Aries asking out a Geminie girl<3

first of all, thank you very much for helping me with getting my Gemini interested in me. My old topic has about 10 pages and most of it was spam, so i will start over from a different level. She has been texting me by herself for the past week - i mean starting conversations, except for today, i sent her a cute kitty youtube video she didnt answer back since like noon..

Our conversations are damn long, we talk about stuff, even though im not that funny but i manage to make her laugh all the time, idk how that happens, i think she really likes me because yesterday i told her id do something for her that she needs and she was very happy about it and in the end she sent me a smiley face ": )" i didnt say anything back and since then im freaking out to be honest because that text was sent at about 10pm but we usually texted till midnight-something, and up until right now she hasnt replied back, its been 24 hrs... oh and i was at the applestore and i told her, she said she needed something ethere, im like i can go back and get it for u and she goes no its ok i need bunch of stuff, then i said "oh i see we can get you everything after finals and see what soho looks like again" - she i guess freaked out cause didnt answer, so then i texted her something on a different topic a doggy picture, and convo started again laughing and fun. then what i mentioned, told her about what id do for her on her compuetr and she said okay and was really happy abt it, snet me smiley but i didnt know what to reply back i fealt like i didnt need to send her back anything, and now im scared she lost her interest, i didnt show any, i just showed friendliness -_-

ANYWAY, if thats not an issue and im just being paranoid, then i need your advise about asking her out.. my plan was to when we have a convo this week to tell her that "we could go together to soho if you would like to the apple store, maybe some shopping, sushi and what not" something like it, like id be asking her to hang out to gether, because she said she wasnt out in ages, so i guess she will agree, if she does, we hang out, how do i make a proper move?

Posted by roamingfree
awww....don't let her find out she is smarter than you >;-/...this will be the end of you...instead of trying to figure out how to keep her around with Ramming tricks (pun intendent, lol)...polish up on your mental capabilities...so awake your inner geek and throw some bad boy with sugar into the mix and you should be set...just don't play the bad boy on her...she will run

oh no, im not planing on doing that, you can converse with me just about anything, im pretty smart, ive been raised by a Gemini so... 😛 Im not gonna do bad boy thing, but what do u mean bad boy with sugar? just be sweet?

just be masculine, mature, and reliable all around with a lot of sugar for her... it should not be too hard for you 🙂

oh yesh im pretty shweet xP, and i mentioned how whenever she stands in-front of me facing away she tries to rub against me, it makes her look so cheeky :]and me - really masculine just wish i could hug her, but yeah.. not at that stage yet lol

but again, that makes her like me more, but i feel like its time to ask her out, idk how

btw i was being cute saying cute things, do you geminies like that? i dont do it often but sometimes i do

You're obsessed.

KingOfAries

dude, she is a Gimini we are easy.

if we like you, we talk to you, if we are not talking to you and we usually do if its a girl its because she is talking to another girl about you.
Gimini's love to talk or another guy it depends. but most likely a another guy. cause its hard to find people we like of the same sex. but if she has lot of friends that are grils it thats probably what it is.

also, most likely you have some competition since Gemini are big flirts but we only talk with people we like we flirt with anyone just to get our way.

i dated a girl Gimini once. lol it was the most fun i have had in my life.
she was dating another dude at the time and she was dancing on the dance floor. i saw her by her self and introduced my self. and we so each other at the same club every weekend. i didnt know it at the time but she was being totally bad. involved with several guys. but she still made me work for it.

after a year of just trying to take her home with me. cause every-time we would dance together i would just ask her to come home with me.
one night she just said ok sure let go to my place i am like what.

you can ask and she may reject you dude but gimini dont give up and dont expect other people to give up either.
so, just keep trying but honestly play the conservative role if you really like her just be there for her. she is going to be bad and then good and then bad again if you can handle that then go for it. gimini people are not innocent at all. we get what we want. and we are very superficial unless we are in love. but your an aries i think your lucky your probably the only sign gimini can fall for raelly hard.

