Gemini Men

Very excited to have found this place, since none of my friends are into astrology! what is up with my gemini friend? hot and heavy for about 8 months, leaves to go on holiday and has been mia ever since...well one of us gets in contact with the other via text every three weeks..i really like him and am thinking that there is still something there, but not so sure...i am holding off on assuming anything and waiting for him to come home,, but jeez...is this typical of a gemini when they get to close?

Note:
he works overseas and for long periods of time, plus the holidays brought about alot of overtime...i am not making excuses, i am just saying...

we are both in our 40's

All opinions are welcome...

thanks

Lucy- I'd like to help, but I'm not a guy. There are TONS of posts about the disappearances of Gem guys, though, so if you scroll back through maybe one will help.