confusing gemini man

hello my fellow geminis.although im a gemini woman.i cant decode my friends gemini bf.to make the story short. He has a son with an ex that hes still in touch with and besides of that another girl is trying to reconquer him. The thing is that my friend (a taurus woman) is jealous and possessive of him.she said he lied,hid sth from her.but i think the key problem is a conflict she had in the past because of her family and he was involved and from there the realtionship went downhill.now hes hot and cold with her, when she ask him what does he want from the relationship he doesnt give her an answer.she gave him a break but he got back with her.i really dont know how to help her.can u please give me some advice?

Posted by nanobyte
I know Gemini men well, I am engaged to one and have dated them in the past 🙂 So let me get this straight.... there are 2 other women besides your Taurus friend that he's in touch with:

1) the mother of his son, okay shes just going to be a part of his life no matter what. Is there anything being perceived as romantic going on here?

2) another woman trying to "reconquer him", as in another ex from his past? What is going on here?

Whenever families meddle in relationships, I find that causes huge problems. HUGE. I have been on the receiving end of the mom who created a mommas-boy dynamic between her and her son and it was just ugly. One of the reasons why we broke up.

We don't have enough information, you said he lied to the Taurus about something? What?

Based on what I read here, he does not want to commit to her. Gemini men have a tendency to be very aggressive to get what they want, and they will flat out tell you that they want to be with you, if they do.

The only exception to that was the sweet cancer moon gem I dated for 5 years (the one who was victim to mommas boy), I didn't know where we stood, relationship wise and he told me: "what? of course we are together, aren't we?"

The gemini in your story isn't displaying anything committal to your Taurus friend, unfortunately. I think it's time for her to move on.

Thanks for your reply.well i dont really know about the mother of his son or what is really going on between them to give you more details

the other one is lets say that my friend because of the problem she put some distance between her and her bf .meanwhile, the other girl got closer to him and he used to spend alot of time with her while my friend was away.but eventually he blocked her and stopped talking to her.but now that my friend is in the picture again she is making her moves (im talking here about the other girl) and the lying is conected to this girl because shes saying that he said that nothing happened but she saw some evidence that there was more.

and u are right i think that she should move on but she is in love with him and i try sometimes to explain to her but im afraid i might hurt her and its her call anyways not mine.