Geminis and Anal?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Adreamuponwaking on Sunday, January 21, 2018 and has 42 replies.

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God

remember when Anal was off the table for most women?

I miss those days.

I don't care what other people are into I just don't want a potential partner to assume that it's on the table because anal is now so mainstream.

It's been so for a little over decade .

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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by MoonshineLeo
ALL guys love it ?

Not true.

I know a leo who is a super germaphobe

and thinks cunnilingus is dirty so

anal is definitely a no go for him.

you're right my ex leo would neverrrrr. My Pisces ex wanted me to but never did, my cap really wants it. So yea i guess only a few guys like it, why though?

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i feel like i could peg a guy who was really clean down there

but I don't think I could ever be on the receiving end with a girl.

i could perhaps be on the giving end with a girl but again she'd have to be really clean and i'd probably have separate toys lol

but probably more suited to date someone who is more on the conservative end when it comes to anal play

but more adventurous in other areas like rope and impact play

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by MoonshineLeo
ALL guys love it ?

Not true.

I know a leo who is a super germaphobe

and thinks cunnilingus is dirty so

anal is definitely a no go for him.

you're right my ex leo would neverrrrr. My Pisces ex wanted me to but never did, my cap really wants it. So yea i guess only a few guys like it, why though?

i feel like i could peg a guy who was really clean down there

but I don't think I could ever be on the receiving end with a girl.

i could perhaps be on the giving end with a girl but again she'd have to be really clean and i'd probably have separate toys lol

but probably more suited to date someone who is more on the conservative end when it comes to anal play

but more adventurous in other areas like rope and impact play

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You are so right.

I think if you're going to do anal you should do it with your boyfriend/girlfriend not just a hook up and make sure everything is clean. Some people dont care though they will do it with whoever whenever and thats ok too. To each their own. But for the rest of us we wanna be clean and safe

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

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He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

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No air sign asked me for it, ever. Only Aries and Cap.

I don't think it's an air sign thing. It's animalic, dirty, unrefined.

It's not my thing either.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

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pushing to give? or receive?

not many dudes tell their women they want to receive until they feel really safe

so i'm going to assume give

in which case i think he's serious.

He's just a mutable sign who is in love with you so...he'll follow your lead.

probably hasn't bought any toys because that doesn't turn him on as much....

I say don't do it till you're married or domestic partner status cause you have to give them something to look forward too lol

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

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get the toys yourself, surprise him hahah

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

pushing to give? or receive?

not many dudes tell their women they want to receive until they feel really safe

so i'm going to assume give

in which case i think he's serious.

He's just a mutable sign who is in love with you so...he'll follow your lead.

probably hasn't bought any toys because that doesn't turn him on as much....

I say don't do it till you're married or domestic partner status cause you have to give them something to look forward too lol

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Give. And yeah I'm not into it. Just wanted to call his bluff.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

pushing to give? or receive?

not many dudes tell their women they want to receive until they feel really safe

so i'm going to assume give

in which case i think he's serious.

He's just a mutable sign who is in love with you so...he'll follow your lead.

probably hasn't bought any toys because that doesn't turn him on as much....

I say don't do it till you're married or domestic partner status cause you have to give them something to look forward too lol

Give. And yeah I'm not into it. Just wanted to call his bluff.

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lol

yeah i don't get it.

for a guy in terms of giving and receiving it makes more sense.

most women don't have the equivalent nerve endings to get pleasure .

some do though....

in terms of pleasing the ass area for women all i know is that :

- there are nerve endings located where the ass check meets the upper thighs that are attached to the vulva which is why that's prime for sensation play and spanking / impact play

- most women have some nerve endings which circle the anus that are also attached to nerves in the vulva

which is why rimming feels good supposedly

and in terms of anal specifically :

-some girls may like the dominance /pain aspect of receiving which may give them pleasure (mentally)

otherwise ....no sè

i have only met two girls who say they love anal.

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Posted by OneKnight

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
I just don't want a potential partner to assume that it's on the table

That. The forbidden fruit.

Knowing it's not on the table, and still breaking her limits for my entertainment.

It's not the act itself but the crave of taming her.

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So you don’t really enjoying it?

Just the taming her part?

How wide is her ass, man— Lmao

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

pushing to give? or receive?

not many dudes tell their women they want to receive until they feel really safe

so i'm going to assume give

in which case i think he's serious.

He's just a mutable sign who is in love with you so...he'll follow your lead.

probably hasn't bought any toys because that doesn't turn him on as much....

I say don't do it till you're married or domestic partner status cause you have to give them something to look forward too lol

Give. And yeah I'm not into it. Just wanted to call his bluff.

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Tell him he can if you can and watch him change his mind lol

Fair is fair

I gave and recieved once....not that great tbh

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Posted by edgelord

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
God

remember when Anal was off the table for most women?

I miss those days.

I don't care what other people are into I just don't want a potential partner to assume that it's on the table because anal is now so mainstream.

It's been so for a little over decade .

anal is a no go for you? giving and receiving?

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maybe giving because

giving could be funny to a guy...especially

receiving is very unlikely

it's a turn off kind of.

although i do like to watch gay porn ..sometimes.

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
I think most dudes are into it because of the 'forbidden taboo' factor. Not because they actually want to get shit on their dick on the regular.

i wonder how many people prep with a couple of enemas

hot bath and baby wipes.

and maybe anal bleaching

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Yeah in general if the prep work takes longer than the main event, I'm out. Hard pass

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Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by LadyNeptune
receiving or giving?

giving.

unless they are gay.

although

my ex who is married to a gemini man does want her to peg him...

so maybe both?

regardless of sexuality.

He keeps pushing for it. Can't tell if he's trolling me or not...

I told him if he gets some toys we can work toward it, but no promises.

So far he hasn't gotten any so I have to assume its not that serious.

get the toys yourself, surprise him hahah

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*grabs bowl of popcorn*