gem women&scorp men

I am just curious, why do gemini women fall for scorpio men the most? Is it because of their sexuliaty? I always seem to be attracted to scorpio men the most, but the worse thing is I can never have them either because somebody else catches their attention first or they are already involved with somebody else? And I cant be bothered to fight for the man, because I think its not worth it and I hate to break people relationship apart.
I think gemini's heart would be easily broken by scorpio man, if he lives her or doesnt find her interesting for him.
But that works with any other woman doesnt matter what sign she is, I am just saying that gemini woman will give themselves too much to scorpio and the will be waiting for something in return.I guess we will expect something from them, maybe to pay more attention and not to switch to someone else.Because thats the feeling I get all the time from scorpios.
Even I feel strongly about them, I cant show it to them because I am afraid that it wont be taken seriously and scorpio will know whats happening in your head and in your heart and I dont want them too.Maybe because gemini finds it hard to open completely to someone all the time even if they are crazy about the person, they'll never say the real truth only after getting closer to someone.
Any gemini woman out there,I would be glad to hear your comments on this subject!

You have a good point, The attraction is so deep, this is why I'm trying to stay away from the scorp. that I been seeing for 3yrs. You no he has a girl he's been with for 11yrs. now and three kids, I feel at this point he will only hurt me. He says I'm his friend, bla,bla,bla But I was starting to feel like I loved him and I wanted him to be mine. Now I'm trying really hard not to see him, you no physically. But I do Love Him.

I am not a Gemini, but I do have a friend who is absolutely crazy about a scorpio (she is a Gem by the way). She went out with him for about 3 years, waiting for a commitment, to no abound. He just wouldn't - she never trusted him either, with good cause because the little devil was fooling around on her. But he kept seeing her and wanting to be with her. She was literally going nuts.

I AM A SCORP WOMAN AND CAN RELATE QUITE WELL WITH SCORPIO MEN. THEY ARE VERY INTENSE AND HAVE STRONG OPINIONS. THEY ARE VERY DEEP THINKERS AND DRIVEN BY INTENSITY. MANY OF THEM WILL HAVE SECRET LOVE AFFAIRS BEHIND YOUR BACK. THEY WILL NOT ALWAYS BE FORTHCOMING ABOUT THEIR FEELINGS , AND IF YOU ARE NOT A STRONG WOMAN , THEY WILL WALK ALL OVER YOU. DON'T LET THEM DO THIS. STAND UP FOR YOURSELVES , AND REMEMBER YOU GEMINIS ARE QUITE DIFFERENT FROM US. YOU ARE AN AIR SIGN , AND WE ARE WATER. WE DON'T ALWAYS UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER , AND IT CAN LEAD TO PROBLEMS. GOOD LUCK , AND REMEMBER THERE ARE GOOD SCORPIO MEN OUT THERE , BUT FOR EVERY GOOD ONE THERE IS A CONIVING ONE.

I hear ya people.. Just had my first encounter with a Scorpio man and guess what its gonna be my last everything you posted is true.

I never understood what came over me I was working with the man and he had this power over me I found myself so drawn to him telling him my deepest thoughts.. I left my job a few weeks ago partly because of him he was driving me crazy. No more Scorpio men for this Gemini.

Scorpio Men are too jealous and possessive for Gemini Women.

I also think that scorps would easily break gemini's heart especially when we need them the most or in a better words we start to demand their own attention to us and that pisses them off I think.But when they need you thats it, there is not even a fraze like no for them! But when you do say no and delay things with them, I think you get more respect from their side. I think they dont like rejection at all.
Sometimes I think that scorpios are too difficult especailly when they start hiding in their own shell and I wish they could open up more and I think thats what gemini craves the most from them is to be open more.

I am a Scorp girl with accendant in Gemini . I love Geminis they always have something new and interesting to do or say . Their great for mental sparring (debate) . I think the problem in some scorpios is they take themselves too seriously ! They are slow to anger though but as good a friend they are to someone if that someone betrays their trust they could become your worst enemy . Nobody second guesses them more than themselves . Gemini guys are so smart , funny , charming and the list goes on and on .I am abslutely bewitched by the Gemini man in my life . I've heard that pairing Scorpio with Gemini is playing with fire but i'm not so sure .

yeah, scopion mens are control freaks, but love them while it last cause beleive me! Gemini women have a LOT to offer, which they know once they have gone out with one.

Jo

Scorpio and gemini do work together but there has to be a natural admiration for each other and something which they both would share, but beleieve me it does work. Gemini needs to be more patient and definite when dealing with a scorpio and if he/she does you definitely will get something in return. Scorpio mustnt push or pressure gemini otherwise the twins will escape without single word. But I think there is a lot of understanding and love for each other between these signs talking from my personal experience with scorpios.And it also depends on the planets and moon in your natal chart.

I am a Scorp Gal that was involved with a Gem guy, when the turn on the charm, watch out...even this Scorp girl is still trying to resist...the only way I am able to get over him is to ignore him, which he hates.....

I totally agree with you! I was with a male scorp and i am a gem girl for one and a half years. What a mistake!! He attempted to control me and play these mind games. He wanted me to kiss his azz. I don't think so! He would tell me all kinda weird thoghts and his sense of humor was so silly. They are also very outpoken, loud and can say hurtful things to people. They especially try this on gems. They think they are always right. I do not recommend this pairing at all! Don't waste your time. I am now with a taurus and he is like a scorpio without like 80% of the fuss! Get one of those and forget those scorps. The male ones need some serious help.

