Confused about Geminis - Someone Help!

Why would a Gemini keep you on their friend list if they don't talk to you or if they have a problem with you? What's their motive?

I had a bad pass with a Gemini female. She called me the first time to form a relationship for the sake of our kids (we both have kids for my bf) but I started to sense jealously and intension from her social media statuses which were related to our situation. Then she came out one day (because she was constantly watching me) and said she didn't want to be friends with me no more because I was an attention whore lol then she blocked and deleted me. I did respond to her before the deletion and it was very, very, very rude. Then months later I reached out to her again (for the sake of our kids) and we both again agreed to have a civil relationship. I would go out my way to try and check up on her etc but now I'm noticing the same chain reaction again. I've stop trying to talk to her and its like if I don't say anything then we don't talk. I'm at the point where I just want to call it quits and not try anymore. I'm not down for the being your friend one day and your enemy the next. I've already deleted her off all my social medias except for one (and that's because i'm seeking advice before I do). So I'm trying to figure out what is her motive if she doesn't talk to me?

Speaking in general terms; A lot of Geminis keep a large circle of acquaintances even if we don't regularly keep in touch. For most of us, there is no reason to remove you as a friend or contact unless you've done something to really piss us off. Therefore, there is no 'motive.'

In my case, especially as I have grown more mature as I've gotten older, I have removed a lot of people that I was no longer in touch with. I got off social media, somewhat for my own good (and I feel a lot better by the way) but also as a test to see who is really a good friend. Wow, the difference is night and day and how quickly you will find out. I don't want to know or care about what everyone else is doing at every moment of the day, what they like, who they are with, etc...I know it's not me and honestly it made me feel shitty as if everything was a comparison contest. True friends will stay in touch with you and value you, social media or not.

Agree with gemguyaz34, if we are indifferent, you can stay on our friends list, though we may unfollow you quietly so you don't spam our news feed. But I wouldn't defriend. Its only if we are trying to get over you, or if you really really disgusted us and we had a bad falling out (and you would know if this is the case), we would defriend you.