Fellow geminis, i need advice on why i cant let this aquarius go....

i thought it was love at first sight to realize that his libra BM meant more to him uh i cant believe i admitted that. anyways. He would have kept us both but she gave him an ultimatum and he chose her...smh. i didnt care about titles i just knew when we were together it was that instant real love shit. i just wanted to be around him i didnt care what he had. but he chose her. and i keep reading about compatibility and libra and gemini are both his soulmates so what was it that i didnt do right?? i know the connection was real but obviously the kid factor means something. but i felt like our connection was so fun and spontaneous that he would choose me bc they always fought.

why cant i let it go though? please help me let it go. i have a new bf too and hes amazing but i just so badly want to get aqua to talk to me and f*** him again just to show her i won. its eating me up inside to the point i drink because first of all im hot as hell and i can usually convince any guy to choose me over another girl. i do it for a living im a stripper i literally convince dudes to give me money. and they do. and they do whatever i want them to do. including this one (aqua male) but i wanted this one as my own and im so sad and hurt that there was something about HER that meant more to him. how do i get him back— or tell me some real shit to understand why she meant more other then the kid part bc if its just that then thats easy to have him let her go bc ill make his kids fall in love with me too lol

Wtf

Posted by Ram416

Wtf

lol i was drunk last night and in my feelings about the situation and needed advice lol

Posted by virgoth

you only offer one thing

I was a good time, a really good time, okay i get that but if u look at aquarius and and gemini we arent emotional people. just the fact that it was only because i took his mind off things and made him happy is enough for an aquarius to fall head over hills

Posted by thatbihh612

Posted by virgoth

you only offer one thing

I was a good time, a really good time, okay i get that but if u look at aquarius and and gemini we arent emotional people. just the fact that it was only because i took his mind off things and made him happy is enough for an aquarius to fall head over hills

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Sun sign alone doesn't say much. Do a synastry chart if you want to know more.

honestly it sounds like its your ego thats taken a hit. I become obsessive sometimes and its usually an ego thing. Focus on other things, keep yourself busy also think why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? I think its an ego / self esteem issue. No offence to you cause i've been through the same stuff

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Posted by thatbihh612

Posted by virgoth

you only offer one thing

I was a good time, a really good time, okay i get that but if u look at aquarius and and gemini we arent emotional people. just the fact that it was only because i took his mind off things and made him happy is enough for an aquarius to fall head over hills

not really I know plenty of aquas and gems that need an in depth partner, believe what you want and praise yourself to be powerful over men but know its temporary lust and nothing else

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I agree, I need an in depth partner cause usually I don't know how I feel and this helps me to work it out. Usually i prefer fire signs because of the passion they bring into a relationship

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Posted by thatbihh612

Posted by virgoth

you only offer one thing

I was a good time, a really good time, okay i get that but if u look at aquarius and and gemini we arent emotional people. just the fact that it was only because i took his mind off things and made him happy is enough for an aquarius to fall head over hills

not really I know plenty of aquas and gems that need an in depth partner, believe what you want and praise yourself to be powerful over men but know its temporary lust and nothing else

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I agree, I need an in depth partner cause usually I don't know how I feel and this helps me to work it out. Usually i prefer fire signs because of the passion they bring into a relationship

If he has young children then he chose to remain with his family and be a part of their lives. He will always choose them over you.

Not sure why you need the validation from a cheating taken father. There’s gotta be better dudes out there to stroke your ego.

I’m sure he’ll be back at the club soon to give you rent money. You can give him a mouth party in the vip.

It’s all started with agreeing being with man who has another woman.

Did you said you wouldn’t mind him having both of you! That’s 👀