
RioAbajo
@RioAbajo
8 Years
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Posted by Effervescent
End it. Remove him from your life.
I'm sorry but how are you going to cheat on me, give me an STD, I end up taking you back, hate myself for it and THEN you tell me you love me but you're not IN LOVE with me?
What am I? Some kind of used up cum rag?
BITCH BYE!
He would be gone from my life!


Posted by RioAbajoYou mean he will give you everything except what you truly want... then he is only willing to give you what he wants to. I've been in this before where the guy only did what he wanted to do for me and that what is it to maintain. Miserable.
Wow... Ok that makes so much sense... Girl, Im torn.. this man would give me the world... but still wouldnt commit to just me... baffles me. He's a Virgo FyiPosted by Effervescent
End it. Remove him from your life.
I'm sorry but how are you going to cheat on me, give me an STD, I end up taking you back, hate myself for it and THEN you tell me you love me but you're not IN LOVE with me?
What am I? Some kind of used up cum rag?
BITCH BYE!
He would be gone from my life!click to expand



Posted by bittercupcakeTakes 2 to tango.Posted by RioAbajoClassic Gemini trait...finding loopholes to get away with what he wants. I'm guilty of it, but honestly to give someone an STD... that's gross.
He slept with her and told himself that was ok bc we weren't really in a relationship. And slept with us both unprotected.. lmfao. What an idiot I am!
BTW you're not an idiot. ... he's the idiot for not wearing a condom.
-PS-
The relationship is tainted...so end it. Things will never be the same because he lied - broke your trust - passed on a disease - and is still unsure of what he wants from you.... so he's not in love with you.
Geminis , or at least the moons, are faithful when in love with their partners.......click to expand

Posted by Cancan26Fixed it.
Don't be reckless with your body like that... I understand that you love him but you don't have to be treated like this.. You can find someone that would love you back.

Posted by LadyNeptuneYep.Posted by Cancan26Fixed it.
Don't be reckless with your body like that... I understand that you love him but you don't have to be treated like this.. You can find someone that would love you back.click to expand

Posted by bittercupcakeIt's not rude. It's the truth.Posted by LadyNeptuneI know... I just didn't want to be rude to OP... I think she's suffered enough contracting the ClapPosted by bittercupcakeTakes 2 to tango.Posted by RioAbajoClassic Gemini trait...finding loopholes to get away with what he wants. I'm guilty of it, but honestly to give someone an STD... that's gross.
He slept with her and told himself that was ok bc we weren't really in a relationship. And slept with us both unprotected.. lmfao. What an idiot I am!
BTW you're not an idiot. ... he's the idiot for not wearing a condom.
-PS-
The relationship is tainted...so end it. Things will never be the same because he lied - broke your trust - passed on a disease - and is still unsure of what he wants from you.... so he's not in love with you.
Geminis , or at least the moons, are faithful when in love with their partners.......
His willingness to fuck raw should have been her red flag that he's done it before, ergo risk of disease is higher. She also is guilty of having unprotected sex. She could've easily been the one to pass it onto her next partner...click to expand


i. He's a Virgo. The girl he slept with was also a Gemini. And I ended it yesterday. Thanks for your input. Seriously.
Posted by bittercupcakePosted by RioAbajoClassic Gemini trait...finding loopholes to get away with what he wants. I'm guilty of it, but honestly to give someone an STD... that's gross.
He slept with her and told himself that was ok bc we weren't really in a relationship. And slept with us both unprotected.. lmfao. What an idiot I am!
BTW you're not an idiot. ... he's the idiot for not wearing a condom.
-PS-
The relationship is tainted...so end it. Things will never be the same because he lied - broke your trust - passed on a disease - and is still unsure of what he wants from you.... so he's not in love with you.
Geminis , or at least the moons, are faithful when in love with their partners.......click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptune
Always assume he's dating (read fucking) other women unless terms of exclusivity are discussed.
Keep in mind words are free and freely used to pull the wool over your eyes. Actions matter more.
Never fuck a dude raw until you at least have an agreement of exclusivity.
To get what you want you need to make it known from the beginning. Your power lies in having the strength to walk away if he can't make it happen.

the clap you'll know before you sleep with the next person... IF you're not with another person too soon. As far as I knew I was with someone who was only with me. We'd been dealing with each other for almost 2 years so it just was what it was.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by bittercupcakeTakes 2 to tango.Posted by RioAbajoClassic Gemini trait...finding loopholes to get away with what he wants. I'm guilty of it, but honestly to give someone an STD... that's gross.
He slept with her and told himself that was ok bc we weren't really in a relationship. And slept with us both unprotected.. lmfao. What an idiot I am!
BTW you're not an idiot. ... he's the idiot for not wearing a condom.
-PS-
The relationship is tainted...so end it. Things will never be the same because he lied - broke your trust - passed on a disease - and is still unsure of what he wants from you.... so he's not in love with you.
Geminis , or at least the moons, are faithful when in love with their partners.......
His willingness to fuck raw should have been her red flag that he's done it before, ergo risk of disease is higher. She also is guilty of having unprotected sex. She could've easily been the one to pass it onto her next partner...click to expand


Posted by LadyNeptune
Always assume he's dating (read fucking) other women unless terms of exclusivity are discussed.
Keep in mind words are free and freely used to pull the wool over your eyes. Actions matter more.
Never fuck a dude raw until you at least have an agreement of exclusivity.
To get what you want you need to make it known from the beginning. Your power lies in having the strength to walk away if he can't make it happen.
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Fast forward a month. He calls to tell me I need to get checked bc he's got the Clap. He slept with someone else and got it. A coworker... I made him pay for my treatment and I ended it. He cried and pleaded with me to forgive him and take him back. He'd do anything.
I took some time alone. Then I forgave him and out more boundaries in place. He abided. And things were damn near perfect.
But as time went by I started to resent the fact that I forgave him.. Bc I felt so tricked. He slept with her and told himself that was ok bc we weren't really in a relationship. And slept with us both unprotected.. lmfao. What an idiot I am!
And after all that he still wasnt sure if I was the one he wanted to be with. He says he loves me but he's not sure if he's in love and needs more time to figure it out. I told him I needed some space and time. We still talk almost daily but no where near as much....
I dont know how to fit him into my life. He was a fucking GREAT friend. Now, not so much. We're both lost I think. I do love him and I'd like to forgive him but I think Im wasting my time... How do I end it? Should I be patient? What would you do. Cuss me out whatever. Lol
Thanks
Rio