Do you i still have a chance with this Gemini girl

Hey all this will be my first ever post i need advice on if its trully no chance of me gettin this Gemini girl

1. Im aqua she's a gem we had class together the last month of school eventhough we did not really talk one day she came into my job and she would give me friendly hugs this lasted for a few weeks
2. About a month or 2 after school was out she became my coworker.
3. After reflecting back i realized she's liked me for quite some time at least a few months.
4. She Initiated first but i was to hot and cold
5. She started acting indifferent but i stepped it up and for a brief time it seemed like things was going good but then i started acting aloof and detached again.
6. Now we are at a point where we dont talk we ignore each other at work some other guy is trying to talk to her and now i seriously regret my actions and i realize how much i like her.
7. I texted her yesterday the first time in about a week and i guess she deleted my number and when i told her who it was she did not text bck.
8. Now typically in this situation i would have already moved on but im just confused a couple days ago i saw her when i was getting off and she was shopping in the store with her younger siblings at first it was the same thing we ignore each other but a lil later when she was in the line and i was walking past her to pay she made eye contact with me and she looked sad/upset.
9. This is one of the most confusing things one of her coworkers who im pretty sure is a good friend { i overheard her say she introduced him to a cpl guys} always looks at me when i walk by sometimes she looks upset or indifferent other times she's very friendly. And to go with that they act friendly lightly flirt with probally my closest friend at work.

At this point im going to try one more time before i move on i have not seen her in a couple days at work so im not sure if ill see her tomorrow but these are my two options
1. If i see her im gonna tell her i want to talk to her and actually tell her how i feel which is a bold step for me.
2. If she does not work im gonna talk to her friend and hopefully she will tell her that i asked about her are tell her that i want to talk to her.

Now i will say thankfully i have not come off as desperate or needy in fact i will say i should have showed alot more interest texted more called her.

So to all the Gem women how do you feel about this situation and do you think that i can get her or do you believe all interest is gone

Hey all this will be my first ever post i need advice on if its trully no chance of me gettin this Gemini girl

1. Im aqua she's a gem we had class together the last month of school eventhough we did not really talk one day she came into my job and she would give me friendly hugs this lasted for a few weeks
2. About a month or 2 after school was out she became my coworker.
3. After reflecting back i realized she's liked me for quite some time at least a few months.
4. She Initiated first but i was to hot and cold
5. She started acting indifferent but i stepped it up and for a brief time it seemed like things was going good but then i started acting aloof and detached again.
6. Now we are at a point where we dont talk we ignore each other at work some other guy is trying to talk to her and now i seriously regret my actions and i realize how much i like her.
7. I texted her yesterday the first time in about a week and i guess she deleted my number and when i told her who it was she did not text bck.
8. Now typically in this situation i would have already moved on but im just confused a couple days ago i saw her when i was getting off and she was shopping in the store with her younger siblings at first it was the same thing we ignore each other but a lil later when she was in the line and i was walking past her to pay she made eye contact with me and she looked sad/upset.
9. This is one of the most confusing things one of her coworkers who im pretty sure is a good friend { i overheard her say she introduced him to a cpl guys} always looks at me when i walk by sometimes she looks upset or indifferent other times she's very friendly. And to go with that they act friendly lightly flirt with probally my closest friend at work.

At this point im going to try one more time before i move on i have not seen her in a couple days at work so im not sure if ill see her tomorrow but these are my two options
1. If i see her im gonna tell her i want to talk to her and actually tell her how i feel which is a bold step for me.
2. If she does not work im gonna talk to her friend and hopefully she will tell her that i asked about her are tell her that i want to talk to her.

Now i will say thankfully i have not come off as desperate or needy in fact i will say i should have showed alot more interest texted more called her.

So to all the Gem women how do you feel about this situation and do you think that i can get her or do you believe all interest is gone

I answered this on the relat. & asto board. 🙂

I know aqua guys are hesitant to show their emotions all the time.geminis may get upset for a lil bit but we do get over it and still love you just as much. I am so happy in my relationship. Sometimes yes he makes me want to pull my hair out be wise he is never up front. But honestly I am still so in love with him its unreal...literally unreal.

So with that bring said...to me actions do speak louder than words in most cases. Don't feel to pushed into telling her all your emoticons and just be yourself...talk about what you wanna talk about. Send her flowers ask her on a date do whatever you want. If you want her...realize its not the end of the world and try her on for size. She has empathy for you already but is dissapointed because your acting like a jerk... 🙂 honest truth.

She obviously really cares for you as well.

Posted by Geminivixenn
You need to make your move, all your doing is acting childish by trying to get her attention by being in her presence or trying to get her attention by not SAYING anything. Words are everything to us, you are moving like a wuss. We honestly don't care.. we are easy going state what you need to state and hear her words and see her actions based off of that and don't do it through TEXT! Biggest pet peeve of mine. Passing her while in the line up is not enough and I am pretty sure she thought that was lame. Talk to her in person and let her know where you stand. Her actions will let you know where she stands after that.

I second the motion. Emphasis on the 'WORDS ARE EVERYTHING TO US.' that's all that's missing. And no, please don't do it through text. It's a turn off that you can't say it to our faces. It's easy to get a Gemini to a conversation because we love to talk especially when it runs so smoothly.