Posted by BinotaI'm sorry, but can you write coherently so I understand what u are referring to?Posted by MoonbutterActually you pulled yourself your tail out of this.. 😐Posted by gemguyaz34Sorry, this is what happens when u pull the tiger's tail. But it's all good, I love a good mental rousting 😄Posted by MoonbutterLust already has a Gemini man and she's quite happy with him from what I recall. Stop being mean.Posted by Lustyeah my ex fucked my brains out...Jealous your gem not fucking u you good enough? Be nice and maybe I'll pimp u out to my ex 😉
Yup, that makes sense..
But ..1st you need to have the brain to play‰click to expand
Posted by gemelioristHaha u entertain me so, that must be why you your gem keeps u around..high-five!
the cry of the wounded....this is what happens when you deal with crazy people and try to help them and they think they are something they are not and then start swinging...lol.
cancers....never know when to give up and walk away....5 years and he's still got you hooked.....on....nothing...by nothing....with nothing.
enjoy your time on the gem board...it seems that's all you have...of the gem.......
Recap:
....I play along....yet I'll keep making threads because.... I've moved on....
.....he's harassing me.....yet I answer my phone and don't block his number and speak to him.....and ask to meet up cause I'm playing along.....but I've moved on.....
....I'm just testing him to get a reaction.......but I've moved on...
....I'm playing him.....or was it....wait...him harassing me.....
....but, bububut....I'm....a...bitch....see....so....there.....LOLLLLLLLLLLLL
RIGHTO!!!!!!
....oh the twisted panties of the delusional..so silly....priceless 😉
I hope someone is getting paid for this cause I'm not....😢
Posted by gemelioristThanks, appreciate! Ditto
This is so pathetic it's not nor ever was entertaining....
....good luck with your gem or whoever he belongs to gem....moonbutter. rooting for yah and all your glory!!!! 😉
Posted by gemelioristMmm I really don't care and u all can go fuck each other since u like to gang up on others.
Thanks Binota...I actually was being sincere with my first post....everyone has done things that they are not proud of....no need to grandstand and hurl accusations. Clearly she is hurt and I actually thought she was an ok cancer. She seemed to have a spring in step and wasn't too weighted down by her feelings....was I wrong....she was just waiting to explode...but on the wrong person.
Misdirected anger...oh well, hopefully better days tomorrow.. 🙂
Posted by misslissaYeah you all did and airman saw that as well. But really truth of the matter is I used to be so sweet and nice and for too many years I got trampled on and disrespected. I grew a hard shell and honestly I don't even know if there's softness anymore 😢 I was defending my exs character because I didn't want to believe he wasn't the man I thought he was. I am sorry I got carried away I have a lot of fire mixed with Gem Mars so I like to battle, sometimes for fun. I felt disrespected when I was told I was insecure because that is disrespectful, and if you think otherwise then try telling one of your parents they are being insecure. Case closed. No need to name call or disrespect. I have always shown kindness, Especially to Gems and for u guys to turn on my just really set my lil fire ablaze.
No one ganged up on you... YOU ASKED for our point of view... We gave it and you blatantly shot down almost everyone. Possibly everyone.
No one likes to be asked for advice and then you not take any of it into consideration...
Posted by AirManThanks Airman, I was saying you were the only one who didn't jump on the bandwagon and follow the others. Thank you for showing kindness 🙂
Moonbutter i never turned on you. and the hell with respect. nobody respects me. which is why i practically don't give a damn about people. i say if you feel disrespected in some way, go with your own flow. go with your gut instinct. that's what i do. i'm never gonna make a thread about stuff like this because i already know first hand haters gone attack me.
Posted by AirManThanks, that means a lot AirMan 🙂 And to think, they thought they were just dealing with some pincers that they could be rude to and stereotype as "typical Cancer" but who had the last laugh? 😉 Lesson learned, don't mess with fire...especially not mixed with a Mars Gemini lol
no problem Moonbutter. i'd normally stick up for the underdogs but in this case you handled yourself quite well. so i just stayed out of it.
