Gemini men- he loves me, he loves me not.

I've been in a relationship with a Gemini and we started out amazingly, there was no problems or anything and.. ugh. I dont know what happened but we started fighting and it never stopped. we went through a lot of things.. such as me getting pregnant and I had a miscarriage.. yeah. It was pretty fucking hard. Anyway, we're over and that's fine with both of us, it was a mutual break up.

But now I found another Gemini.. we started out great, as friends. He has a girlfriend, he is 17. She is away at rehab (which she has gone to before) and now she's going to be gone for a year. He's 17! They didn't promise to stay together, but they still are and he has no way to contact her so they can't break up. They were struggling before she left for rehab, but now they're still going out and he can't break up with her because she's gone.. Well, we fell in 'like' with each other and were intimate and everything.. and I know he truly does care about me. Its not a question of that.. but he said that he's been feeling too guilty about this and that he cant do it because of Katie (his girlfriend..) So now we're both heartbroken, and when Katie comes back she will be too.. He said they aren't going to be together. But she's been gone for almost 4 months, which means he has 5 months left. A long time for a teenage relationship. Sigh, I just don't know what to do. I want to be with him. He wants to be with me. I just wish he'd listen to his heart.

Does anybody have any suggestions=/

Yeah, that seems to work. But Its just so hard being just his friend. it hurtsss >.

Gem guy here. Anyway ya just be a good friend and just keep that space open for him. Definatly don't try to pressure him (not that oyu said you would) but I was with this girl I really liked and this other girl just kept pushing and pushing for me and it was really annoying honestly, and I still didnt give her what she wanted. Anyway good luck

not a esy age for a lad.

maybe i should add just looking to the topic. Yes in this age i loved but than you go for something else...bit of a JackA@@ type i was.

blahh. I dont pressure him, I've talked to him about being my friend but even then, things are weird. =/ he doesnt want to spend time with me.