Gemini (Girl) and Libra (Guy).

Hi Everyone! I have been dating this Gemini girl for about a month now and we seem to like each other. We both have busy lives with work and friends, so we are seeing each other once sometimes twice a week. Whenever she has a day off, she would spend the evening with me, normally on Saturdays she would go out with her friends to a club or something...I will do the same with my friends...

Point of my topic here, I heard from some friends that a lot of Gemini girls are very flirtatious and promiscuous. Is this statement true?

She seem to be wild in a way, and into the whole clubs thing... but after the club, the next day we meet, she would normally tell me what happened, who approached her, who asked for her phone number and whatever happened... I don't ask these questions, she always tells me herself...

Gemini girl is something new for me, so some information would be really appreciated.

"I heard from some friends that a lot of Gemini girls are very flirtatious and promiscuous. Is this statement true?"

Flirty- YES
promiscuous- hmmm NOPE?

flirty, in my case and most of the gems i know, we do flirt a lot, witthout even noticing it, sometimes in front of our bfs, it doesn;t mean anything to us. just for fun. It's shallow. Not flirting to a point of kissing, nope..Sometimes, my bf is driving and i will be winking at other guys on the other cars...lol..stuff like that. I know most libras are not jealous type are u? cause my bf is not.

Thank you for your response everyone...

"I know most libras are not jealous type are u?"

"1_fine_gem" well not really, she can go with her close friends to a club if she wants to, I'm not the type of guy who controls every single move... but if I will know for sure that something is wrong, she is on a date or something, I will just break up. What do you really like about your libra guy? Please share if thats ok with you 🙂


"Emeraldgem" you said he got very serious, what do you mean? Wanted to marry you or what? Please expain.


I get a feeling this gemini girl is very serious, she even said once, if I like the guy whom Im dating, I will never cheat or date someone else at the same time... She just said it out of nowhere when we were at the party and she was quite tipsy as well.

To be honest I really like her personality, I feel very relaxed when Im around her... The only other sign I liked as much as gemini was aries but that sign was taking many things too seriously.

what i like about the libra guy....let me think

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ok, intelligence, the way his mind works, really good at psycholanalizing...quick wit, quick perception...quicky.. 😉

I'm currently seeing a Libra male at the moment & am very happy when with him. :-)

Today was the most unexpected thing that happened to me. I am actually still surprised as I am writing this.

I was going out with this Gemini girl for about 3 months now, the relationship seemed to be very good.
Today we went to the club together, we danced a lot, kissed a lot, then we went to some 24 hour restaurant, it was like 3am. While we were sitting, I said that her nails are nice but it would also be nice if she would do French manicure, my opinion. She became cold after that.

I was driving to drop her at home, she said that I should find a girl that would do nails whichever color I like and that this relationship doesn't seem to go anywhere. She will be going back to her country in 6 months, and there is no point in what we are doing.
I said that, the only reason I mentioned nails is because I care for you, and it was just a suggestion nothing more, like you would suggest me to wear some shirt or something. In regards to the relationship, I said that she should think about it because my feeling are the same for her, but I am not ready to make a really serious step yet. Thats how we have ended. She said see you around and I left. We didnt even kiss.

I am very puzzled. I dont know if she is going to call or not but I think I was really nice to her, honest, open and flexible today and during this whole relationship. Her words actually hurted me.
Is this normal for Gemini? Would she call? I would appreciate someone helping me out because I am very confused.

i think she got hurt of u suggesting about nail stuff...it's like you didn't really like her nail and you prefer french nail and the fact that you know the name, most guys wont know what the hec this kind of nails are probably made her think that you remember someone with a frenchnail or you like/d a girl with french nails...or you prefer a french nail over her nails and not accepting just what she has and also that's a little shallow that you would point out something physical and suggest something like that like maybe she could also think that you are little by little transforming her into what you want her to look or something, physical whatever sort is shallow to me, and i personally but thats just me) like people commenting about my looks..or whatever physical part..how much more suggesting something even positive..i don't even like someone telling me i am beautiful...lol..i think they are player, most gems are skeptics..so sometimes a little comment can get all the bad vibes..lol i know iam ravelling...probably mot making sense..and after that she probably thought of all the bad reasons why your relationsip can't work and that she'll be back to her country soon and you still haven't done anything to make your relationship actually work and ask for her hand...gem can be a bit impatient at time..i understand u libra guys need time to think things through and stuff..she porbably doesn't understand that crazy libra ways in courtship...the dissapearing and thinking side that could take days, week or even years..anyway, now you must have blown it a bit by telling her "you are not ready to take a serious step yet" that alone can be read as yuo are not really serious about her...

but a question for you, do u see yourself with her in the future? or are u still deciding? why?

sorry fr my bs

To be honest 1_fine_gem, I think we both need some time to really understand our feelings, I dont know yet if I see myself with her in the future, 3 months is not enough to answer this question. If there is a real love, distance would not be a problem I think, and ending this relationship right now, while she will still be here for another 6-7 months, I dont think is smart. Things could change.

In regards to the nails, reason why I know the name is because I like fashion. I still think I did not do anything bad, if she is my girlfriend whats wrong with me giving her just an advice what would look nice, I didnt force her or something. You probably right somehow she sees it different but I did explain to her in a car that the only reason I said it is because I really care for her and if I didnt, I would never suggest her anything.

I have a feeling the Geminis are the type that would not call first, even though they may feel they were not 100% right. Well she would not call definitely.

speaking of libras, I talked to my libra guy recently and boy am i starting to feel those feelings again....

fashion haha i'm sorry that sounds gay, but i know you are not..suggesting something to a girl then might not be that good idea, IMHO at least for now, but this is just me..other girls might have a different say on this..i would want my guy to either just accept it whatever it might be..lol..nope she might not call first..so u being a guy should call first..but her feelings might change..and she might call lol..i know i am confusing but sometimes it really depends on her moods too..if she is ffeling confident and devil may care, so what attitude she might call u, if not then u have to call. what's your question?...you like her a lot but still trying to get to know her better right?