Posted by gemelioristThanks but you don't have to explain. Not all Gems are the same, and to be fair I kept breaking up with him. I know him and how he is. Doesn't have anything to do with him not being into me or otherwise. I know that is not true, otherwise he wouldn't have spent $ 1,000's helping me with car issues and such. I was defensive because I felt his character was under attack and he doesn't deserve that. There has been some misunderstandings between him and I it has been a long rocky/windy road for us, but not for lack of love. Is he being respectful now? no, and either am I. Believe you me I call him on his bullshit and that's why he goes silent. He treats his family and friends like this as well, so I know it's not just me. And the reason I went hard out the gate with everyone was I am sick of Cancer being seen as weak/pushovers. We can be just as bitchy as everyone else damnit! lol
Nobody on the gem board hates you cancer or was attacking you....gems were being playful while letting you know that that guy isn't being respectful to you and you turned it around and started the name calling and swearing. Go back and take a look at this thread, the gems weren't mean to you.
If anything gems were letting you know that we don't drag something out for so long if we are into someone. That just doesn't make sense. It's logical to want to secure the one that you want and if one needs to live with less then so be it as long as you have a goal that you are working towards together. It's fine to talk and dream but at some point there needs to be action.
Nothing from him except flirty banter? What's that going to do for you? He's full of hot air and gems also don't disappear unless there is an issue, this guy comes and goes like the wind. We may be inconsistent, however we try and curb that with the one we love. He's not giving you what you need or deserve as a person or as a woman. What is the point in continuing?
Posted by gemelioristYes, he was wasting my time which is why he is my ex. I havn't seen him/talked to him he just likes he randomly text me things. At this point he is just wasting my patience, hah.
Ok you know him better than anyone here ever will. From the outside it looks like he's wasting your time. That's all.
I find that stereotype to be incorrect about the cancers that I know, I've never seen them as weak and nurturing and emotional. No more so than non cancers. I shake my head e v e r y s i n g l e t i m e I hear that and wonder if the ones I know came out of a pod. I j u s t d o n ' t s e e i t. Those attributes aren't exclusive to cancers or any water signs.
But that only matters to the people close to you and does not need to be proven to anyone else. Have a good night mb. 🙂
Posted by gemelioristlol some of us do have a significant other to take care of. 🙂
Oh boy....here we go...everyone has left the building. Tthe custodians have the week off....
Posted by MoonbutterMoonbutter.... I understand more than you know... I'm half cancer! Moon, merc, and mars in cancer. I understand you have a lingering love for him. I understand protecting/defending his character. But, there comes a time when enough is enough. Becuz the aqua in me sees the bigger picture, the end game and by the sounds of it, you're starting to see as well. 🙂Posted by misslissaYeah you all did and airman saw that as well. But really truth of the matter is I used to be so sweet and nice and for too many years I got trampled on and disrespected. I grew a hard shell and honestly I don't even know if there's softness anymore 😢 I was defending my exs character because I didn't want to believe he wasn't the man I thought he was. I am sorry I got carried away I have a lot of fire mixed with Gem Mars so I like to battle, sometimes for fun. I felt disrespected when I was told I was insecure because that is disrespectful, and if you think otherwise then try telling one of your parents they are being insecure. Case closed. No need to name call or disrespect. I have always shown kindness, Especially to Gems and for u guys to turn on my just really set my lil fire ablaze.
No one ganged up on you... YOU ASKED for our point of view... We gave it and you blatantly shot down almost everyone. Possibly everyone.
No one likes to be asked for advice and then you not take any of it into consideration...click to expand
Posted by BinotaYeah, I know he's confused poor guy lolPosted by MoonbutterIf he does that, just kindly ignore it. Simple as that, it's just he wants some attention from you. 😐Posted by gemelioristYes, he was wasting my time which is why he is my ex. I havn't seen him/talked to him he just likes he randomly text me things. At this point he is just wasting my patience, hah.
Ok you know him better than anyone here ever will. From the outside it looks like he's wasting your time. That's all.
I find that stereotype to be incorrect about the cancers that I know, I've never seen them as weak and nurturing and emotional. No more so than non cancers. I shake my head e v e r y s i n g l e t i m e I hear that and wonder if the ones I know came out of a pod. I j u s t d o n ' t s e e i t. Those attributes aren't exclusive to cancers or any water signs.