How to ask her out.

i dont really know what the best approach would be.
be serious i guess i dont really know cause i dont really ask girls out.
i mean if girl likes me she just calls me or i call her. i usually make the first move but i am not a girl i just do it cause i like to get what i want.
my pathernal twin sister is also a gemini and she asked me one time how do i get i guy to like me.
its like she didnt even have a clue.
i told her just like the same things he likes.
anyhow she really took that to heart cause now she has her dream husband an aries lol.
dude really just be your self.

you have all kinds of good stuff going on for you. dont stress the situation.
and give your self time to be an aries when you can be your true self you will find that she will just melt for you.
and she will never ever let you go.

omg i feel so lucky 😄 thanks GEMINIINLOVE, However, from my insight observations, she is not a wh0re, considering that she hasn't been even out for a while... and that shes so concentrated on school, i think she isnt, i dont wanna guess but i even think she could be a virgin at her 21, ive seen how guys act around her, one day they fall inlove with her, next day shes stone cold and they move on lol, there was this another aries guy, but he is weird fat nasty, when i sat with him once he kept like chewing some food and burping inside, i almost puked, so the day when i got her interested in me she was actually asking him lots of questions how his bd went etc. smiling, i got really jealous.. -_- but i didnt show it, i just realized that i need to make a move before that fat sh!t does, so i would just talk to her whenever possible and little by little we are at this stage, and thanks for advise, ill just let if flow for now because it flows very nicely😛 and yes i think she does talk to her friend about me but idk if she can give her any good advise she looks like a tomboy with big boobs.. lol but still 😛 thanks for advise!

way to do geminilove...way to give everything about us away, just like that on a platter 😛...sheeeeshhh...we all know she likes the guy, otherwise she would not give him another look never mind stand next to him, lol

KOA - you are obsessed - just ask her out already lol

you think i sit here and wait for a miracle? im working on it, i know she likes me.. and the virgin part was just an assumption, to be honest i dont care, as long as she is faithful, and i trust her.

yes im damn obsessed 😛 you geminies are obsessive, so girly, so fashionable, so gorgeous, so intelligent ahh lol

janettam i love you dont hate me, i didnt mean to be mean i was drunk when commented that post of yours i think

ill keep that in mind, i understand that i have to do it soon, im not planning on waiting for 1 month, most likely sometime this week, cause we already have plans together ;P

Don't be too accomodating too soon. It's okay to do nice things for her and send nice texts, but don't go too far. Give space and remain intriguing, okay? And the way you described asking her out seems perfect- very casual.

Posted by janettam
. gemini's attention span are limited.

you can say that again. too true.

Posted by thomas1214OMG FIIIINALLLY someone who knows what the flying fuck their saying

lol go finger yourself thomas

Norcalman67...

ya know.. everything seems to be going the right way, my initial plan was to get her interested - now i know 100% that she is..

today, we spent whole day together and other 2 ppl a black friend of mine and her friend-girl. We were in the cafeteria me and my friend we were doing some physics stuff while girls were studying botany, from time to time we interrupted each other for a joke, a laugh, she put some creme on her hands i told her to give me some-not that i needed it just wanted to take it from her, so she gave me some from her hands, it smelled nice, oh then i complemented her nails she did a really nice job on them by herself, she said she did it herself.. i actually took her hand to look, but i just wanted to get the reaction if she pulls back her hand - she didnt, then she said she was going to get coffee with her friend and laptop was dying so we needed to move and they wanted coffee so she says to me that they are gonna go buy coffee and go to the library and stay there, NOW - all that

oh and she does believe in horoscope signs, if u start talking to her about them she knows well her own, aries, and few others, aries because her brother whos same age as me is also aries, 5 days older than me, and shes 2 years older than me-_-, anyway, she knows what aries are made of, do u think its an advantage? oh and almost forgot to ask, when i get to know girls i usually greet thmem with a kiss on the cheek, same when i say bye, should i start kissing her on the cheek or it will mess things up?

Life is what is happening ... while you're busy making plans.

And I'm sure she is quite involved with experiencing her life .... you have more plans to make because more life needs to pass you by.


enjoy !!!!

I've been raised by a Gemini grandma, and i'm about year and a half ahead in school, all my friends are 20-21, so me being 21 lets say intellectually, she is still far ahead of me, but i really want to make everything possible to get her, i guess i will just cut the crap/jokes and will start being serious and motivated on what i want, i got her interested, now i don't want to ruin it.

