Are gemini liars? (Page 2)

Posted by ozzzy

Posted by misslissa

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That's correct, but sun sign has a great impact on how you deal with it. And some people are just immature. Also your dual nature is unpredictable, and it is known that many people never know where they stand with you, even in longer relationships. So, all of that matters, and makes difference.

Sounds like this has just happened recently, or you're still holding on to some anger.... letting go is healthier.

Btw, I've been with the same aqua man for 4 years and just got married in march. Not all of us are like the experience(s)you've had.

Yeah, but you're over 40, and she's just 20. Ofc that she will behave immature. She's still very young. In that age girls cannot resist to various temptations, especially Gem girl. And many boys are chasing her constantly.

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Then, if that's not what you want.... Let it go.

A 20 yr age difference? That child is still young and living her life like she suppose to. It's obvious that you both are in 2 different places in life. She is not obligated to do ANYTHING. Please do yourself a favor and move on...you can not be mad at that young girl! @ozzzy

Are you blind... I wrote that to misslissa, she is over 40, not me. Geez. Read carefully.

Posted by misslissa

Posted by ozzzy

Posted by misslissa

Posted by ozzzy
That's correct, but sun sign has a great impact on how you deal with it. And some people are just immature. Also your dual nature is unpredictable, and it is known that many people never know where they stand with you, even in longer relationships. So, all of that matters, and makes difference.

Sounds like this has just happened recently, or you're still holding on to some anger.... letting go is healthier.

Btw, I've been with the same aqua man for 4 years and just got married in march. Not all of us are like the experience(s)you've had.

Yeah, but you're over 40, and she's just 20. Ofc that she will behave immature. She's still very young. In that age girls cannot resist to various temptations, especially Gem girl. And many boys are chasing her constantly.

Then, if that's not what you want.... Let it go.

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Well, I would prefer to talk to her first. But maybe it would scare her. I should just keep it casual, and see where it goes. I just don't want mind games, that's all.

Posted by LadyGem86
@ozzzy are you a capricorn?

you guys can be mean as hell...and you guys tend to always make things about YOU...my mom's a cap

Hey gems! See? Caps get a bad rap too. The boards are full of our negative behavior and people calling us mean and cold and controlling, etc.

Over and over (and this thread alone, even) I see mention of gems stating they feel like they have to defend gem behavior. Why defend it? Explain it or help someone understand it, but you guys don't have to defend it. It is what is.

oops sorry @ozzzy lol but honestly it just sounds like she's just not that into you. But if you want answers call her and just talk to her and call her out on her sh*t...you have to upfront & frank with geminis


@truecap lol I guess you're right...BUT I still think you guys don't get grilled the way geminis do I'm sorry...just my opinion

Posted by LadyGem86
oops sorry @ozzzy lol but honestly it just sounds like she's just not that into you. But if you want answers call her and just talk to her and call her out on her sh*t...you have to upfront & frank with geminis


@truecap lol I guess you're right...BUT I still think you guys don't get grilled the way geminis do I'm sorry...just my opinion

Well, she chased me since we met, so I wouldn't say that she was not into me. The question is, why she started to behave like that all of sudden, for no reason. 10 days ago, she said that we will meet if she gets better, and if she earn some money, cause she don't want that I spend money, and she said it's now her turn to pay. After that, she didn't texted me, so I texted her instead today, and she didn't respond. It's like she's just playing with everyone, but said that when someone is good to her, she is good to them. She is the type of person that likes a lot of attention from many men, and she's a little bit narcissistic. She was also with some bad guys, although she said that she is different now. Naughty Gem. 🙂

Posted by truecap
Over and over (and this thread alone, even) I see mention of gems stating they feel like they have to defend gem behavior. Why defend it? Explain it or help someone understand it, but you guys don't have to defend it. It is what is.

True. 🙂

I try to explain or at least try to turn it into a positive.

I honestly believe EVERY sign gets a brow beating from others. It's like someone always has something negative to say and instead of just keeping it to themselves, they practice free speech. Which is fine, as long as they realize with free speech comes responsibility.

Also, she said that when she wants something, she gets it. She has the balls, and also she will fight with some guy with no problem if he gets on her nerves. Lol

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Posted by LadyGem86
oops sorry @ozzzy lol but honestly it just sounds like she's just not that into you. But if you want answers call her and just talk to her and call her out on her sh*t...you have to upfront & frank with geminis


@truecap lol I guess you're right...BUT I still think you guys don't get grilled the way geminis do I'm sorry...just my opinion

Well, she chased me since we met, so I wouldn't say that she was not into me. The question is, why she started to behave like that all of sudden, for no reason. 10 days ago, she said that we will meet if she gets better, and if she earn some money, cause she don't want that I spend money, and she said it's now her turn to pay. After that, she didn't texted me, so I texted her instead today, and she didn't respond. It's like she's just playing with everyone, but said that when someone is good to her, she is good to them. She is the type of person that likes a lot of attention from many men, and she's a little bit narcissistic. She was also with some bad guys, although she said that she is different now. Naughty Gem. 🙂

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Might be she is just going thru something personal and doesn't want it to get you down. Might be something she feels is embarrassing.

