Gem Flirt-tactics

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Unregistered on Wednesday, August 7, 2002 and has 3 replies.

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@Cortica
21 YearsGemini

Personally, and I can't speak for everyone, most flirting is done unintentionally, that is I think I'm just being charming and friendly. If it is someone I really like, I tend to not flirt with them because I am more self concious and worried that I'm going to blurt out something really really embarrassing - and god the amount of times that has happened ROFL! Gemini instinct - if in doubt, keep talking!

I get paralized by shyness (not that it's really obvious on the outside) and wait for the other person to make a move first - nothing worse than throwing yourself at someone......ah......the relationships that have never happened......

Essentially, I don't think there's anything calculating going on in what often turns into an intricate game of your move, my move, don't let your guard down - it's more a reflex defensive mechanism.

Having said all this, the relationships I have had, have never grown out of this kind of scenario, they've all fallen into place really easily.

and......I've made no sense at all!

Cheerio

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@Luz
21 Years1,000+ Posts

I totally agree with you cortica. I usually talk too much and comes off as 'flirting' even if im just laughing and having fun with the conversation...o.o i hate it when guys think something else when its practically nothing -_- i just wanna be friendly damnit!!!! lolz