Am I being used by this Gemini man?

First off let me say he is Gemini Sun, Cancer Venus, and Scorpio Moon. I am Libra Sun, Sag Venus, Cancer Moon. Ok I started talking to this guy 2 months ago and immediately hit it off talking all day long, we had 4 dates, and then had sex 2 weeks ago for the first time. He is amazing and I like him a lot I have met his friends and he has said I can come over when his parents are home and that "you could meet my mom sometime if you like." I feel like he is really hesitate with me or just very elusive. We meet on a dating website and a couple of weeks before we had sex he said I should probably delete this huh seeing as I have won you off of this site. The kicker is he is still always on there I can tell when he has been active on there so I am confused about what he wants. After we had sex I hit him with the "what are your intentions talk" he told me he wasn't dating anyone else right now and I told him that I just wanted him to know that I am not a booty call and that I am not trying to rush into anything, but that I really like him and I am the kind of person who would eventually want a relationship. I saw him that night and he was normal heck better than normal. He opened up to me about his on and off depression and gets nervous when he releases flaws to me. We were talking like normal, but lately I keep getting a strange vibe from him and I keep wondering if he is dating other people. Yesterday he helped me move and said something that threw me off. He said I was gonna ask for a blow job as my reward for helping you move but I am really tired. I was like damn really?? I'm a lady I am all for doing things but he made it sound like I was a whore or something. I am on the edge of falling for this guy. I say too much to him things I would normally keep to myself about how I am feeling come out its so natural that it is unnatural and I don't want to let myself free fall if he is just going to use me.

A couple of things to know for background

1.I had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship 3 weeks before we started talking. I know it sounds setchy of me, but my ex and I have a child together &we lost all emotional connection 2 years before that.
2. He got out of a relationship the end of 2013 with someone he said taught him what he doesn't want in a girl.
3. We lived an hour away from each other until I moved yesterday now we are 30 mins apart.
I am really wondering where this is going because he calls me babe and everything, but he is still on

Honestly I'm just waiting for answers for this post. Because I'm going through almost the same situation! If you read my post "does this Gemini guy need space". I'm feeling used too! And he told me that I'm the only girl he talks to, but I get this vibe that he's talking to someone else. And I see him online sometimes on the dating website where we met.

libraah92 I'm sorry girl it looks like you were manipulated too. busyeyes88 you are so right I definitely shouldn't ignore it. OMG he just text me and said my cock isn't sweaty today basically can I come over for a blow job. I am about to tell him that he doesn't need to be vulgar with me and that I am all good with dirty talk, but only when it is tasteful I am not a slut so don't treat me like one. Yeah after that text I really think he is trying to see what he can get away with should I ignore him after I tell him that?

@busyeyes88 i met him May 4th Nd we had sex June 24th. I know that's soon. Before I read your message I sent this to him "Look you don't have to be a vulgar ass hole with me I am a lady. I'm all for dirty talk, but it should be tasteful don't talk to me like a slut." He said Woah my bad I didn't mean to set you off then he put a steam faced emoji up and said that's you and then I said I'm just saying and he didn't text back for like 3 hours which I think he was sleeping because he works tonigh so I said I'm sorry that was a bit harsh I'm on edge today and he said Lol you got mad and I said not mad just annoyed and he said you seemed pretty mad to me you called me a vaulgar ass hole then he said jeeze I was laying there horny about to jerk off and that was your response. Idk I want him but the looking for other people bugs me bad.