
GeminiMind
@GeminiMind
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Posted by thomas1214Posted by GeminiMind
She's gonna bounce once she figures out that you're obsessed with her dude. Or she's going to use it to her advantage
veery true and seriously how long has it been now?? why not move on and find someone else in nyc?? its a pretty big city with alot of possibilitiesclick to expand





Posted by westside
im not gonna sit here and hold back cuz i feel it right to let you know-you're being played man, when you understand this you might confuse what shes doing as cold and heartless but shes not doing it on purpose, its odd because your situation is very similiar to one i had except my role was hers in this story, i easily attract looks from girls and i select carefully the ones i give looks to, some looks with more intent than others based on what i look for personally in girls,pretty much what im trying to say is that there is a possibility that you could hook up but in her mind there is someone better and until she sorts things out with that person then and only then would you have a true opportunity. i could be wrong but im just going off what information you have shared. if what i have stated ends up to be true, and time will tell if it is, then my advice to you if you do not want to give up is to just completely ignore her the next time or couple times you see her, then will her true intentions become appearant. another thing is you are obsessed man and when i put myself in her situation it scares the hell out of me and is a turn off no doubt, whatever you do do not come off strong, if you're still in the process stage. best of luck man i hope shes worth it.





Posted by westside
personally i think you need to work on your charm, if you want to grab her attention like your aiming for you need to not so boring, im not gonna lie from the conversation i can infer you're a friend but things could change, i mean im gonna give you props cuz you dont give up and thats going to count for something in her eyes but the thing is you're younger than her by quite a few years so she thinks she can take advantage of you and it shows... look if you wana cut the bullshit and go straight to how you feel, be alittle intimate and if it goes well keep going and if not well then the truth will come out...she likes you though, that i can tell. my advice on the txting is keep the mood light whenever your just having conversations, add some "lols" and some "haha's"i trust you wont overdo it though. just do your thing man.

Posted by Sickleesweet
In the other, he is trying to force me to not do something I've decided I want to do. Even if I didn't originally plan on it, I probably will after being told not to. I'd do this just to exercise my right to do what I want when I want.

Posted by KingOfAries
the accidental texts she sent me were:
-YEA??
-Like who??
they could mean anything, including that he got suspicious of her liking someone else and now hes jealous

Posted by GeminiMind
She's gonna bounce once she figures out that you're obsessed with her dude. Or she's going to use it to her advantage

Posted by GeminiDahl
Please don't try and make her jealous. It wont work whether she likes you or not, but it will surely make it so that you won't be in the running if and when she and her boyfriend split. In my opinion, it's time for you to walk away and meet someone new...but then again, I suggested you simply ask her out on a date way back when you first posted about her.

Posted by zentientsquirrelsentinelPosted by GeminiMind
She's gonna bounce once she figures out that you're obsessed with her dude. Or she's going to use it to her advantage
No !! Women aren't like that ! 🙂click to expand

Posted by zentientsquirrelsentinelPosted by GeminiDahl
Please don't try and make her jealous. It wont work whether she likes you or not, but it will surely make it so that you won't be in the running if and when she and her boyfriend split. In my opinion, it's time for you to walk away and meet someone new...but then again, I suggested you simply ask her out on a date way back when you first posted about her.
Although this is also helpful advice.
A little stalking and jealousy is cute, out-and-out psycho - not so cute
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Posted by annabella
seriously this is still going on? I know it helps to be guided at times hon, and you're young but some things are better left if they can happen naturally! there is no fool proof / step by step way to get any girl or guy otherwise we'd all have who we want!

Posted by KingOfAries
okay but the reason i was so boring was because i dont want to show my attraction to her, i though if i was fun and flirtatious she would freak out, damn fine i will make her laugh from now on and idk about flirting.. cause for the past week or so i think i was being too funny and didnt actually show her my intelligence.. so ive been trying to make it up, shit ill just be myself thats it, i just realized ive been trying to accomodate her the wrong ways..
and what do u mean i have best chances when she sorts things out with her bf? you mean after they break up or what?

Posted by annabella
another thing is... did i read somewhere that she has a boyfriend? didnt we just settle this with the aqua girl you liked who was also taken?
aren't there single girls to go after? these cant be the only two hot chicks you know..


Posted by KingOfAries
GRrr this is insane, i just feel like all the pretty and good girls are taken! and here i got to know two girls started liking them and them BAM they have boyfriends and i have hard time letting htem go.. Gemini is too good to let go so ill wait, maybe ill practice till they break up that sounds like a good idea but its off topic.. yeah ur right if she has a bf it could be something serious, i will probably talk to her about him next time i see her will be like hows everything and then will throw in the convo hows your byfriend and will start asking questions about him just to get general stuff about him, the main thing actually i wanna know is how long they been together.. thats probably the only thing im gonna ask her about him, that will tell me if its anything serious.. and i am trying to get stuff on her boyfriend its just she never mentioned a thing about him, i wish i could learn my enemy but i cant..
i know how to act with girls and stuff but this one is different and i just dont wanna screw up, ill continue being a good friend, i will be fun and flirtatious in texts and whenever, not to hard of coarse i understand the limits, and i will not try to bump into her nor i will look for her on campus, nor ill call her to go eat together, as i said, i leave the initiative of her seeing me to her. and when the time is right - when they or if they break up, ill ask her to for example go hang out in the city, go shoping or whatever, think thats a good plan.

Posted by annabella
she's totally got you by the balls and you are a sucker being walked on.
by the way, westside: thanks for the compliment 🙂

Posted by annabella
she's totally got you by the balls and you are a sucker being walked on.