I'll do that even at my age cuz it's my problem. Not anyone else's. When I've exhausted myself mentally, I'll seek out advice.

*sigh* are you dating or what...?

Is it possible that she avoids to see me because she doesn't have the money, even though she wanted to go with me to many places, but doesn't want that I pay? She said last time that she feels bad when she doesn't have the money, and that we will go when she earns it on her season job. Don't know if it really bothers her, or it was an excuse.
I also saw somewhere that when Gems starts to feel some emotion toward that person, that it could be possible for them to disappear for some time. Is it true?

I see no other reason for her distance, because, communication is not a problem. I know that communication is no. 1 for you, and second, you like unpredictability, and don't like routine. You like some sort of puzzles, and adventures. Couple of our dates were similar, I mean, long walks at the same place, and same time, but I don't think that it was the problem, 'cause we had fun.

But who knows, maybe she also dates other guys, cause many of them wants to be with her, and some Gem girls are known for dating multiple guys.

I can see not being financially up to par a problem. In my case, I like to do lil things for my aqua and if I don't have the money to do them, it does bother me.... Sometimes, I need the time to work it out.

And... you're right... some do like having several guys. It's definitely an immature thing in that case. But, even when in my 20s, I've never wanted or had anything like that.

Posted by misslissa
I can see not being financially up to par a problem. In my case, I like to do lil things for my aqua and if I don't have the money to do them, it does bother me.... Sometimes, I need the time to work it out.

And... you're right... some do like having several guys. It's definitely an immature thing in that case. But, even when in my 20s, I've never wanted or had anything like that.

And what about emotions? I read on many sites that if Gem girl gets too close, or start developing feelings, then they can disappear for a week or two, even one month, is it true? It's hard to know if it is because of too much interest, or not.

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Posted by ozzzy
But who knows, maybe she also dates other guys, cause many of them wants to be with her, and some Gem girls are known for dating multiple guys.

Some would hardly qualify to warrant a generalization. You would find cases of "some" in all signs.

Sags are most warranted for multiple flings.

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Yeah, it's true that Sags can have multiple flings, but only if someone is jerking them around, and plays hot and cold. If the other person is honest and fair, Sag will not cheat.

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Posted by misslissa
I can see not being financially up to par a problem. In my case, I like to do lil things for my aqua and if I don't have the money to do them, it does bother me.... Sometimes, I need the time to work it out.

And... you're right... some do like having several guys. It's definitely an immature thing in that case. But, even when in my 20s, I've never wanted or had anything like that.

And what about emotions? I read on many sites that if Gem girl gets too close, or start developing feelings, then they can disappear for a week or two, even one month, is it true? It's hard to know if it is because of too much interest, or not.

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With this, I cannot make a fair assessment, I think. But, I'll try... Reason being, I have a lot of cancer placements. I have never been hot/cold and I bring a lot more emotion/compassion/empathy to the plate.

Based on experience with family and friend gems, they have to take some time to analyze their feelings. Whether it's real or just infatuation. Whether they're ready for something serious is also analyzed. Now the difference in the time is takes varies. Some are lightening speed, like I am. And, some take days/months to figure it out.

But, to be totally honest with you... that sort of thing is more an aqua trait. To take that long. They have to be absolutely SURE. But, that's more along the lines if there other personal planets align that way.

Personal planets include: sun, moon, merc, venus, and mars. It's like a combination. There are sites out there that can show you, but to have an accurate reading, you have to have more than just the birth date. Time and place effect the outcome little to drastically and upbringing plays a part as well.

Tnx for an detailed answer. I read somewhere that Sag cannot understand distance problem, and it's really like that. She did said that she wants a bf, and that she cannot be single, so maybe there is some other guy in the picture while I'm on standby until she figures it out.

Dunno, I don't believe that it was because I didn't called her to come to my place or something like that, even though those five dates were similar, but again, I had so much work around the house, so it was not possible.

Maybe someone was in a rush, so he had an advantage. Also, I don't know why many Gem girls like to be friend with her ex bf's, when they are clearly hitting on her, and she calles them friends? Fake. Maybe she have friend with benefits or something like that. I will wait one week for her to call me, if it doesn't happen, I will move on. But when Saggies go cold, it is almost impossible to turn things around.

Posted by ozzzy
Tnx for an detailed answer. I read somewhere that Sag cannot understand distance problem, and it's really like that. She did said that she wants a bf, and that she cannot be single, so maybe there is some other guy in the picture while I'm on standby until she figures it out.

Dunno, I don't believe that it was because I didn't called her to come to my place or something like that, even though those five dates were similar, but again, I had so much work around the house, so it was not possible.

Maybe someone was in a rush, so he had an advantage. Also, I don't know why many Gem girls like to be friend with her ex bf's, when they are clearly hitting on her, and she calles them friends? Fake. Maybe she have friend with benefits or something like that. I will wait one week for her to call me, if it doesn't happen, I will move on. But when Saggies go cold, it is almost impossible to turn things around.

Maybe.... but it's good that you have a plan. 🙂