How much do you change for love?

Seriously.

I met a gem who told me his criteria for a partner, yet he got together with the polar opposite.

??

Posted by nano
My Aqua ex and Aqua father do the same thing.

Change for anyone. One woman - they love dogs, next woman - dogs are foul and gross. One woman they love potatoes, next woman - potatoes are the nastiest food they ever ate. Both of them say that they can’t date religious women, next week they are in church.

Not sure how they are considered fixed sometimes 🤷🏼‍♀️ I can’t keep up with their ever changing personalities and likes/dislikes. Now I just have fun with it and use it to make jokes in front of him and his woman of the week, “wow dad, it totally slipped my mind that you hated red wine. Has it always been that way orrrrr....?” Then I get the aqua/Scorpio moon death stare 😄

I’m a Gemini and I don’t compromise my beliefs for anyone. I am engaged to a Gemini, and hes the same way.

I think that any man of any sign could be fake as fuck to get some vagina. Remember that opposites attract, but they don’t wear well.

lol those aquas you dated sounded like gemini. 😆

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Posted by nano
My Aqua ex and Aqua father do the same thing.

Change for anyone. One woman - they love dogs, next woman - dogs are foul and gross. One woman they love potatoes, next woman - potatoes are the nastiest food they ever ate. Both of them say that they can’t date religious women, next week they are in church.

Not sure how they are considered fixed sometimes 🤷🏼‍♀️ I can’t keep up with their ever changing personalities and likes/dislikes. Now I just have fun with it and use it to make jokes in front of him and his woman of the week, “wow dad, it totally slipped my mind that you hated red wine. Has it always been that way orrrrr....?” Then I get the aqua/Scorpio moon death stare 😄

I’m a Gemini and I don’t compromise my beliefs for anyone. I am engaged to a Gemini, and hes the same way.

I think that any man of any sign could be fake as fuck to get some vagina. Remember that opposites attract, but they don’t wear well.

lol those aquas you dated sounded like gemini. 😆

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And her Gemini sounded like aqua.

Posted by Ravishing
None. I am not changing for love and if I see someone changing for me to try and fit some "mold" that they think I'm into, I would lose respect for them and I wouldn't be turned on by them anymore. Self-identity is super important to me. And knowing who you are and sticking by that.

i can relate. if all of a sudden i changed because i made myself "false" to please my man for a personality i tried to fake...that would be stupid and people see through that. and only dumb ass potential partners.

1st house huh?

and i know you got pluto 1st too.

anyway i know whatcha mean.

Hmm interesting... I wouldn’t say I change but I definitively adapt. Funny thing I notice most is my sudden interest in the different music with each relationship. Like one was Latin music, hip hop, classic rock and now country rock. 😂

I don't change for love, but love is certainly a source of change for me. People carry different outlooks, experiences, personality... it forces me to react to new things and sometimes my opinions or tastes vary, but those changes normally remain after that person leaves. My criteria just covers values. Today I'm not the same person I'll be tomorrow, so who knows what or who I'll like, I enjoy surprising myself.

Posted by nano
My Aqua ex and Aqua father do the same thing.

Change for anyone. One woman - they love dogs, next woman - dogs are foul and gross. One woman they love potatoes, next woman - potatoes are the nastiest food they ever ate. Both of them say that they can’t date religious women, next week they are in church.

Not sure how they are considered fixed sometimes 🤷🏼‍♀️ I can’t keep up with their ever changing personalities and likes/dislikes. Now I just have fun with it and use it to make jokes in front of him and his woman of the week, “wow dad, it totally slipped my mind that you hated red wine. Has it always been that way orrrrr....?” Then I get the aqua/Scorpio moon death stare 😄

I’m a Gemini and I don’t compromise my beliefs for anyone. I am engaged to a Gemini, and hes the same way.

I think that any man of any sign could be fake as fuck to get some vagina. Remember that opposites attract, but they don’t wear well.

Beautifully written.

I had to change for love...

Posted by Saturnlady
Seriously.

I met a gem who told me his criteria for a partner, yet he got together with the polar opposite.

??

I know Geminis can be childish sometimes but - making make-belief lists about future lovers (as defined by some traits one may admire "currently" and also "consciously" / cause there's very few people who are familiar with their subconscious... enough to notice what type of partners they attract based on what lies underneath / the self-reflective type) - is definitely not a Gemini thing. That being said - this could be his first life lesson in this sense - a lesson that might help him grow up. Or not (some people don't get this hint the first time or the 5th), but that's ok too. We're all moving at our own phase.