Okay i got a few questions:
-how do i know that my geminie girl likes me?
-ive read that geminies act nervous around guys they like? what are other things i could catch on?
-and how do i show that i like her without scaring her?
-who usually initializes the relationships in my case? aries guy or gemini girl whos older?

today after class we went outside and THANK YOU GOD AND JESUS AND UNIVERSE she fought with her annoying friend OVER ME! my geminie asked that girl to register 2 classes under her name just to keep them for me, and she needed the spots now, so they fought, my geminie wanted to keep the classes for me thats what she told me, and i said that i feel kind of uncomfortable because of that.. so i asked her to go and study for the final just the two of us, she agreed but said she wanted to eat first so we went to eat and spoke about her idiot friend at first, idk why but i couildnt randomly change the subject and start asking about her family and stuff, so we ate and when we finished i took my and her garbage to throw it out, like she didnt have to touch a thing, and went to the library and started solving problems: she goes "i cant do these problems from this chapter because i havent read it" i said "listen, theres nothing to read, i havent read a chapter from this textbook, look there are only 2 equations, thats it, chapter is read" she laughed, and i said lets give it a try and we did and it was good, she got stuck i explained it to her she got everything. I liked when she watned to see what the answer was on the laptop and i said "don't..." and she froze her hand before she touched the computer looked at me, (i wasnt looking at her directly) and smiled? that made me feel dominant lol, but yeh shes older shes the dominant one i guess, anyway, she likes to hit me gently, she drew a line on my hand i didnt see it, then she drew another one and made an X i looked at it, kinda smiled, and didnt say anything.. what was that? oh and today in the morning she ignored me, didnt say hi, i was sitting with this girl who is her other friend but this one is a hottie, she came down and talked to her and well as i was there im like.. whats up *her name* and she goes nothinggg and 3 of us had little convo, it looked like she was avoiding me in a way?but then i caught the bird and we went to eat.

I think her "ignoring" you was her way of making things seem "cool". A lot of times when I've been carrying on similar flirtations I will wait until they come to me next time I see them. A) I really don't like to be smothered/smother and B) I really don't want to come off as so...eager.

In my opinion, regardless of her age, I think she would appreciate you taking lead. So long as you don't Dominate her all is well. I'm pretty good at fitting myself around other people as long as it doesn't start feeling cramped. I think other gems will agree.

If she is genuine (about you), she won't eat you alive for taking initiative like aforementioned. If she attempts to, she isn't genuine. In that case, she likely won't ever be or at least any time soon.

😄 Also, the "x" she was writing on you was her playing with you. She's both testing you and flirting.

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Posted by GeminiMind
You're obsessed.

yep.

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Don't be too hard on him, it is Gemini + Aries - who among us can resist?

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Posted by GeminiMind
You're obsessed.

yep.

Don't be too hard on him, it is Gemini + Aries - who among us can resist?

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Point taken.

lol at you guys, yes we can't resist gemies ;PP

Posted by Sickleesweet
I think her "ignoring" you was her way of making things seem "cool". A lot of times when I've been carrying on similar flirtations I will wait until they come to me next time I see them. A) I really don't like to be smothered/smother and B) I really don't want to come off as so...eager.

In my opinion, regardless of her age, I think she would appreciate you taking lead. So long as you don't Dominate her all is well. I'm pretty good at fitting myself around other people as long as it doesn't start feeling cramped. I think other gems will agree.

If she is genuine (about you), she won't eat you alive for taking initiative like aforementioned. If she attempts to, she isn't genuine. In that case, she likely won't ever be or at least any time soon.

😄 Also, the "x" she was writing on you was her playing with you. She's both testing you and flirting.

wait so if it the "x" was playing with me testing me, or flirting do you think i made an appropriate response? i feel like i should have played back now, because i acted too serious i looked at it, smiled and didnt say anything, just kept talking

I think your reaction was just fine. As long as you didn't get pissed you're good 😆. However, I have tons of fun competing with my aries man. That is actually one of the things we like so well about each other. I have tons of fun trying to win play fights like that.

Lol we actually had a thing going on like what you mentioned once. I was busy and he marked my arm when I wasn't looking. So, I stole his pen and gave it to someone else to hold onto. He looked Everywhere for that pen, and knew I took it but I wouldn't drop the confused act. Eventually I gave it back because he just started using a permanent marker instead. I would MUCH rather have pen on me than permanent marker.

