How do gemini girls show they like you ?

How do gemini girls show they like you ?

in a non direct way. I tend to flirt from a distance at first. If I am engaging in a conversation with a guy and laughing, its usuaLly a good sign.

I find it fascinating that this question is ask more on the Gemini forum more than any other. *SIGH*

~GM

Posted by wineaux
if i'm not interested, i'll totally flirt with you - because i'm a gem and i could flirt with a frying pan. if i am interested though - i'll be completely indirect, to the point that my nerves may get the best of me and i might even show some signs of shyness! and i'll stare, a lot, because i'm trying to get a read on you. once we get to talking, i'll open up and then interview you with a barrage of questions and not even realize it! time's a wasting and if you lose my interest during the 'interview' my attention will turn to something else. like the wall. pay attention to the stare - i'll continue to hold it until i'm bored. then i'll start fidgeting or staring off trying to find something else to focus on.

This is soo true. I flirt either way. However, the one I like gets most of my attention. I know it can be confusing to observers but that's just the way it is with us. There has to be something intellectual, unique and stylish(without trying too hard of course). Don't take it too seriously at first. Feel her out as well. Observe her and the way she interacts with other people.

Posted by TheGift

Posted by wineaux
if i'm not interested, i'll totally flirt with you - because i'm a gem and i could flirt with a frying pan. if i am interested though - i'll be completely indirect, to the point that my nerves may get the best of me and i might even show some signs of shyness! and i'll stare, a lot, because i'm trying to get a read on you. once we get to talking, i'll open up and then interview you with a barrage of questions and not even realize it! time's a wasting and if you lose my interest during the 'interview' my attention will turn to something else. like the wall. pay attention to the stare - i'll continue to hold it until i'm bored. then i'll start fidgeting or staring off trying to find something else to focus on.

This is soo true. I flirt either way. However, the one I like gets most of my attention. I know it can be confusing to observers but that's just the way it is with us. There has to be something intellectual, unique and stylish(without trying too hard of course). Don't take it too seriously at first. Feel her out as well. Observe her and the way she interacts with other people.

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Apparently it's the same with the men.

Based on my experience with Leo's. I have yet to come across a defeated one. I have Leo ascendant. If you put something in front of me that I want. I have no problem convincing everyone in the room why I should have it. I can truly conquer any sign of the zodiac with ease. Whether I want to is a different story...Now, whether or not I can keep them...a tragedy! Oh yeah, but I can get'm though! Power to the LEO!!!!!!!!!!

Correction- I meant to put Leo rising.

Posted by TheGift
Based on my experience with Leo's. I have yet to come across a defeated one. I have Leo ascendant. If you put something in front of me that I want. I have no problem convincing everyone in the room why I should have it. I can truly conquer any sign of the zodiac with ease. Whether I want to is a different story...Now, whether or not I can keep them...a tragedy! Oh yeah, but I can get'm though! Power to the LEO!!!!!!!!!!

Ditto. I also have Leo rising, and you are absolutely correct.

~GM

Posted by GeminiMind

Posted by TheGift
Based on my experience with Leo's. I have yet to come across a defeated one. I have Leo ascendant. If you put something in front of me that I want. I have no problem convincing everyone in the room why I should have it. I can truly conquer any sign of the zodiac with ease. Whether I want to is a different story...Now, whether or not I can keep them...a tragedy! Oh yeah, but I can get'm though! Power to the LEO!!!!!!!!!!

Ditto. I also have Leo rising, and you are absolutely correct.

~GM

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This ^^^^^^

Pure powerful energy

Geminis that like you will likely become testy and up their game. With the others, it'll be intellectual sparring - more like mental exercises, a 'workout' 😛 - but with you we ll up the ante...more elusive, testing the waters, 'feeling' you (the way we know, we double entendres, conversation). It'll be more than witty, it ll feel intimate...

When we don't care we flirt
When we do we seduce

I quite liked those two lines very much Lilith;

"When we dont care we flirt"
"When we do we seduce"

lol SPOT ON!

"Lilith" is quite the beautiful name.