I'm willing to make some changes to make my partner comfortable/happy, as long as they aren't significant enough to alter my personalties. Especially if the changes make can make me a person. And I expect the same in return.

Posted by nano
Wait, so did he tell you his criteria via tinder or another casual dating site, because all bets are off there. It’s pretty hit or miss, no astrology to refer to, it’s all kind of fuckboy territory IME ✋🏻

It was just a casual conversation when he told me all of those things. I am nobody to him and vice versa, this is why I was so surprised to see this. He seemed determined and simple.

Posted by Ravishing
None. I am not changing for love and if I see someone changing for me to try and fit some "mold" that they think I'm into, I would lose respect for them and I wouldn't be turned on by them anymore. Self-identity is super important to me. And knowing who you are and sticking by that.

I am sorry to say but it's impossible. Human always adapt to its environment, you re unlikely an exception. I think instead the word change what is not entirely valid, or the right context.

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Posted by nano
My Aqua ex and Aqua father do the same thing.

Change for anyone. One woman - they love dogs, next woman - dogs are foul and gross. One woman they love potatoes, next woman - potatoes are the nastiest food they ever ate. Both of them say that they can’t date religious women, next week they are in church.

Not sure how they are considered fixed sometimes 🤷🏼‍♀️ I can’t keep up with their ever changing personalities and likes/dislikes. Now I just have fun with it and use it to make jokes in front of him and his woman of the week, “wow dad, it totally slipped my mind that you hated red wine. Has it always been that way orrrrr....?” Then I get the aqua/Scorpio moon death stare 😄

I’m a Gemini and I don’t compromise my beliefs for anyone. I am engaged to a Gemini, and hes the same way.

I think that any man of any sign could be fake as fuck to get some vagina. Remember that opposites attract, but they don’t wear well.

I kinda agree with you, because most of the aquas I've knew, kept on changing their beliefs system.

My ex Aqua husband used to tell me, he was an atheist and then the next moment, he kept on preaching to me about God. He's always telling one thing and doing another. It got me confused.

As for me, I'm a Gemini but I think I can be more fixed than an Aqua. Like when I've said I won't troll their board anymore, trust me, you won't find me there. 😄

I don’t know how I missed this post, but yes, it’s very annoying.

It’s one thing to change your personality to get vagina and play games and be a shitty male in general - I acknowledge those men exist, but I don’t understand why he had to bring his small children at the time (me and my siblings) into his lies and personality changes. Small children are not responsible to keep up with such infidelity. Small children need stability and a strong parental figure who has an identity... not someone who changes complete personas with the wind. ooooh man my childhood was so fucked up 😆

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Sorry to hear. You may would of need to give more time not rushing into something?

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Posted by nano
My Aqua ex and Aqua father do the same thing.

Change for anyone. One woman - they love dogs, next woman - dogs are foul and gross. One woman they love potatoes, next woman - potatoes are the nastiest food they ever ate. Both of them say that they can’t date religious women, next week they are in church.

Not sure how they are considered fixed sometimes 🤷🏼‍♀️ I can’t keep up with their ever changing personalities and likes/dislikes. Now I just have fun with it and use it to make jokes in front of him and his woman of the week, “wow dad, it totally slipped my mind that you hated red wine. Has it always been that way orrrrr....?” Then I get the aqua/Scorpio moon death stare 😄

I’m a Gemini and I don’t compromise my beliefs for anyone. I am engaged to a Gemini, and hes the same way.

I think that any man of any sign could be fake as fuck to get some vagina. Remember that opposites attract, but they don’t wear well.

I kinda agree with you, because most of the aquas I've knew, kept on changing their beliefs system.

My ex Aqua husband used to tell me, he was an atheist and then the next moment, he kept on preaching to me about God. He's always telling one thing and doing another. It got me confused.

As for me, I'm a Gemini but I think I can be more fixed than an Aqua. Like when I've said I won't troll their board anymore, trust me, you won't find me there. 😄

I don’t know how I missed this post, but yes, it’s very annoying.

It’s one thing to change your personality to get vagina and play games and be a shitty male in general - I acknowledge those men exist, but I don’t understand why he had to bring his small children at the time (me and my siblings) into his lies and personality changes. Small children are not responsible to keep up with such infidelity. Small children need stability and a strong parental figure who has an identity... not someone who changes complete personas with the wind. ooooh man my childhood was so fucked up 😆

Sorry to hear. You may would of need to give more time not rushing into something?

Not rushing into what ?

😕

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Sorry, I read as your child was suffering from the situation. My apologies