So I'm just saying it could be fun, but not necessary 😄. A bit immature, but I could honestly care less. We're always laughing together and thats all that matters to me.

lol okay ima draw on her next time 😄, oh and is it a good thing to be protective?

i mean to worry

Those are things that can have fine lines drawn between them. Do I like the fact that my aries wants me to txt him to let him know I got home save? Of course, thats very endearing. Would I like it if he were telling me I shouldn't drive so fast or while I'm sleepy because he's worried I won't get home save? No, probably not.

In one case, he is showing his concern and working with me to look out for me. If I never texted him, then he would know to come look for me to make sure I was ok. Something obviously happened and he'd want to be there to look out for me.

In the other, he is trying to force me to not do something I've decided I want to do. Even if I didn't originally plan on it, I probably will after being told not to. I'd do this just to exercise my right to do what I want when I want.

So with that being said, its all about the delivery and intent. Understand that if you come to us and express a concern and then ASK us to stay with you tonight (as opposed to driving on very little sleep) then we're much more likely to be agreeable. Commanding us or expecting us to do as you wish no questions asked won't fly.

I am worried about one thing. I understand you want to do things perfectly and be everything she wants. I can relate to that entirely, and I'm sure others have felt the same at one point in their life.

Please make sure that regardless of all this advise you still show her your own self. Don't be someone you're not just to make sure you're her everything. =/ I can't see that being healthy for you, her, or a relationship. Besides, you really don't need so much advise anyway. For as often as I've been reading aries loves gems the true can be said vice versa. There are so many things that an aries does naturally that will make us fall for you. Honestly, I'm afraid you'll be trying to accommodate so much of our advice she'll never get to see all of your wonderful aries qualities. Lol don't turn into a gem and over think the whole date away!

ima just ask her out after finals, to soho, as planned, will hang there till late night and see what happens.. i just REALLY am not experienced with girls like her, and thats my main problem, before that i dated shallow girls who i could literally come up to and start kissing and they wouldn't even resist, I only experienced whores we can say, then i took 2 years off because i concentrated on school, i grew up, stopped being an idiot. Now i have to get more comfy with her "As a friend" because i started mentioning stupid pauses in our convo and i believe they are because she is nervous as well as me because i like her, so i need to brainstorm topics, and the rest of the date! crap! shes not just older, she is also smart, and a geminie.. its a big task for me idk how you all look at, you think im a moron who cant ask a girl out, but its a HUGE deal for me to make that move, not to ask her out, but to make a move when we are already on a date, i dont know how i should make a move?! im so desperate that im about to call my grandma

i see what you mean sickleeSWEET, i figured that out already and i do it in non-forcing way, so thats not a concern anymore, and i do act like myself, i am just extra nice to her because i like her

😛 My aries is a year younger than me and I really don't think about it. It actually only just now occurred to me that the same situation applies. I know it for a fact, but it doesn't play a role in our relationship.

Guys that I go out on dates with ask ME. I've never gone out with a guy that just randomly asked me. I might keep your number, but more or less for a keepsake. They've always been those guys that stuck it out long enough to earn "friend" title before I took them seriously enough to spend my time on them.

With that being said, successful dates were those confident enough to just walk up to me and invite me out.

One example, this libra walked into my work and talked to me for a while. We had known each other for a while, but he was always with one of his friends. This was a weird night because he was alone. So he spends time making me laugh for a while, and then when it slows down he asks if I would like to go have coffee with him. It was very simple, but I gave him props for having balls enough to walk into my work place and ask me out. We spent hours at this place talking over coffee. Just getting to know each other and laughing. This was such an atypical night. We really didn't do anything at all but it was still so much fun. I thought it was a great sign that we could just talk for that long and still enjoy ourselves. Later before he left he tried to kiss me. That was weird. I turned away. Not because I didn't find him attractive. I most definitely did! I just don't do that on a first date. So uncomfortable...barely know a person. Later, he would ask me over every night for about a week to talk about various things. We would listen to/talk about music since we share the same tastes. Books, funny stories, our views on recent events that we share, what kind of people we are. I felt like he understood me and I loved that. I also felt like we were both stuck on past flames and I hated that. So I ran, and he gave me space. We're both a bit too idealistic to be air signs, so we try to keep up a friendship anyway. Its not going so well.


