Disappeared

Following my big fight with Gem, he's no where to be found. Last time he logged on FB was after our fight. Same with other chat programs we use.
His best friend and mother are worried and I had to explain to them what happened.

Gemini wise: Is this normal for a Gem to completely disappear? Usually, he just stop talking to me, not everyone.

Gem's mother told me our fight affected him more than he said.

(I know what everyone told me. I was his clutch, and I understand that. But I just want to know, sign wise if his disappearance is a normal thing for a Gemini)

Thank you everyone.

I don't normally disappear. I have to stick around and talk and talk and talk about it until you understand precisely what you've done wrong. But, I'm not a dude, either.

Posted by Whimsy
I don't normally disappear. I have to stick around and talk and talk and talk about it until you understand precisely what you've done wrong. But, I'm not a dude, either.

I'm exactly like this.

When you do it to gemini men (if you ever did)
Did it worked?

Posted by peanutsNcrackers
Anna, I wish he didn't control your emotions like this. You need to separate yourself from him.

It's going to sound weird but I let him.
Because of what he said to me in the past when things were better.
He said that me being a constant in his life makes him happy. So I'm hoping its just a bad thing and that it'll get better between us.

Something changed tho recently and he doesn't know what.
We got in another fight tonight
(He went camping with a friend. Didn't tell anyone and when he came back. Talked to me like nothing happened)

He ditched me again, and I talked to him.
He said he was sorry many times. And I talked and talked, trying to make him understand. He didn't say much back. Just that he was sorry, understood why it's making me sad.
At the end of our conversation, I asked him if he was trying to kill what was left between us and he said no.
I asked him if he wanted to hangout with me again and he said he didn't know.

It's always confusing with him.

I get the "I don't know" answer often when I ask him if he likes me still.

Stop asking him if he likes you. that makes you seem very insecure. You MUST be happy with self first. To hell with him and love YOU FIRST and foremost.

Why would he want to be with you and it seems like you dont value yourself? YOU are a prize honey...always remember that! if you dont know it...then fake it till you make it.

Constant in his life= Fall back girl. When a man cherishes you, he will make sure that you know even after a fight.
He will tell you that he needs space to figure things out and then he will contact you in a timely manner. He will not just disappear on you.

Perhaps, he does not have the capacity to cherish anyone. If that's the case then you need to keep the line movin'.