot to prove. We have had a lot of ups and downs together.
I have to admit most of this is my fault. I stopped paying attention to her like a boyfriend should, and I guess she found someone that was.
IDK. Im just in shock that she was able to move on so fast with the past that we share.
Lesson learnedclick to expand
Geminiforever23...
It all makes complete sense now. Thank you so much for your input. It just kind of made everything "glue" together. One of her most often used terms when she gets pissed off is "stability". Neither one of us has really been too stable, but mainly by personal choice. I am now laying a solid foundation and have recommitted to being the best I can be. Stability is now a priority, and needed to get a lot of things out of my system.
Yes, as a total SAG I often beat around the bush and when I had the opportunity to "seal the deal" I would end the pursuit and lay off big time. Being a SAG, commitment used to be a fearful word and I viewed the pursuit of females as a game. I guess when I felt I won the conquest, I would sabotage it to begin the process of finding new interests or try to lure the present back in. Total Dick move, but us SAG are a different breed. LOL
I am totally in love with my GEM. The thought of losing her forever has crushed me inside, and I do not want to lose her. She is my best friend, my PIC, and the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. We can spend every waking minute together every day and not get bored with each other. We stay up all night talking etc regularly and always have something to discuss or debate. She has so many odd interests that match mine, and I truly believe she is my twin flame or soul mate.
I'm thinking this temp replacement she has is just a quick rebound, or attempt to make me jealous and show I need to get my shit in order. Not being arrogant, but she is way out of this dudes league and when I saw him I just laughed inside because I know he is just keeping my seat warm. I guess he was there and provided mental stimulation while I was being stubborn and somewhat neglectful.
She is still being somewhat distant and cold, but if she really wanted to completely end this, she would have told me straight up. By her acting this way, I believe it is my LAST chance to prove I can provide stability, support, etc for her.
For the first time in my life, I can honestly say that I will do whatever I need to make her feel safe etc. I want to grow old with her and cannot see myself doing this with anyone else. She has made a major impact in my life.
So, forevergemini23 should I put the pursuit back into high gear, or lay back and let her notice all the positive changes that are happening. I know Gem females do not like the feeling of being pressured into decisions so there is a fine line there. I miss the hell out of her and DO NOT want to screw up my last chances. HELP!!!!
Posted by TallsagdudeThat is NOT funny, and it's a shit excuse.Posted by Geminiforever23Posted by TallsagdudeYou remind me of the only consistent guy in my life-- a sag. And we go back 5 years of beinng so close but no actual committment. Weve been on dates many times but he seemed to beat around the bush and not really seal the deal. So until then, I kept ending up with different guys. The thing is... if you dont lock us down... we will keep moving on until we find that one person who can assure us that we are the one for them. Being on and off does not makeus feel safe. We wanna feel safe. Not until you do that, you will keep losing your chances with a gem...
Thanks for all the input. Yeah, I'll admit that I do have a lot to prove. We have had a lot of ups and downs together.
I have to admit most of this is my fault. I stopped paying attention to her like a boyfriend should, and I guess she found someone that was.
IDK. Im just in shock that she was able to move on so fast with the past that we share.
Lesson learned
I guess when I felt I won the conquest, I would sabotage it to begin the process of finding new interests or try to lure the present back in. Total Dick move, but us SAG are a different breed. LOLclick to expand
It's also stupid. Courting a person, getting INTO a relationship with someone isn't winning a conquest.
Your gemini very well may be dating someone on the rebound. Maybe this guy is out of her league, as you say. Don't get too cocky though. Going by these two sentences of yours, you're certainly not all that yourself.
Never forget that ANY decent woman out there, regardless of sign or personality type, needs security above all else.
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She freaked out on me like two weeks ago and has been ignoring me except for a few text msg looking to argue etc. She claimed she was unhappy and it appears she found a Gem Dude that took my place. I was just blown away at how fast she got cold towards me. It doesn't make any sense, and now she is claiming that we were not together when all this happened.
Anyway, what should I do. I love the hell out of her, and she is just being flat out cold and distant towards me now. Totally ignoring me now, so I stopped trying to contact her.
Is it done or should I just leave the ball in her court and move on