Gemini Man - are we just friends or more??

I met this guy through a friend about half a year ago, I was in his town with a few mutual friends and we hung out altogether for a few days. I thought we had a great connection and seemed to have alot in common. He added me on FB and ever since then we have pretty much been messaging/texting/snapchatting. It started out pretty casual but now its all day, everyday. He's a bit hot and cold - somedays really flirty, somedays friendly and he always wants to know everything about me and if I go out with friends on a night out, he's always like - keep in touch when your out, let me know when you get home...etc.

Ive been up his way for work twice and both times we have met up and had a really great time chatting, drinking etc. but nothing has ever happened between us, we've just hugged it out at the end. Then he leaves and sends me messages saying he wishes he could of stayed longer and he wants to spend more time with me.

So Im just really confused, I know geminis can be natural flirts so is there a telltale sign that he really likes me? Normally I can figure out if someone likes me but with this guy, I just cant read him at all and Im too scared to make a move.

Saying he wants to spend more time with you could go both ways. Depends what you message/snapchat/text about.

Look to the content of what you guys have been talking about if you want to know if it's headed towards 'more'.

We mostly talk about our interests and how scary it is that we have so much in common. We also talk about the future and how we want to go travelling together, go see our favourite bands together. He always has so many ideas and suggestions of stuff 'we could' do but I know he's flaky and likes to talk a lot about doing things but then not actually following through...

Things that I would consider flirty, is when he messages late at night and says he wishes he could be lying in bed with me or telling me if I look amazing before I go out - theres lots of the winky faced emoji....haha. I hate that damn thing, what does it mean?

But now I think about it the flirty messages are not all the time, maybe every few days? Like I said before he's totally hot and cold....

Libra currently seeing a Gemini man here... definitely let it play out on its course and give it time. Coming from a fellow Air Sign who is dating another Air Sign, they are easy-breezy and detached, however being detached doesn't mean they have lost entire interest.

Gemini men are all about "the fun" factor so yes, it sounds like you have taken his interest because a Gemini who is consistently checking in on you is a very good sign (and especially considering future plans, that's a really good sign!) As a sign of communication and ideas they are just that, so sometimes they may have a fabulous idea but not exactly follow through. Doesn't mean they lose interest right away.

They can be hot and cold but give him the space he needs and most likely he will come back to you to check in and follow through. The Gem I am seeing is the same: sometimes we do go for a day or so with no communication, making me wonder if he has lost interest, but he will magically reappear with a gift and 100% interest (mainly because my Gem I am seeing is fully focused on his career right now)

Thanks for the advice - I guess Ill just wait it out and see.

Hope your Libra/Gem relationship is going well - from what Ive read about these signs its an amazing connection. I guess I just cant wait to get started! 🙂

The Libra/Gemini match is a really amazing combination mentally, we talk about everything and there's never a dull moment when it comes to verbal debates. I have to say a Libra woman is most likely one of the few out of the zodiac that can catch a Gem man's attention and keep him coming back for more. 😉

Our relationship has been going very well despite we haven't spoken about things being "official" yet (and it's been 6 months already!) But it doesn't seem to bother us since we're practically exclusive to each other and we both lead busy career lives (hence the saying "easy-breezy!")

Just give it time and the space it needs and I promise you the connection will grow over time if you go with the flow!