Posted by P-AngelPosted by annabella
she's totally got you by the balls and you are a sucker being walked on.
Sadly, he doesn't know it and thinks he's manipulating the situation in his favor ... he really thinks he's getting somewhere due to his moves.
It's sad, really ....click to expand



Posted by westside
...i mean we can sit here and speculate as to what really is the truth but the fact of the matter is we dont REALLY know what shes doing...
Posted by westside
sounds like you got a plan, and it sounds pretty sound. although let me speak from experience i find thing thats go worse whenever i contemplate on what to do next time i see someone, and if you just act on the moment things are alot more raw and it feels better. not going to say asking her about her bf is a bad thing, cuz this will definately let her know your interested. i know what you mean man, i love gemini girls all others seem too boring. btw you'll know you're getting somewhere if you get the feeling shes trying to make you jealous, or she gives you one of her charm smiles.
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Posted by P-Angel
Here's the thing .... you say what you need to say to get the point across that you want to make, and I'll say what I need to say to get the point across that I want to make.
Whether you think it's tasteful or tasteless is up to you to think, and has no bearing on me and what I should or should not do.
I had a point to get across, and never asked for your approval in saying it to him. My point being ... it's very sad the he doesn't know he's being played, and he thinks he's manipulating a situation his favor and he thinks he's actually getting somewhere from it, and he thinks he's accomplishing this because he has no clue that she's playing him.

Posted by P-Angel
Here's the thing .... you say what you need to say to get the point across that you want to make, and I'll say what I need to say to get the point across that I want to make.
Whether you think it's tasteful or tasteless is up to you to think, and has no bearing on me and what I should or should not do.
I had a point to get across, and never asked for your approval in saying it to him. My point being ... it's very sad the he doesn't know he's being played, and he thinks he's manipulating a situation his favor and he thinks he's actually getting somewhere from it, and he thinks he's accomplishing this because he has no clue that she's playing him.


Posted by westsidePosted by P-Angel
Here's the thing .... you say what you need to say to get the point across that you want to make, and I'll say what I need to say to get the point across that I want to make.
Whether you think it's tasteful or tasteless is up to you to think, and has no bearing on me and what I should or should not do.
I had a point to get across, and never asked for your approval in saying it to him. My point being ... it's very sad the he doesn't know he's being played, and he thinks he's manipulating a situation his favor and he thinks he's actually getting somewhere from it, and he thinks he's accomplishing this because he has no clue that she's playing him.
^.- you're cold...i recognized the point you got across and i think he will too. my point was that you should throw in some advice after stating what you believe to be the obvious..do you LIKE killing spirit?click to expand

Posted by DoubleGem2Posted by GeminiMindPosted by DoubleGem2
^^^^^^Is that you Triple E?
Nope, that's Bling. 😉
Bling changed his name? wasnt it everevolvingepithat?click to expand

Posted by annabella
lets focus and try to stay on topic... aries dude getting worked by a gem girl! hehe

Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^^Whats up with him? I wasnt sure who the hell it was at first...then i noticed the bizarre humor....dead give away. His ability to put people in check, without stirring up any shit.

Posted by DoubleGem2Posted by GeminiMindPosted by annabella
lets focus and try to stay on topic... aries dude getting worked by a gem girl! hehe
I feel bad for the guy, because his obsession is progressing. :\ P-"Angel" thinks that Gem girls are slutty, that's rich. HaHa! Hard to get actually, look at it this poor guy. 😢
I do find it fascinating when reading these threads about relationships and sex, that Gemini threads are about "How" to get a Gemini. On the Pisces boards it's "When" they get a Pisces. Hmmmm....... Pisces might be a little looser in the sack, I believe. They do it under the guise of "Love". It's bullshit, they're easy as hell. HaHa!
GM....its all good dude, I came back on here understanding one thing, this is only for fun....at the end of the day, nobody pays my bills on here....perspective my man perspective.click to expand



Posted by KingOfAries
ill be looking for those signs, and will play according to the moment, i didnt mean that ill plan out every hour with her, i just gave like a general plan on what im gonna do, i think its good, and ill stick to it.. and idk how would she play me and what would she play me for, like really, so far she helped me a lot with things, with registrations, she helped me study for physics and other things, she really helped me and im really grateful thats what i told her that im grateful for everything she has done for me.. so if you think, she is the one who got played, even though she wasn't, nor was I, there's nothing to play me for really, I haven't achieved anything significant yet, I am involved in different fields which she doesn't know about yet.. But one thing I can say I know for sure - she doesn't play me, if i was an marker trying to hook up yes she would play me, but she knows me because I'm an Aries like her brother, maybe she did do some things to see how ill react, that's obvious, but doesn't everyone do that to learn something about a person of interest? You underestimate my intelligence guys, you think i wouldn't know if she was playing me? I see everything, I was raised by my Gemini grandma, i know how you guys think, you wouldnt even stand with a person who you think is stupid, but if she really is playing me (and i dont need you to tell me that she does because you dont know her and i can figure it out by myself) - she wont see me near her ever again, and i think she knows it, and if she cares a bit, she wont let that happen. From our yesterday's convo (page7 or 8)she clearly has me on her mind, and because she is still with her boyfriend - doesnt mean that he is better than me, and it doesnt mean she would break up with him if she found someone better right away, maybe thats the reason why she texts me and not all the other 100 male friends she has
oh and guys, im not doing a step by step walkie talkie thing to get her, i listen to what you say and i evaluate it, the only thing i wanted to know was what u guys liked and stuff, and now i need advise on how to be if she has someone, thats it, nothing else



Posted by DoubleGem2
Oh...I'm June 11.....you have been very nice to KOA...sticking by him every step of the way....true Gem🙂
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