Help Me please!

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TwoGirlsInONE
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19 YearsGemini

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I posted like 3 months ago about this Aquarius guy who was a momma's boy and shy and all that, well we have been dating now for almost 4 months and he is giving me an up and down rollercoaster ride. I have tried to read on aquarius' and gemini's and all the things tell me is we are good together.
He is also insecure, he has had a couple of relationships that have gone bad and he creates problems that arent there with us. we havent even gotten to the point where problems like cheating on each other would be. he tells me there are better guys out there for me, that could be true but as a gemini i think of him as a challenge and I want to be with him! At first I thought of him as a challenge but now I believe I really love him. He plays games like no other also. Sometimes I think he is trying to test me and see how much I care, he becomes really quiet and I have to try and guess whats wrong. Sometimes I feel that the feelings arent there for him, but he tells me they are. And he acts as if he cares but sometimes shows me that it doesnt seem that way at all. I believe his mother has alot to do with it too. The way she raised him and she is so into his life right now. It too weird for me and I dont know how to handle it. you guys are the only ones i can talk to about this I need to know what someone thinks that doesnt know me and him, kinda like a neutral party...or something. what do you guys think? everyone I work with or live with says I should just dump him...but I really want this to work! please help.
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Freebird
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20 Years1,000+ Posts

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"what do you guys think?" doesn't really matter what I or anyone thinks here but I will share that what you are experiencing is NOT my cup of tea, I personally do not enjoy a relationship that effects me emotionally just like I do not enjoy eating live worms.

You need to find out what makes you happy and then, do just that! 🙂

"but I really want this to work!" translates into......I really want to change him so that our relationship will work. Honey, it ain't gonna happen. What you see right now is what you are gonna get.

Bestest wishes twogirlsinone 😉