Lmao! Wow! Has it been that long! I haven't met anyone worth seducing lately!! All this is sooo true about us gems. We seduce in best way. I used to refer to it as my spell. I've been accused off flirting with any and everybody. I think its just my gemini charm though! 😉

@Gemini Charm - I must admit that my Leo rising has been a compliment to my Gemini sun! Years ago, I worked for this leo woman. We had our eyes on the same young man. Although, I was excited by this (so called)challenge. I opted out. My need for work exceeded my need to win!lol
My question is this, does our leo rising make us enjoy the chase more than others?

@King23 - what else in your chart might be causing you to yield in the face of your competition?

I get almost immediately aroused when I find myself in an intellectual dance with a Gem guy. Its rarely matters who leads and he never steps on my toes!!

Posted by nats
I quite liked those two lines very much Lilith;

"When we dont care we flirt"
"When we do we seduce"

lol SPOT ON!

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOOO TRUE! GENUINE GEMINI HERE!!

Again, that goes for the men too. Women have a really hard time understanding this. Which, and the end of the day disappoints us, then we tend to fuck with them for being so fucking blind, oblivious, and stupid. Well, maybe that just me. My bad.

~GM

Posted by TheGift
I get almost immediately aroused when I find myself in an intellectual dance with a Gem guy. Its rarely matters who leads and he never steps on my toes!!

*Slurp* How's that for intellect— 😛

~GM

Posted by TheGift
Lmao! Wow! Has it been that long! I haven't met anyone worth seducing lately!! All this is sooo true about us gems. We seduce in best way. I used to refer to it as my spell. I've been accused off flirting with any and everybody. I think its just my gemini charm though! 😉

@Gemini Charm - I must admit that my Leo rising has been a compliment to my Gemini sun! Years ago, I worked for this leo woman. We had our eyes on the same young man. Although, I was excited by this (so called)challenge. I opted out. My need for work exceeded my need to win!lol
My question is this, does our leo rising make us enjoy the chase more than others?

@King23 - what else in your chart might be causing you to yield in the face of your competition?

Im a leo with a gemini moon and Aquarius rising

I never flirt with guys I actually like- I'm terrified of them. In fact, I sometimes ignore them completely because I feel I might lose my composure. So, if I'm flirting with everyone else and clamming up around you, it might be because I'm attracted to you. On the other hand, it might be because I think you're an arrogant ass who needs a little ignoring to be put in his place, so you just never know!

If I really like a guy I have a compulsion to give him gifts. Mostly hand-made ones. Any other Gems do this?

I'll throw it that I tend to act somewhat more "serious" as well around the person I like... because I dont want to blow my cover but at the same time I try and act like they dont phase me but in reality on the inside im freaking out lol

Posted by wineaux
if i'm not interested, i'll totally flirt with you - because i'm a gem and i could flirt with a frying pan. if i am interested though - i'll be completely indirect, to the point that my nerves may get the best of me and i might even show some signs of shyness! and i'll stare, a lot, because i'm trying to get a read on you. once we get to talking, i'll open up and then interview you with a barrage of questions and not even realize it! time's a wasting and if you lose my interest during the 'interview' my attention will turn to something else. like the wall. pay attention to the stare - i'll continue to hold it until i'm bored. then i'll start fidgeting or staring off trying to find something else to focus on.

After reading an article and freaking out at becoming a Taurus, I realize that regardless I AM and ALWAYS WILL BE a Gemini. This, as well as the quote from Lilith is spot on.

However, nobody has mentioned the "New" planet that's entered our solar system. This does change everything. It's true, it's here. Which has a lot to do with people losing it more than usual. You all can at least feel it's powerful energy, right?

~GM

That whole new thing coming up about the planets and whatnot i think is complete bullshit. Im definately NOT a taurus in any sense of the word.

Im not slow, "methodical", like taking my time to do things, stick to plan once a decision has been made (hahaha yea right!) and other taurean traits.

Plus I read somewhere that it only applies to babies born in 2010 onwards. For the rest of us it doesnt apply.

Posted by nats
That whole new thing coming up about the planets and whatnot i think is complete bullshit. Im definately NOT a taurus in any sense of the word.

Im not slow, "methodical", like taking my time to do things, stick to plan once a decision has been made (hahaha yea right!) and other taurean traits.