But that only matters to the people close to you and does not need to be proven to anyone else. Have a good night mb. 🙂
Anyways, have a good night 🙂click to expand
Posted by LittleStarHmm well you counted the threads, but missed the part where I said I had unfinished business I have with him needs to be addressed before I can go MIA. No worries though just like I know how to reel in a Gem I also know how to repel when needed😛Posted by MoonbutterBecause if you really had moved on, you'd have blocked him and wouldn't be focusing your attention on him. AKA 6 threads about the same dude.Posted by LittleStarHe has plenty hobbies, so I don't buy that. Any why u tell ME to move on when he's the one not moving on?
Dude. He's bored and playing with you because nothing else interesting is going on in his life.
Move on.click to expand
Posted by misslissaYes, this is quite true...I got soo worked up last night over this thread I started "testing" him and he failed. I'm most disappointed in his weak character and cowardness. He is not yet a man. Anyhow I took care of it the Cancerian way lol. I am already "ordering" a replacement.Posted by MoonbutterMoonbutter.... I understand more than you know... I'm half cancer! Moon, merc, and mars in cancer. I understand you have a lingering love for him. I understand protecting/defending his character. But, there comes a time when enough is enough. Becuz the aqua in me sees the bigger picture, the end game and by the sounds of it, you're starting to see as well. 🙂Posted by misslissaYeah you all did and airman saw that as well. But really truth of the matter is I used to be so sweet and nice and for too many years I got trampled on and disrespected. I grew a hard shell and honestly I don't even know if there's softness anymore 😢 I was defending my exs character because I didn't want to believe he wasn't the man I thought he was. I am sorry I got carried away I have a lot of fire mixed with Gem Mars so I like to battle, sometimes for fun. I felt disrespected when I was told I was insecure because that is disrespectful, and if you think otherwise then try telling one of your parents they are being insecure. Case closed. No need to name call or disrespect. I have always shown kindness, Especially to Gems and for u guys to turn on my just really set my lil fire ablaze.
No one ganged up on you... YOU ASKED for our point of view... We gave it and you blatantly shot down almost everyone. Possibly everyone.
No one likes to be asked for advice and then you not take any of it into consideration...
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Posted by LittleStarWell aren't you miss philosophical hahaPosted by MoonbutterYou put your energy into what you care about.Posted by LittleStarHmm well you counted the threads, but missed the part where I said I had unfinished business I have with him needs to be addressed before I can go MIA. No worries though just like I know how to reel in a Gem I also know how to repel when needed😛Posted by MoonbutterBecause if you really had moved on, you'd have blocked him and wouldn't be focusing your attention on him. AKA 6 threads about the same dude.Posted by LittleStarHe has plenty hobbies, so I don't buy that. Any why u tell ME to move on when he's the one not moving on?
Dude. He's bored and playing with you because nothing else interesting is going on in his life.
Move on.click to expand
Posted by UndineRight— I mean I know I have leadership qualities, but dang I have really worked this bunch up! Now to channel my talent into more positive outcomes...
"I am already "ordering" a replacement."
LOL.
All this noise for a gigolo.......😛?
Posted by TokerXI just want him to go away lolPosted by MoonbutterBut then what do you really want from him? This shit just doesn't make any sense to me.Posted by gemelioristYes, he was wasting my time which is why he is my ex. I havn't seen him/talked to him he just likes he randomly text me things. At this point he is just wasting my patience, hah.
Ok you know him better than anyone here ever will. From the outside it looks like he's wasting your time. That's all.
I find that stereotype to be incorrect about the cancers that I know, I've never seen them as weak and nurturing and emotional. No more so than non cancers. I shake my head e v e r y s i n g l e t i m e I hear that and wonder if the ones I know came out of a pod. I j u s t d o n ' t s e e i t. Those attributes aren't exclusive to cancers or any water signs.
But that only matters to the people close to you and does not need to be proven to anyone else. Have a good night mb. 🙂
Anyways, have a good night 🙂click to expand
Posted by whale09I want him to stop harassing me. He has proven to be the man I initially saw some red flags with, however I was too consumed with "feelings" to properly address them. Now, and especially with Venus Retrograde I am seeing the light and getting closure 🙂
RECAP:
You want the guy to stop harassing you or do you want to start another romantic relationship with him?
