How come we always want the guys that we can’t have or are hard to get😩

I have the biggest crush on a Gemini rn and all we do is kiss on nights out but he never texts me or kinda acknowledges what happened:// kinda wanna ask him out but kinda don’t wanna get rejected at the same time😂😩

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

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Yeah, don’t tell him you like him. Gems like games and puzzles... figuring things out. Actually, playing coy and like you are not interested is probably your best bet 😆 not necessarily ignoring but let him pursue.

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

Yeah, don’t tell him you like him. Gems like games and puzzles... figuring things out. Actually, playing coy and like you are not interested is probably your best bet 😆 not necessarily ignoring but let him pursue.

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Well this guy is kinda into all the games and that, I think that’s what makes him so irresistible because he plays like hard to get even tho he’s the guy when it should be the girl doing it. Idk how to play hard to get with him tho.. because idk if he would care about me or not because all we do is kiss sometimes but he also kisses other girls..?

Imo it's mostly because of the movies, magazines, and the internet. Since birth humans are raised on entertainment that acts like illusions and acting are truly reality. Truth is that's not the case. Life isn't a sugarcoated romance where the beautiful princess finds the perfect handsome prince. Life is a leopard dragging a weak animal into a tree because it's starving and trying to hide it's kill from scavengers.

Don’t ask him out , just have fun kissing him 😋

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Imo it's mostly because of the movies, magazines, and the internet. Since birth humans are raised on entertainment that acts like illusions and acting are truly reality. Truth is that's not the case. Life isn't a sugarcoated romance where the beautiful princess finds the perfect handsome prince. Life is a leopard dragging a weak animal into a tree because it's starving and trying to hide it's kill from scavengers.

I think it’s something in between that

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

Yeah, don’t tell him you like him. Gems like games and puzzles... figuring things out. Actually, playing coy and like you are not interested is probably your best bet 😆 not necessarily ignoring but let him pursue.

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WHats not true?

Posted by Arielle83
His dick is prob tiny.

Why he only kissing.

🙊

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

Yeah, don’t tell him you like him. Gems like games and puzzles... figuring things out. Actually, playing coy and like you are not interested is probably your best bet 😆 not necessarily ignoring but let him pursue.

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gems don't like head games when it comes to dating

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Yeah but we aren’t dating so he’s kinda playing me about and playing mind games lol.

well maybe you should attempt to kiss other people if you're on a night out with him and see if he notices? test the waters, geminis are really weird but that's what i'd do because im a leo and usually it does get some sort of their attention.

once you've confirmed that, then i think it'd be safer trying to communicate with him more honestly, or to even do more than kissing - i get that if you like this dude you probably wont want to kiss anyone else tho so idk

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

Well it's your call... better to say you tried than not at all, right? Just based on your threads, I don't see it ending well but I understand why you would do that.

I can promise promise promise you that if he liked you enough, he would be the one making the moves. I also have ego problems and know many Gemini men do too, so it's like you're giving him more power over you once you tell him that. And who knows what he will do with it. Maybe try more than kiss.

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I’ll leave it till I see him again this weekend, it’s St Patrick’s weekend here and my friends having a party and he said he’s going so I’ll see him there. When you said he’ll maybe try more than a kiss well he already has when I last saw him and it lead to other things lol😂

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

I know but like I want to text him and I actyally want to tell him I like him but I think that night scare him off and then he’ll not kiss me anymore lol

Yeah, don’t tell him you like him. Gems like games and puzzles... figuring things out. Actually, playing coy and like you are not interested is probably your best bet 😆 not necessarily ignoring but let him pursue.

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gems don't like head games when it comes to dating

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Not talking about playing games, just not actively pursuing the guy. Although, I know plenty of Gems who like to play with many ladies at once.

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well maybe you should attempt to kiss other people if you're on a night out with him and see if he notices? test the waters, geminis are really weird but that's what i'd do because im a leo and usually it does get some sort of their attention.

once you've confirmed that, then i think it'd be safer trying to communicate with him more honestly, or to even do more than kissing - i get that if you like this dude you probably wont want to kiss anyone else tho so idk

Yeah my friend told me to go kiss another guy and see how he’ll react..I’m also texting this other guy for the last month and he’s planning on meeting me on a night out and I always go out with the guy I’m kissing on nights out because he’s in my friend group and we all like go out together and he’ll see me kissing the other guy anyway. Yeah we’ve done more than kiss tho the last time I saw him but idk if that means anything to him lol.

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well maybe you should attempt to kiss other people if you're on a night out with him and see if he notices? test the waters, geminis are really weird but that's what i'd do because im a leo and usually it does get some sort of their attention.

once you've confirmed that, then i think it'd be safer trying to communicate with him more honestly, or to even do more than kissing - i get that if you like this dude you probably wont want to kiss anyone else tho so idk

Yeah my friend told me to go kiss another guy and see how he’ll react..I’m also texting this other guy for the last month and he’s planning on meeting me on a night out and I always go out with the guy I’m kissing on nights out because he’s in my friend group and we all like go out together and he’ll see kissing the other guy anyway. Yeah we’ve done more than kiss tho the last time I saw him but idk if that means anything to him lol.

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How much more

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well maybe you should attempt to kiss other people if you're on a night out with him and see if he notices? test the waters, geminis are really weird but that's what i'd do because im a leo and usually it does get some sort of their attention.

once you've confirmed that, then i think it'd be safer trying to communicate with him more honestly, or to even do more than kissing - i get that if you like this dude you probably wont want to kiss anyone else tho so idk

Yeah my friend told me to go kiss another guy and see how he’ll react..I’m also texting this other guy for the last month and he’s planning on meeting me on a night out and I always go out with the guy I’m kissing on nights out because he’s in my friend group and we all like go out together and he’ll see kissing the other guy anyway. Yeah we’ve done more than kiss tho the last time I saw him but idk if that means anything to him lol.

How much more

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Ehhhh don’t really wanna say😂😳 just know it involved fingers lmao

Posted by ValleysofNeptune
ooh, wait a minute I think I misread/misinterpreted your post...are you a cancer? From your name I assume you are. I thought you were a Gemini but it looks like the guy you're after is the Gemini

But still, my point stands. Love is a game to them (that's not saying they can't feel love and be genuine though) and he may be playing with you a little bit for fun, but Idk

He prob is by what everyone is telling me but I think I’ll just have my fun with him too😌😏

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

How about those who actually get married?

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This poor young lady comes in looking for advice about a boy who's been kissing her and gets to hear about how the world is a vampire and small peepees.

Lawwwwd, help us.

Welcome to dxp

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This Dxp? No one is welcome here! Lol

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We already told you that Gemini just wants to kiss and that's it.

How about those who actually get married?

She had posted previous threads about how he kisses her and other women, but has never made any other move or gave her any indication of interest beyond that.

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Gem men are...Gem men!

Some have luck! @Whorpio my love...