Is it true that Gems play mind games when flirting and they don't want to admit they like you because they are waiting for you to make the move/say it first.
Gem Flirt-tactics
Personally, and I can't speak for everyone, most flirting is done unintentionally, that is I think I'm just being charming and friendly. If it is someone I really like, I tend to not flirt with them because I am more self concious and worried that I'm going to blurt out something really really embarrassing - and god the amount of times that has happened ROFL! Gemini instinct - if in doubt, keep talking!
I get paralized by shyness (not that it's really obvious on the outside) and wait for the other person to make a move first - nothing worse than throwing yourself at someone......ah......the relationships that have never happened......
Essentially, I don't think there's anything calculating going on in what often turns into an intricate game of your move, my move, don't let your guard down - it's more a reflex defensive mechanism.
Having said all this, the relationships I have had, have never grown out of this kind of scenario, they've all fallen into place really easily.
and......I've made no sense at all!
Cheerio
I get paralized by shyness (not that it's really obvious on the outside) and wait for the other person to make a move first - nothing worse than throwing yourself at someone......ah......the relationships that have never happened......
Essentially, I don't think there's anything calculating going on in what often turns into an intricate game of your move, my move, don't let your guard down - it's more a reflex defensive mechanism.
Having said all this, the relationships I have had, have never grown out of this kind of scenario, they've all fallen into place really easily.
and......I've made no sense at all!
Cheerio
I totally agree with you cortica. I usually talk too much and comes off as 'flirting' even if im just laughing and having fun with the conversation...o.o i hate it when guys think something else when its practically nothing -_- i just wanna be friendly damnit!!!! lolz
i totally agree!
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