Grrr emergency here?! (Page 2)

by the way last time when we studied it was very very cozy, very quiet, very comfy, we sat together etc. i wasnt showing any touchy feely crap we were just doing our things talking from time to time, i left her and her friend few times to the bathroom i wish i left my phone there recording their conversation, because when i was coming back they were talking and looking at each other and then when her friend saw me coming they both looked into my direction.. one thing that was like what id ask someone close to do was to tell whether she liked my cologne which i dont like -_- she said its nice, thats ALL, after then we all left, now she hasnt texted me since, and im not gonna text her either, why isnt she though??

she saw itttttttttt

Posted by DazedScorp
#justsayin

look i just wanna know her opinion, i know it was about me 100% ... and it definitely wasnt anything bad cause if it was id feel it right away from the way they act and talk, ive actually done it twice in my life, one time when my asshole friend was being an asshole i left my phone there recording i left to the bathroom then listened to the convo on my way home, her gf now ex was arguing with him why he is being a dick to me, reason was i wasnt kissing his ass, then another time we were supposed to study together but instead we wasted 2 hours in college cafeteria, i felt something was wrong they just kept stalling time, so i left my phone on, went to wash my hands, and after i listened to that at home, guess what, the girl didnt want me to be there because i was apparently not letting them all study, after that i was just fuck you guys im studying alone from now on, ended up getting higher grades than them all lol.

it reminds me of that american dad episode when Stan was listening to his neighbors convos about him, conclusion was everyone crap talks about everyone behind their back, but you know if you respect someone it shouldn't be happening, it just tells me that someone doesn't respect me, and if someone doesn't respect me i will just turn to my "keep your fiends close but your enemies closer" and use them in my own beneficial ways, in case with her i would probably would just make minor adjustments in my behavior IF it was something bad, which i very highly doubt

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ever thought they know you're listening in but don't care that much ?
Possibly you have left a whole trail of tell-tale signs ?
Either way American Dad is kinda funny, marginally better than Family guy. 😄

im not as stupid as you hope i am

then why would you suggest that they knew that i gave them clues, if i do stuff like that nobody ever knows until i tell them

she just texted me after not talking to me for 9 days should i reply or stall for couple of days

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I don't hope you're stupid.

Posted by sharontate

Posted by KingOfAries
she saw itttttttttt

u said u dont believe her though...

well I have no other suggestions. sorry.

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yeah i feel like she was lying but she might have seen it for real by NOW. I know when she lies i just dont want to expose her to the fact that i know, i mean shes not obligated to tell me the truth like who am i, when she lies she makes long pauses and usually the second time she talks its a better lie, but again i dont want tension just yet..

Posted by DazedScorp

Posted by KingOfAries
she just texted me after not talking to me for 9 days should i reply or stall for couple of days

What did the text say?
Personally, if a chick feels the need to contact me out of the blue after not doing so for almost two weeks, I really feel no inclination to contact her back.
I don't like the idea of playing games.
Either contact her immediately....or not at all.

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well she was like "hey" and i said hi and we both went blah blah blah, then i said i was thinking, she asked me what i was thinking about, (i really wasnt thinking baout anything was watching south park) i said "if i tell u ull laugh" then she said "maybe i wanna laugh" so i made up some crap that was funny she didnt laugh at first then i added something and she was laughing, chit chated more and then yesterday we were messaging each otehr then we stopped and i accidentally asked her whats up, and she said she was having an anxiety about our classes... so i started calming her down telling her it wont be that bad, and recommended her to change one of her classes to easier one, she couldnt for some reason, then finally she figured out a way but that would mean she has to change her schedule so that we wouldnt have one of 5 classes together, then i said if she will switch then ill switch with her and it made her very happy, and today we spoke again and i made her laugh and etc, we both ended up with better classes and same schedule and ill see her tomorrow for our chemistry tutoring..

also valentines day is coming up, im thinking of getting her a big teddy bear size she could cuddle, not huge but like 2-3 feet or something, i wont say anything will just say happy valentines and there will be a cute note, without flowers i hate giving flowers