Plus I read somewhere that it only applies to babies born in 2010 onwards. For the rest of us it doesnt apply.

I'm not a Taurus in any sense of the word either. Gemini through and through.

Why should men care?


countless times in dxp, I've read testimonies from Gemini woman who stick by a man long after he's ditched her emotionally .... she will continue to sleep with him, continue to be hopeful when the sign on the wall is so far in the distance that he barely remembers how he ever felt about her in the first place. Her knickers still come down for him, so he'll keep taking it without having to give anything in return.

Just read the history in here .... Gem woman are notorius for it .. so what is left for a man to care about her, then?


If you want a man to actually care about you, GemWomen ... then pull up your goddamn panties, for christs sake.

Why be defensive?

feeling a bit guilty, are you?


Fact - Gemini bitches continue to fuck their men long after he tossed them to the curb emotionally, in hopes of him changing his mind and deciding he loves her.

Apparantly, this hit so hard home for you .. that it made you pissy.


You'd be much wiser to take the advice .. or you could continue to ignore it so you can keep trying to catch a man with your crotch, instead of your integrity.

psst...shhhhh......hey wineaux.... i think she provoked the abuse to play the martyr/victim role, which is what fish do. it's how they feed...shhhh....

This is a bit off but I just wanna ask you gems. What if my relationship with a gem started with flirting and then it became platonic? I can sense the respect, the concern, thoughtfulness, etc at present and he introduced me to his family. He became gentle with me and opens up more about his life. I had a day full of conversations. But when his father asked him, "You care too much for the girl. Aren't you really together?" He was somewhat shy and silent. lol. What do you think? I'm actually intrigued with his venus in cancer. Is he a possesive gem?

Posted by sydneyhughes27
This is a bit off but I just wanna ask you gems. What if my relationship with a gem started with flirting and then it became platonic? I can sense the respect, the concern, thoughtfulness, etc at present and he introduced me to his family. He became gentle with me and opens up more about his life. I had a day full of conversations. But when his father asked him, "You care too much for the girl. Aren't you really together?" He was somewhat shy and silent. lol. What do you think? I'm actually intrigued with his venus in cancer. Is he a possesive gem?

Need more info about you babycakes.

Posted by GeminiMind

Posted by sydneyhughes27
This is a bit off but I just wanna ask you gems. What if my relationship with a gem started with flirting and then it became platonic? I can sense the respect, the concern, thoughtfulness, etc at present and he introduced me to his family. He became gentle with me and opens up more about his life. I had a day full of conversations. But when his father asked him, "You care too much for the girl. Aren't you really together?" He was somewhat shy and silent. lol. What do you think? I'm actually intrigued with his venus in cancer. Is he a possesive gem?

Need more info about you babycakes.

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I'm a sag. Cancer rising, Aries moon Venus in scorpio.
I've known him for a year now and we've never been that close. We're good friends though. I actually like him but I find it hard to determine what he's up to. He has too many things running in his mind and he can't continue without having both hands full. Last year we had some sort of a misunderstanding because he promised me that he would be there on my birthday but he didn't come. I was disappointed but I didn't tell him about it. We lost communication for weeks. And then he appeared out of the blue, texting/emailing/calling me. I ignored it because got busy with work and stuff. But before the year ended, I greeted him and we started communicating again. Maybe spending the day with me was his way of apologizing?

Yeah, I'm a third decan Gemini, with Leo rising, and a Taurus moon, with Venus in Taurus. So, it kind of sound like something I used to do instead of vocalizing. Trust his deeds not necessarily his words. First determine what kind of relationship it is. Then, if he returns with love, just accept it. He's just been doing what we Gem guys do, harvest.

I dated a Sag girl once and this sounds familiar. Although she was a bit of a stalker, yet I cared about her. With that Cancer rising of yours, you can feel hurt quite easily. That Aries in you lets you say "fuck it then". Yet, all Gemini men including myself have been in relationships where the woman thought the relationship was more than we did. Once I realized that the girl was "deep" in it, I felt terrible and tried to make up for it the best way I knew how, at the time.