Twink,

Nah! You either click or ya don't! My dad is Scorpio and so is my boss and my niece and all my favorite people are Scorpios! You have to respect their moxy, intelligence, determination and all their good qualities, especially their depth of emotions which Gemini can't appreciate! Why not, I wonder!

I am sorry wonderbox, You shouldn't get offended by my post. From MY experience, that's how i feel. I am sorry to say that they have never shown me one good quality. Wonderbox, you cannot be a gemini to think this way and if you are you haven't seen the bad part of scorp whick is hidden.

I personally think that scorpios have a way of making everyone feel special. Its that intenseness that drives you wild makes you want to be with them. Problems arise when you start to get to know the person better. Gems and Scos dont match - in fact there are few signs that get on really well with a sco. Its not that they are bad people just that they need that much more! Want you to step over the line, give them your all but like to hold back and wait to see if its worth it before they jump.

You need to be a strong, self relied person to win a scorpio completely and then you need to give that up. Let them call the shots but not be clingly either. I know its a bit of a mess what I have written but being with a sco causes a mess, a big mess in your life.

PS I'm a capricorn and yes have been with a sco but being an earth sign made it no more easier!

I don't understand them-the scorps!Actually,not all the scorps,'cause I haven't met them all,but mine I surely don't!
My Mars is in Gemini and in some respects I find myself close to this sign.
-why can't he say "I miss you,I love you,I'm thinking about you"
-why can't he be more generous-presents&stuff? I always buy him presents-when I return from a foreign country ,when I see something that will match his apartment etc
-why do I always have to be the one that calls him?is that so time-consuming to take 5 min and make a phone call?
-why do I lose pretious time fantasizing about him,when he is not?
Does this all sound familiar?Maybe you've been there and have solutions.

find you another!!!

i get a long with my cousin, if that helps, OH YOU SICK bastards not in that way 🙂

I hope you don't love him in that way Luz; they might end up with a third eye in the middle of their forehead!LOL, but it might come in handy; they could probably drive home better, in the dark, from the bar, drunk, much better that way!!

My father's a Scorp, (which tells me that his birthday is coming up=) lol!), he's quiet mostly and a bit intense, but probably no more than I would be. Although, in my opinion, he might be the opposite of maybe some of the things written here on the board. He's usually generous to a fault, and he cares deeply for people around him. He shows it through his sworn loyalty, but I suppose compatibility all depends on the personalities of both people involved in the relationship. Try showing him your immovable loyalty to him, and I'm sure he'll come around.

my dads a scorp. Hes really generous too. He's really posessive and like REALLY protective lol. But he's just doing that cus he loves and cares. But sometimes i jsut really need to break loose and get out of there =/ cus i dont know, i feel suffocated. I dont like it when ppl restrict me and always have this barrier around me to tell me what is right and wrong, i respect his opinions but i think i know what is right for me, and if what i think is "right" for me goes the wrong way, then i guess thats just one of my life lessons*no not drugs or wutever, fools! xD*

Well, damn! 🙂

Scorpio dad? I didnt think he knew I was alive most of my time until I did something wrong, and I was always doing that.
Also never could disagree at all and very protective but like it! Also very generous and deep feelings, just knew when I was feeling! Very funny and smart and can play music!
Never restricted; he grew up hard himself.

and no tolerence for weakness in people! but very compassionate for people that are down.

I am a gemini with a scorpio ascendant. I have yet to be in a relationship with a scorpio but i have many scorp friends. I am definately intrigued by the scorpio, although they do not show their feelings the have some that are very deep. I mean it's not like Gemini's show there feelings often. Gemini's feelings run deep as well,we just have our minds blocking them from coming to the surface.When a geminilovesyou will know and since we give, give, give its hard for us to understand how people aroung us can recieve but never reciprocate.When a scorpio is brutally honest and we know its the truth that can be very painful especially when they have faults of their own we would like to point out.

Posted by wineaux
i was with my scorp for 13 years....absolutely never controlling, never jealous, easy as pie, never picked on argument with me, treated me like a princess, waited on me hand and foot...but BORED ME TO FUCKING TEARS. i am a gem. i need drama. chaos. something. i had to get out! i needed passion. flare. the unknown.

lol!! sounds like my taurus ex

Scorp men seem to come to me often but it never works out. Its like it never gets lifted off the ground far enough for something to happen... too many mind games from both sides id say...

I've recently been on a date with a scorp I met through my best friend's bf who turns out to be his brother.. so far so good.

For the sake of not having to read through posts on scorp forum, how does one know when a scorp is genuinley interested?? He seems to be and then on other days is very serious... but he gives me all of his attention and "chases" and seeks me out... which obviously is a good sign.

Scorps guys:

I've lived with two
Dated one
Married one

In my personal experience, one thing about Scorp guys is that you really don't have to wonder where you stand with them. They make it perfectly obvious by what they do, say, or don't say. If one wants you, he'll come for you. If he doesn't want you, he'll say so, or make it perfectly clear that you're in the way.

hahahahaha @ "still makes me a total gem slut" hahahahaah oh gosh i laughed so much when i read that lol. U always DO make me laugh 🙂