A more recent example, I've been friends with this person for a little over a year. We always had fun/had a lot in common. We were always preoccupied or else didn't think the other was interested. One night he asks me to come hang out with him. He makes it sound like its with a group of people, and so I assume its just a "friend" thing. So we make a time to meet somewhere. He calls about a half our be

Sorry, I'm a fool. Here is the rest.

***A more recent example, I've been friends with this person for a little over a year. We always had fun/had a lot in common. We were always preoccupied or else didn't think the other was interested. One night he asks me to come hang out with him. He makes it sound like its with a group of people, and so I assume its just a "friend" thing. So we make a time to meet somewhere. He calls about a half our before and asks if I would rather just ride with him on his bike. Of course (Yay new experience = gem loves)! So we meet, and he helps me with my helmet. Tells me how to lean when he leans/where to put my feet/hands etc. Very endearing the whole way. Never cocky or demanding. Takes me to this amazing view above the city and a little off the side of the mountain. The whole while he is there helping me climb/making sure I don't slip or fall. We talk and laugh. Enjoy the amazing view. People do eventually come, but they go quickly. I think thats when I realized it was more than just "hanging out". Lol call me slow, but I honestly didn't think he was interested. It still kind of blows my mind to this day. After a while we climb back down. He was still holding my hand to give me balance, and when we were done climbing he just never let go. He held it all the way back to his bike, and then helped me on. We went to a place for shakes. He opened the door and paid the ticket. He never made an inappropriate move, and told me he'd like to do it again soon. He gave me a hug, and waited until I drove off to make sure my car was in good terms (I have a bad car, but most of the time it gets me around lol). The next day I did what you described earlier as her "ignoring" you. He gave me a little space at first, let me do my thing, and then he came to me later with something relevant to say. Otherwise, I would have waited until I personally had something relevant or interesting to say (just not right away-I would have held it until a little later like he did).

Does this help?

Also, lol at you putting caps on the "sweet" of sickleesweet. Whats that all about?

so it was a romantic kind of date you two had😛 is that the aries one? so he didnt make a move on the first date, which date would you say would would be comfortable with him making a move for a kiss?

cause youre sweet!! and i also wanted to point out your name so that you dont miss it 😄

lol thanks so much guys

Posted by KingOfAries
so it was a romantic kind of date you two had😛 is that the aries one? so he didnt make a move on the first date, which date would you say would would be comfortable with him making a move for a kiss?

cause youre sweet!! and i also wanted to point out your name so that you dont miss it 😄

It was with the aries, and I think he made the better move than the libra. The aries was looking for something more than the libra and so therefore treated me better. He waited until the fourth date before he gave me a pop kiss goodbye. Then the next date we actually kissed. I loved it. Of course I was attracted to him all along, but I needed to wait to see if he was really what I thought. The fact that he never rushes things with me makes me feel secure. I feel like I know he has my best interests in mind and actually CARES.

Gemini girl here. My advice is to just casually talk to her. Sometimes, if you spring a (out of the blue and/or shocking) question on us too quickly or we haven't talked much about the topic it can really throw us off gaurd.

When you guys hang out, start casually asking her questions like when her last relationship was and if she's looking to be in one. She'll pick up on what you're trying to do, we're smart women. Just get her talking and observe. When I like a guy, I'm not secretive about it at all. She may need a little conversational nudge but just feel her out. You'd be better off making some kind of move (and I highly do suggest VERBAL before physical) because gems love men who can take the initiative and seeing that you're an aries, you're probably more than capable of that!

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Posted by KingOfAries
so it was a romantic kind of date you two had😛 is that the aries one? so he didnt make a move on the first date, which date would you say would would be comfortable with him making a move for a kiss?

cause youre sweet!! and i also wanted to point out your name so that you dont miss it 😄

It was with the aries, and I think he made the better move than the libra. The aries was looking for something more than the libra and so therefore treated me better. He waited until the fourth date before he gave me a pop kiss goodbye. Then the next date we actually kissed. I loved it. Of course I was attracted to him all along, but I needed to wait to see if he was really what I thought. The fact that he never rushes things with me makes me feel secure. I feel like I know he has my best interests in mind and actually CARES.

