Gemini and phone sex

ok, My Gemini boyfriend has been out of town for the last 3 weeks . And I have been working crazy hours.

Needles to say I have not really spoken to him much. When I get home . I pass out sleep for 3-4 hours then have to continue to work.

He likes to have phone sex and I love telling him what I want to do with him. We do different senarios. Like when he tells me he is working late I would tell him what we would be doing on the chair or on that table. Right now he is in Denver in the moutains. So, we were playing Redriddinghood and Mr wolf.

Ok, so , my problem is that he always wants me to tell him what I want to do with him. And it is getting boring for me. I once mentioned that I want him to want me too and would love for him to tell me what he wants to do to me.( hey, I want to be wanted too).
ANd now like the leo I am I am sulking

QLIbraMale, believe me I have tried and hinted...or I will start then ask him to play along... 3 sentences then it is back to me.

Posted by QLIbraMale
why not buy him sex dice and tell him roll and get creative he'll probably get a kick outta the dice lol.

yeah, he does but the problem is when he is not near and we have to do it over the phone.

I know he loves me, cause he is the kind of guy that shows you that he cares.

Gems are pretty resilient, I'd just tell him clearly what is going on while you two are having a different convo. Something like....

"Hey babe, I need you to really take the reins when we talk later. I've been doing all the heavy lifting for a while and I need a break. A long one, so tonight I'm not going to say anything and you'll know how you're doing by the sounds I make. K? Kiss, kiss, bye. Call you later."

As a gem myself I can take straight up criticsm. If this doesn't work do it again. It takes a few times sometimes if you have to tell both twins. ;~)

I'm a leo and just met a Gem boy yesterday and he's trying to pull that on me and i'm trying to slow him down in that department cos i aint no spring chicken and i want more than just a fling. Maybe show lack of interest in it and giggle, act coy and shy rather than stating what you want to do to him. Turn it around. If he's the woolf then he should be the one pulling the moves... play your character. Little red riding hood wouldn't pounce on the woolf she'd run and hide behind a tree and make playful glances from a distance. He'd get frustrated eventually and take the lead if you let it build up a little.