You know, maybe you're the kind of Sag that particular Gem needs. Saggies and Gems as you know are the opposites on the 'wheel'. It's 50/50 success to fail ratio. If he hasn't figured out where to land, then he just might be flying around aimlessly. Poor bastard! I've been there. But, he NEEDS to know that YOU are the ONE, and he can land on you (if that makes sense)!!! If you are, great. If not, then he will never take you seriously, EVER! But whatever you decide, be honorable. To us, Honor means honesty, fairness, and integrity.

Now like most Saggies that I've known, you might think this is too much info. This is where the Centaur gets spanked by the divine. You need ALL of the information to make a sound judgment, or.....you'll hurt yourself. Never fails.

Next time something that he did hurt you, you must TELL him! Or, he will think that it was no big deal to begin with.

Hope this helps.

~GM

sorry - off topic, but..

GM baby - we simply HAVE to talk........."my??" Gem is Leo rising/Taurus moon/Taurus venus🙂

How do we safely determine "what kind of relationship" it is without hurting his feelings or scaring him off with Aries straight forwardness/honesty/no BS attitude? Will just blurting out the question send him into a tailspin/hibernation?

I don't want to waste his time if I am not The One, but I kinda get the feeling a Gem doesn't think that lusty female attention is a waste of time if she is not The One - she could just be The Convenient One for Now.
That's a waste of time for me......is it safe to assume if that was the case he would have told me? (Noting that Gems like to be honest and fair, as do Arieses.)

Okay, RNAP. So, you do know that he and I have the same 3, earth, wind, and fire, right? Here's a thoughtful answer:

My first TRUE love was an Aries girl. Now, I'm a 3rd decan, which kinda means I'm an elder. So, I might be a bit more laid back, so to speak. But, that Aries girl said to me that "YOU ARE MINE!" on my fucking birthday!! WTF?? Right? Uh, no.....We Gem men like a bitch who will throw down with us in a fight, cuz you know that Gemini is a warrior sign, and Aries is ruled by Mars, the god of war. Trust me, do what you do! If you show any other trait, other than your own, he will play that to the hilt.

But, you do see the importance of "The One" to us! That is music to my ears baby, seriously. Dig this: Gemini's don't formalize and make a relationship "mechanical". Never saw a relationship or a marriage that stood the test of time. Things that are, are just "are". Does this make sense? If I love you then I don't have to label your ass, I'm just gonna be down for you, because I know you're gonna be down for me. Let all those other nimrods bang their heads against a fucking wall asking all kind of dumbass questions like: "Is this a typical Gem trait?" or "Where the fuck did my Gem guy go?" etc. etc. etc.....We just...know. Can you dig it? Now, age does come into play here. Gemini's are old souls. Now you ABSOLUTELY MUST understand our purpose is to give messages. I know, I know. But, stay with me for a second darlin. We have a DIRECT link to the divine. We are the only ones who have it. Can I get an AMEN— Tis true. It drives some of us fucking CRAZY!!!! Others, find ways to balance it out. If that dude tells you something, take him seriously, or he will find himself bullshitting you a lot. Which means he will make up shit just to distract you. Don't be fooled, he knows what he's doing! Just embrace him and say these exact words: "I understand and appreciate you! I know that you are a harvester, and will let you do what you need to! I will be here for you when you need me baby!" BOOOOOM!!! That stud now has a landing post. That's what every Gemini needs, is a place to land. Eagles and Wolves is what most tribes associate with Gemini. If you understand that then it kinda all makes sense. Make sense—

I hope this helps! 🙂
~GM

Posted by GeminiMind
Yeah, I'm a third decan Gemini, with Leo rising, and a Taurus moon, with Venus in Taurus. So, it kind of sound like something I used to do instead of vocalizing. Trust his deeds not necessarily his words. First determine what kind of relationship it is. Then, if he returns with love, just accept it. He's just been doing what we Gem guys do, harvest.

I dated a Sag girl once and this sounds familiar. Although she was a bit of a stalker, yet I cared about her. With that Cancer rising of yours, you can feel hurt quite easily. That Aries in you lets you say "fuck it then". Yet, all Gemini men including myself have been in relationships where the woman thought the relationship was more than we did. Once I realized that the girl was "deep" in it, I felt terrible and tried to make up for it the best way I knew how, at the time.