i saw her today lol, i feel like this is becoming my blog of some sort.. but i saw her today i met this girl on my way there that was in my bio class, that girl is so freaking hot, shes like a goddess and looks like megan fox, so we started talking, saw our teacher chit chated, went inside with the teacher, the gem girl was eating pizza and there were 3 other guys so i just said hi and we all went inside the classroom, one guy was a fat spanish/mexican who writes her on facebook or pic comments like "so sexy" or "yum so hot" or idiotic stuff like that, and another one is like 23-24 id say, the time that talks too much, so i sat in the middle, she sat near me, and he sat behind her cause i was sitting in the middle and there was no space lol, she turned around to talk to him few times but i completely dgaf cause i dont feel threatened by him, nothing special there, but i could see he likes her it was quite obvious.. i was mature quiet and on business all the time, after thing ended he is waiting for her, she is waiting for me lol, i needed to go to the bank cause i needed cash so i told her, we come outside, and im like lets go to her, and he is like oh where u going, she says that way (my way), and asks him where is he going, he says oh im going to the gym, and then shes like okay go (to him) and hes like ooooooh okayy, then she plays it off cool saying oh did i introduce u guys igor this is alex alex this is igor, i had to shake his hand, ew, anyway i looked down at him though he was much taller than me and i started slowly walking my way and i wasnt listening to what they were blabing about but she said "my best friend" it was either that i was a best friend or i think she was talking about chem class, and that they were studying last semester and that he was her best friend, you knwo she could look at him and say "hahaha best friends chemistry yey" anyway i completely ignored that and was turned away when that happened, then while they were saying bye i was already talking to my mom and not rly paying attention to her, after that she had it all, then we went home, and then we were standing she was wwaiting for her mom i was like well ill wait with u here and when she comes u go, she insisted that i go for some reason, even tho her mom wouldnt see me anyway i dont get it.. while she was on the phone with her mom she leaned towards me i didnt get it and moved away, and she says (while on the phone with her mom)

"i wanted to give u a hug but nevermind", and im like okayyy give me hug i want hug and she goes "no i dont wanna hug you" so i was like eh and we kind of both turned around our ways and started walking, i knew shed feel bad so when i turned around to say bye she did too lol.. weird

i can i just need to share with someone, im weird

i hate this she said she has dinner right now, at midnight, i assume shes out with someone -_- trying to ask shes avoiding fuuuuk

yep "im out with my boyfriend" apparently they got back together, i asked her if they did she replied "yeah of coarse" its overrr, i will try stalking her bestest friend and find out more about everything just to finally understand what happened there... lol its funny... ridiculously funny, i feel ridiculously stupid... no comment. oh and i said "so secretive lol" and she replied "you didnt ask" and now i feel like were talking on a very different weird level.. i will not continue it leads nowhere, im stubborn i could keep ramming her, if i was right and they just got back cause they had free time during winter it may not last long, but as of now im done...

sh??t..... now what? why was i even stuck on her that much...

ANYWAY... she was the reason i came here, i was inlove with the girl who was in my mind EVERYDAY for almost a year..
Maybe ill come here once in a while, thank you all for your support and criticism, i've read each and every reply, and most of them ..
About her.. she just gave me shit for saying that she was secretive, that i should have asked, and that she didnt like that i asked her friend if she is single, i said "i just wanted to check off recordlol.. guess it waskindalame"
i feel kind of stupid because shes right im her friend i could talk and ask her these things, she never said anything cause i never asked, but all the time i felt that she didnt wanna talk about anything personal... i assume to much.. to be honest we only few times had a conversation when we were talking about like personal stuff, the rest was just plain crap abt nothing, and now she clearly knows everything, and is completely turned off, i completely screwed up and now i look extremely stupid... i'll try to fix everything my intelligently explaining myself, i use "intelligence" with irony.. but i give up, i am a ramming ram but i know when to stop, and i learned something tonight, dont be afraid to ask questions. kinda pathetic.

Good bye people, my activity should decrese by the end of the week to none.
Thank you all, except for p-angel.

Posted by Asiza
Think you are over analyzing stuff,
once you stop, you realize why she never came around as much as she did.
Actions speak louder than words.

"why she never came around as much as she did?"
im sorry are you on crack?

it was only once, and only because i kept telling her that we needed to hang out

Posted by Asiza
Gotcha, skimmed over your posts.

I'm guessing you figured if a girl doesn't text back, doesn't say anything about wanting to hanging out, or doesn't seem like she is having fun, she is not interested. Learn how to read a girl's body language, it shows the basics of what you need to know about a girl.

Peace.

define fun, that i dont agree with, but the rest... pretty much explains it, i just now feel like i wasn't ramming her but was rather being naive, thinking and over-thinking too much, and assuming a lot having little facts.. oh well my bet, but her fault is that she never shared anything, she gave me crap for not asking her but asking her friend if she was single, but at the same time dont friends talk and share stuff that makes them happy or sad? its just plain weird situation... i dont wanna date anyone in close future, maybe like friends with benefits not more, my loving powers are exhausted... why all good girls are taken :/

maybe next time man.

hm maybe time will show

Can't believe this thread was still going.

Well.. you lasted longer than I thought you would

yeah well... now you know how serious about everything

wow that was so wrong lmfao i didnt even realize i didnt complete the sentence, see what she still does to me -_- but iwas actually very exhausted when i wrote that answer i passed out right after