For the ladies...

How do feel about your man having female friends or buddies? Do you get jealous? Does it make you uncomfortable?
Do you think he should slack up on seeing them? Do you trust it? I need all opinions.

If he's a Gemini, he's used to it however, the ladies who are his friends won't see it that way and sooner or later there's going to be a mess...You can't stop them from seeing their friends, however, you can emphasize that two can play that game to...or better yet don't give up your male friends....Is your friend a Gemini?

I am a gemini and the man I am speaking of is a taurus. He is my boyfriend.

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I am not following. What does this have to do with my question?

Alright, time to put a new spin on things. I'm a guy (but what would YOU do if I weren't? Don't know too many female Joshuas do you? Hehehe) I've also suffered from the opposite end of the question you are posing. I got in fights with some fairly close friends because of her suspicion and general lack of trust. I've personally never had the problem of being suspicious or incredibly jealous, but this might be a "guy thing."

I think, personally, that it's a good thing, too, because where I'm at now in life I feel much better off without that self-imposed stressor hanging over my head. If he doesn't like you enough for you to trust him, it is my though that you lost the game of mate-finding this time around, and it is my sincerest hope that you have better luck next time. (But the relationship game IS only half chance...) I told my ex at the beginning of the relationship that, since I liked her, if she didn't give me anything to worry about (like cheating) then I wouldn't give her anything to worry about (like breaking up). I think this is a good set of rules to follow, and going after the more indecisive, unstable types (myself included) is a complete gamble.