gemini women are the most likely to cheat?

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Posted by jellybone
i read this online the other day and it worried me slightly because im currently talking to a gemini woman and she seems great so far, but she's very flirtatious and it makes me think that she would cheat sooner or later..

any of you gems ever cheated? and if so, what was your reason behind it?



We are flirty by nature. But, again, loyalty is a personal choice. Some gems I know do it for attention. Some are just overly sweet and are naturally flirty. Let her know this bothers you a bit. Feminists are very communicative. We love to talk. But do it in a calm manner. If she feels attacked she may rage.
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Posted by TokerX
Seriously dude? Anyone can cheat. And so what if she does? If she does it'll probably be because you're boring.



sounds kind of childish dont you think? i do notice gems do tend to display childish behavior..




Posted by GeminiGem
Agree with tokerx. Personally, as a gem woman- I have never cheated. Always been cheated on. But loyalty is a virtue. And some people just don't take other people's feelings seriously. It's sad, but, some people are just always looking for the next best thing.
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so you agree that if a person isn't entertaining a gem lady, she will more than likely cheat? hmm
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Not agree on the whole boring thing. I was saying I agree with him saying anyone can cheat. Like I stated, loyalty is a virtue. Some people just run over other people. It's sad that they are always hunting the next best thing.
But, the good news is- when they finally get to the other side where the grass was greener, they find out its astro turf.
If you are feeling like this is something that may happen, talk it out. If it makes you uncomfortable, let the person know where you stand on issues such as this.
You wouldn't buy a pair of shoes that are two sizes too big and pretend they are easy to walk around in and the most comfortable. Don't stay with a person you feel doesn't fit you either.
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I have never cheated. I have been in open relationships, but never went outside of agreed-upon boundaries. If a relationship is important to you, you do what you need to to make the other person feel secure.

Gems are born flirts, and flirting is second-nature. I promise you it doesn't mean anything as long as the Gem is yours. You may need to gently remind her that she's flirting and that it's making you feel bad. She may be offended at first, because she won't feel she's doing anything wrong.
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I did. Once. Back in my teenage years I was dating a leo. He kept saying I was a cheater. Needless to say, I had not. 2 months later I figured I'm being charged with the crime and already doing the time, I chose to cheat. One of the worst mistakes I've ever made!! Paid for it with lots of cheating bfs throughout the years... Never cheated again! It's been over 20 yrs ago... So, I agree with it being a choice and NOT a sign thing.

We don't realize we are flirting. Most ppl see our friendliness/niceness as flirting.
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There's another thread about Gems and flirting actually. Check it out 🙂

Personally I think it's just that people perceive our light hearted fun loving kind manner as being flirtatious. I personally am not a flirt and never even realize when someone is flirting with me because I just think ppl are being nice. Lol!

As for the cheating. Again, Gem misconception. I am FIERCELY loyal and devoted when in a relationship. Was with & married to my ex husband for 10yrs. And he's only my ex because HE cheated on me. And was abusive to me. (He was a Scorp). He even asked me to go sleep with someone else so that we'd be "even" and could start fresh. I could NEVER do that. For me when I am intimate with a man, I am completely open to them and connected. I could not give energy to another. When I have eyes for a man, they are for him only. Any other man is simply that. Just a man. But if you're my man, then you are held in the highest regard and no other can compare. I'm only 32 but an very much old school. I believe in the bond that can be created between two people. It is very strong for me.

Perhaps its my Moon in Cancer or Venus in Leo that makes me this way. But NO I do not cheat and would not ever do that to someone. It's the most painful thing you can do to the one person who should be the last person on earth that you hurt. If that makes sense. Its the ultimate betrayal.

I believe if you want to be with more than one person then do that and don't be in a relationship. Or be with someone who also wants to be polyamorous. But I could go on and so I digress. Lol!