Posted by whale09Oh haha I'm just going to paralyze him with fear...of my passionate emotions. He is going to piss himself with just the thought of texting me once I'm done with him. He may even turn gay.Posted by MoonbutterPosted by whale09I want him to stop harassing me. He has proven to be the man I initially saw some red flags with, however I was too consumed with "feelings" to properly address them. Now, and especially with Venus Retrograde I am seeing the light and getting closure 🙂
RECAP:
You want the guy to stop harassing you or do you want to start another romantic relationship with him?
What's your plan on cutting him off (or making him stop talking to you)?click to expand
Posted by littlemegabytehaha, tbh his behavior makes me sick so I can't even fathom that.
Demand he marry you immediately
Posted by whale09Well it was never my intention to go down this path with him. I asked him multiple times to not contact me. So now I will make it so it will not be so pleasant to flirt with me. Case closed. Thank you all for your time.Posted by MoonbutterIm very confuse and curious. You would willingly choose to waste your time on someone.Posted by whale09Oh haha I'm just going to paralyze him with fear...of my passionate emotions. He is going to piss himself with just the thought of texting me once I'm done with him. He may even turn gay.Posted by MoonbutterPosted by whale09I want him to stop harassing me. He has proven to be the man I initially saw some red flags with, however I was too consumed with "feelings" to properly address them. Now, and especially with Venus Retrograde I am seeing the light and getting closure 🙂
RECAP:
You want the guy to stop harassing you or do you want to start another romantic relationship with him?
What's your plan on cutting him off (or making him stop talking to you)?
oh wait, are you going to play mind games with him?click to expand
Posted by TokerXOnly if you throw in your chic as well 😉Posted by littlemegabyte+1
Demand he marry you immediately
I demand you marry me immediately! 😛click to expand
Posted by gemguyaz34also cancer in venus 🙂 someone should start a thread about this placement....with gemini sun of course 🙂Posted by TokerXI wouldn't and my cancer is in Venus.Posted by AirManI know for a fact they would. 😄
i know for a fact a gemini man who has a cancer venus would not pull a stunt like this. ever.click to expand
Posted by LadyGem86Yes, my only non-gay male friend has this placement. It really "softens" his Gemini exterior. He is a great guy 😄Posted by gemguyaz34also cancer in venus 🙂 someone should start a thread about this placement....with gemini sun of course 🙂Posted by TokerXI wouldn't and my cancer is in Venus.Posted by AirManI know for a fact they would. 😄
i know for a fact a gemini man who has a cancer venus would not pull a stunt like this. ever.click to expand
Posted by TokerXReally Toker? That's not what you said earlier...haha. That's ok she can have you.Posted by MoonbutterNo no, she should marry me, not you. 😛Posted by TokerXOnly if you throw in your chic as well 😉Posted by littlemegabyte+1
Demand he marry you immediately
I demand you marry me immediately! 😛click to expand
Posted by littlemegabyteYES he is!Posted by MoonbutterWHAT, TokerX proposed to you too?!Posted by TokerXReally Toker? That's not what you said earlier...haha. That's ok she can have you.Posted by MoonbutterNo no, she should marry me, not you. 😛Posted by TokerXOnly if you throw in your chic as well 😉Posted by littlemegabyte+1
Demand he marry you immediately
I demand you marry me immediately! 😛
He's a real piece of work, isn't he?
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Posted by ScorpioStarGazerAHAHA! looks like he wants a harem of beautiful women...anyone else?Posted by MoonbutterSmh...he proposed to me as well. Looks like he really gets around. What a player. HaPosted by littlemegabyteYES he is!Posted by MoonbutterWHAT, TokerX proposed to you too?!Posted by TokerXReally Toker? That's not what you said earlier...haha. That's ok she can have you.Posted by MoonbutterNo no, she should marry me, not you. 😛Posted by TokerXOnly if you throw in your chic as well 😉Posted by littlemegabyte+1
Demand he marry you immediately
I demand you marry me immediately! 😛
He's a real piece of work, isn't he?
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