You know, maybe you're the kind of Sag that particular Gem needs. Saggies and Gems as you know are the opposites on the 'wheel'. It's 50/50 success to fail ratio. If he hasn't figured out where to land, then he just might be flying around aimlessly. Poor bastard! I've been there. But, he NEEDS to know that YOU are the ONE, and he can land on you (if that makes sense)!!! If you are, great. If not, then he will never take you seriously, EVER! But whatever you decide, be honorable. To us, Honor means honesty, fairness, and integrity.

Now like most Saggies that I've known, you might think this is too much info. This is where the Centaur gets spanked by the divine. You need ALL of the information to make a sound judgment, or.....you'll hurt yourself. Never fails.

Next time something that he did hurt you, you must TELL him! Or, he will think that it was no big deal to begin with.

Hope this helps.

~GM

Wow. Thanks for that. 🙂

Just as I thought. Haha. Somehow, I find it hard to trust in what he's saying. He tends to exaggerate his thoughts sometimes and it seems superficial to me. With his constantly changing mind, it's like he's narrating a tale.

Did you have feelings for the Sag? The cancer in me gives me the vulnerability that my sun rejects. Lol. I don't want to dwell into my emotions. I hate the feeling of being stuck at one place. My emotions hinders my thoughts to be free. I feel petrified. But despite that fact, I really want to talk to him about the relationship we're in. But I don't know how to start. I'm

I'm worried that he might run when things get too emotional. I want to know what I should do in order to settle things. I agree that I may be the one he needs but how can I prove to him that I'm the one? How can I provide the security his venus in cancer needs in a way that his sun would appreciate?

The Sag girl?? Let's just say that we can't be around each other unless we are prepared to go to jail for lewd acts in public places. 😉 Strong feelings, but, she had a lot of Scorp in her chart in not so nice places for me to deal with. So I did what only a Gemini does better than anyone. I disappeared. Talk about a LIAR! Yikes! But she was a Fox though. Damn, I'm showing my age by calling women "Foxes". HaHa!!

@King23- I don't think you can go wrong with that placement! ;o)

Thanks GM.

You are in fine form today my friend....is this what you have been trying to tell me all along?

I hate to think of myself as a bitch but I have had occasion to indulge in the throwdown previously and he certainly sounded enthusiastic when I threatened to do it again recently. (This may be a general guy thing though and not Gem specific!)
We have a strong "friend" connection and I honestly can't think of us fighting about anything except whose turn it is on top🙂

Keep giving us our messages - they will eventually sink in!!
Thanks xxReally

Me an my Aries ex had to commit a couple of beat-downs on some dudes in our past. It was fun!

I'm always here for ya baby!

Oh, and uh..."Bitch" is term of endearment. 😄

Hang on - forgot to check....if the relationship is not "formalised" or "labelled" does this mean he feels fine

a) about having other chicks throw him down and
b) would like me throwing down other guys? and
c) just wants somewhere to land when no other landing strips are available?

^^ yes, I figgered you meant "bitch" in a warm, fuzzy way - I was just goofin around with you.

Uh, if you show him love, don't expect him to feel that it's okay for you to go spreading it around. No, if he's with you, he's with you. We only need one landing strip sweets. The one where the nest is. We get a bad rap for flirting. But, if you hear someone say that a Gemini is a whore, they are just lying,and have been hurt by themselves is all. Pay no attention to these lost souls. They got bigger problems then us.

Have you two fucked yet? If so, describe it.

Or PM me if you wish.

Interesting because there is the Gemini girl and when I see her she pretty much stares at me for a while dies it mean she's interested?

Interesting because there is the Gemini girl and when I see her she pretty much stares at me for a while dies it mean she's interested?

Interesting because there is the Gemini girl and when I see her she pretty much stares at me for a while dies it mean she's interested?

Posted by Fdthemaster1
Interesting because there is the Gemini girl and when I see her she pretty much stares at me for a while dies it mean she's interested?

Maybe she just thinks your hot?...

Probably not for long. Don't worry about it.

She already has you stuttering, get out now while you can

at your service your Highness!

Posted by THEKingofLibra
hahahah

classic aries undercutting humor 😛

I know, right?