Gemini and choices

It probably wasn't the best idea to tell him you understood, when you actually expected him to cancel with the other girl. Guys need you to tell them exactly what you would like. A boyfriend should want to make you happy, but he can't read your mind to figure out what you want. Letting your needs be known is not the same things as controlling someone.

Posted by pssymonstaa
Ok first off I need to clarify a few things.

1. So because of family issues he can only see you Saturday night?
2. The other bitch, is only available to him for Saturday night also?
3. He straight up picked the other bitch over his girlfriend to go out on Saturday night?
If so, Id like you to take a shovel and bitchslap this idiot in the fuckin face!

Honestly, im just putting myself in HIS shoes.
If my girlfriend is coming to see me and I cancel the date with her to go "catch up" with some cunt from the past....i mean.. I cant be the only one who thinks thats fuckin ridiculous.

I believe you have every right to bitch as much as you want to him about this. Especially if you havent seen him in a long time.
Shady fuck that boy is im telling you. Dont be suprised if hes fuckin other girls.
You should have NOT played the understanding card. I mean.. Why? Why the hell would you play THAT card?
What is there to understand about him ditching you for a dumb bitch.

And if he reaaaaaaaalllly needs t o fuckin catch up, THEN FUCKIN DO IT SOME OTHER TIME.

Your NOT controlling his life by wanting his attention for one weekend when your in town.
Thats fucking expected Jesus!!!
ESPECIALLY if you guys live far away..

Please find a nice man where you live. Drop this sukkkkka.

And yes keep spying. Nothing wrong with that.

You are awesome

I know Gemini freedom is important...I'm a Gemini. But, it's reasonable to ask for some things in a relationship. It's the women who are afraid of violating a Gemini's freedom that wind up being pushed around and cheated on. Gems don't respect people who can be pushed around by them. If they are in love with you, they will make certain concessions. You can be healthily assertive, and stand up for yourself, without having to see yourself as a bossy bitch.

Yes, tell him straight up what you want, and that he is crossing a line by putting another woman ahead of you. Tell him calmly, but firmly. It's your right not to be second best in your own relationship, and he should be respecting that.

Yes Geminis do love freedom.
Freedom to go out with the boys on guys night without any hassle.
Freedom to build a fuckin train set in the garage without loosin sex privledge.
Freedom to be myself and be nice to the grocery clerk without you thinking im trying to fuck her.
You know... Things like that...

NOT FREEDOM TO DITCH YOUR ASS WHEN YOU DRIVE UP TO SEE ME.

THIS, THIS, and THIS! People of other signs, please memorize.

Posted by pssymonstaa
Katherine listen to yourself!

You never ask anything!
When the answer is no, you let it go!
You give him all this space and all this time and all this freedom!!
YOU GO TO HIS TOWN JUST TO SEE HIM!
You poor thing. If you were my girlfirend id fuckin drive to YOUR town to spend my weekend with you.
I wouldnt even chit chat with other ex hoes to catch up.
This guy is a taint.
And i hate to say it... But when "dinner" is going to take all night.... Uhh...Im just shaking my head.
THIS WAS YOUR WEEKEND. NOT HERS. I DONT GIVE A FUCK.

Yes Geminis do love freedom.
Freedom to go out with the boys on guys night without any hassle.
Freedom to build a fuckin train set in the garage without loosin sex privledge.
Freedom to be myself and be nice to the grocery clerk without you thinking im trying to fuck her.
You know... Things like that...

NOT FREEDOM TO DITCH YOUR ASS WHEN YOU DRIVE UP TO SEE ME.

Honestly this idiot is thinking of you as an OPTION.
NOT a girlfriend, but an OPTION.
Which is why hes keeping his OPTIONS open and going to "Catch up" all night long with someone elses girlfriend.
Fuckin prick I hope he gets killed by a bear. Not the animal either.

Please do you a favor and exit this relationship. You deserve someone 1000% better.
Give him an ULTIMATUM. Its you or her. If he picks her and ditches you call him a fuckin peasant loser and tell him his dick smells like rotten cheese .

I agree with whimsy. I fucking love you. let's elope 😛