GEMINI MAN CONFUSING MAYBE HE ISNT INTERESTED?

im a aries ,,last week i was with him, i spent the night everything was good well i thought so, we had sex & we also talked until the morning. the night day we hung out talked some more, i told him i was ready to leave, he asks me am i leaving so early considering the fact that it is almost 2 in the afternoon, i said yes, he calls my cab & then walks me downstairs his mom is coming in while the cab pulls up too he asks for a hug & then says he gonna call me i say ( yea sure because i know how he is ) he calls me , then texts me asking me if i got home ( which he can see because he used uber on his phone & i only live down the block from him about 12 ) so i say yea & we text a little, anyways he says hes gonna get something for me from target i told him pay for it online & ill pick it up in the store which is about 5 train stops from us, he says thats kinda far so hell just drop it off for me i say ok, he ask me if im home i say no but you can drop it off where im at now he says ok, but his friend is going to be with him i agree... he comes where im at i get the item he says oh you look really nice etc when im about to leave he asks for a hug i give him a hug, then he wants to hes half way in the car with his friend & ask if i want a kiss i say its ok your already in the car.. he then texts me right after saying i look nice etc. we text a little more then he asks what im doing i tell him & ask the same he say hes about to go to bed i say okay goodnight.. he didnt respond for a week.. i told him prior i want to be in a relationship if u dont then dont talk to me he so call says he understands but somehow i keep having the sae converstation one minute hes all on me the next minute hes nowehere to be found.. whenever i say im going to leave him alone he pops up wanting to see me, when i block his number hes calling me off different nukbers to unblock it seems to be hes not interested or only want me when i dont want him which im confused about because he came to me whenever i left

I’m a gemini woman and I was in a relationship from an aries man. I am new to astrology and I don’t know how much difference it is between a gemini man and a gemini woman but here’s what I think.

I think that he is a bit pissed and sad because you’re not giving him attention. Like from what I read he has initiated a lot of things, texted you first, bought something from you, told you you look nice. But I don’t know how many times you texted him first or if you praised him or told him he looks nice or whatever. Geminis love attention as well as Aries. When I first got with my aries he initiated for a while then I did and at some point I felt that he wasn’t giving me that much attention like before so I stopped texting him because I wanted to see if he’s interested. ( you know if someone is interested if they text you first or they text you a lot ).

Like if I see that I keep texting someone and initiaing things with them and I feel/see they don’t do it in return then I step back and wait. I don’t do anything.

So maybe that’s what happening to him. I know gems are known big players and so on and so forth and that they change their mind easily and have mood swings. But he may not be sure about what he wants. I mean if you already had sex and you told him you wanted to be in a relationship I don’t think he would have bought you stuff from target, texted you, complimented you so on and so forth.

But he can be either playing I don’t know.

I’d say just ask him and get it over with.

You need to either be in a relationship with him or stop having sex. It’s confusing both of you. How long have you been seeing him?

I agree with the lady Gems... he probably wants more attention from you, but if that’s not you then Find another sign because Gem guys can be pretty sensitive to these things.

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Posted by diamondgemini
I’m a gemini woman and I was in a relationship from an aries man. I am new to astrology and I don’t know how much difference it is between a gemini man and a gemini woman but here’s what I think.

I think that he is a bit pissed and sad because you’re not giving him attention. Like from what I read he has initiated a lot of things, texted you first, bought something from you, told you you look nice. But I don’t know how many times you texted him first or if you praised him or told him he looks nice or whatever. Geminis love attention as well as Aries. When I first got with my aries he initiated for a while then I did and at some point I felt that he wasn’t giving me that much attention like before so I stopped texting him because I wanted to see if he’s interested. ( you know if someone is interested if they text you first or they text you a lot ).

Like if I see that I keep texting someone and initiaing things with them and I feel/see they don’t do it in return then I step back and wait. I don’t do anything.

So maybe that’s what happening to him. I know gems are known big players and so on and so forth and that they change their mind easily and have mood swings. But he may not be sure about what he wants. I mean if you already had sex and you told him you wanted to be in a relationship I don’t think he would have bought you stuff from target, texted you, complimented you so on and so forth.

But he can be either playing I don’t know.

I’d say just ask him and get it over with.

I'm also a Gemini (hello) and I 100% agree, I don't mean to sound bad but you sound really distant and I'd have probably washed my hands of you if I was in his shoes. One thing to know when Geminis fall we fall hard and for him to put so much effort in and you just brush him off.... Sounds kinda cruel. Geminis love to talk and talk and to always be with the person they like even if it's for a little butyou sound like you're the one who's not to sure and can't wait to get away from him. Maybe it's the way you phrased things, (I'm awful at getting my words out right). Still if he's feeling rejected he may move on and you can't blame him really.

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One way I show affection is via text... to show Im interested... the current Gem im seeing doesnt seem to care much for that... should I stop texting him as much? Though thats how Ive been from the start. We see each other every weekend or rather have been since the start of December. He told me that my texting sometimes confuses him because hes not sure if Im serious or just kidding.