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did he hold your hand on all those dates? i wanna hold her hand so baaad 😱 lol

Posted by PixieDust

When you guys hang out, start casually asking her questions like when her last relationship was and if she's looking to be in one. She'll pick up on what you're trying to do, we're smart women. Just get her talking and observe. When I like a guy, I'm not secretive about it at all. She may need a little conversational nudge but just feel her out. You'd be better off making some kind of move (and I highly do suggest VERBAL before physical) because gems love men who can take the initiative and seeing that you're an aries, you're probably more than capable of that!

nah i dont wanna ask her about her last relationships ill get too jealous, and literally i dont wanna know, im building our own history i dont want to be a part of hers or to remember hers, maybe in the future it will come up, but i dont want to bring up her memories, what if she remembers her old date and will be like omg i havent talked to him in forever let me call him lol, she wont do that but it will bring up unnecessary memories, i dont want it.. and yes thats what im planning on to do, verbal before physical... see it would be a bad idea to kiss her on that day i started liking her lol, i was sitting besides her, looking at her..lips and it was just irresistible, hence there forth lmao i was inlove with her

i meant that i want to be something unordinary for her, not a typical last date/boyfriend, anyway shes mine whatever way you twist it

Lol I didn't say ask her for details about her past relationships. I said bring relationships up. Ask her if she's interested in one...

You don't read very well Aries.

-_- its 3 in the morning and ive been doing physics all day, and texting her, i know what you meant but i dont wanna b ring it up on our first date, ill do it maybe on the second third if she wont get until then what my intentions are, and ill probably do what sickleesweet's aries did, good b ye kiss on the lips on the third date, thats when ill start calling her pet names, maybe that will be on the date after that, yeah thats like basic blueprint, im not gonna plan anything cause i dont like overthinking, ima just do it and see what happens, not everyone is the same, but i definitely wont rush and force her into anything.. she told me she was studying i asked her whether she ate dinner today, she said yeaaa i had redbull and coffee, now i feel sick and nervous, then i told her "please eat: /" "u dont wanna be sick during finals" then we just kept talking about other physics stuff i was explaining something to her, my question abt food was really random but i just knew she wasnt eating ugh.

Unfortunately it's all over. After everything.. I just don't know what to say anymore.

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the accidental texts she sent me were:

-YEA??
-Like who??

they could mean anything, including that he got suspicious of her liking someone else and now hes jealous

Posted by wineaux
well, continue being her friend. maybe she'll share??

share what? thats the only thing that remains.. to suck it up and continue being a good friend, and secretly hope that convo they are having is about me..

and i sense you mind your own fuking business and stop following me around and trying be like me, stealing my nickname and feeding on someones misfortune, if you got no life and the only way to feel satisfied and good about your miserable self is to bully people online then you need to get serious mental help, after you read this you will be in denial and will possibly reply with a pathetic excuse and more bullying, be that as it may or not be that, you are ignored

unless he is an aries, i got much more chances, hope they didnt date long..
i spent abt bit more than a month but now she texts me all the time

1, she doesnt flirt with me, but i think she has a sympathy, and 2nd she does not tell me about her problems nor about her boyfriend, in fact the whole time she acted as if she didnt even have one.. my next moves have to be very careful, ill keep being my true amazing self to get her more addicted, and then ill ask her out, so ill stick to my plan, but before pursuing i will ask her about him, how long they are together etc. so that i dont waste my time..

yeah i remember... and noo i wouldnt say anytihng to her about how i felt.. ill ask her how long they been together if its long and if hes aries i wont attempt anything, if however they werent together for that long i might still have a chance, ill just stick around until they break up and when they do SHE IS MINE, however now i dont know what to do, i mean should i still ask her out to hang out in the city? that would make her bf jealous and gems i guess hate jealous guys so it will increase my chances, oh and also

Norcalman67

did you read on the previous page what she said? her accidental text was "YEA??" and then "like who??" she has an iphone if you talk to 2 people at the same time its very easy to get confused and text the wrong person.. so that could be a part of him being jealous, i just really hope hes not an aries =[

what do u think do i still have some chances? she texts me non stop now i could say..


The king of libra, dude i know but i get too attached, so if i wont have luck with her ill move on to the other 4 billion, but for now im not giving up