Conventional relationship

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Whorpio on Monday, October 23, 2017 and has 29 replies.

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@Whorpio
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I met this Gemini who wants to bond before jumping into the sheets. Just wondering if it’s worth it. I could be interested in a long-term relationship if I know it’ll be worthwhile. Here’s our synastry chart: Image Not Found

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Posted by blvckphase
What! You mean there are Geminis out there that aren't just cold, cheating, liars?

Go get it girl! Gemini's are tons of fun.. Not me, but majority of the rest of them are.. Hahaha

Let's go hang ourselves! I can't take it anymore...😂💦

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@Whorpio
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Just an interesting finding: the last guy I got involved with who had this Venus (Aries) + mars (Leo) combo was into sending dick pics & videos, and it turns out so is this Gemini. We just had phone sex and he sent me a shit ton of material and I didn’t even send him nothin except a tit pic & video 😂😂😬

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Posted by Whorpio
Just an interesting finding: the last guy I got involved with who had this Venus (Aries) + mars (Leo) combo was into sending dick pics & videos, and it turns out so is this Gemini. We just had phone sex and he sent me a shit ton of material and I didn’t even send him nothin except a tit pic & video 😂😂😬

I would say you sent him plenty.

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Posted by Blue_Froggie
Posted by Whorpio
I met this Gemini who wants to bond before jumping into the sheets. Just wondering if it’s worth it. I could be interested in a long-term relationship if I know it’ll be worthwhile. Here’s our synastry chart: Image Not Found

It's a good synastry as long as everything is laid out in the open....from day one. With Uranus/Neptune + angle rulers it is always good to take it slow.

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I feel like everything is laid out in the open. It seems like it’s easier for him to open up since we only talk on the phone for now (won’t finally meet until Tuesday). He accepts my past and everything! I’ve told him pretty much everything about my life, and he’s told me everything about his (or at least he thinks he has because he will be like “you know how I told you about this and this?...”

On the note of moving too fast, this boy is already saying he loves me. I think that’s his Aries Venus shining strong.

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Posted by Whorpio
Posted by Blue_Froggie
Posted by Whorpio
I met this Gemini who wants to bond before jumping into the sheets. Just wondering if it’s worth it. I could be interested in a long-term relationship if I know it’ll be worthwhile. Here’s our synastry chart: Image Not Found

It's a good synastry as long as everything is laid out in the open....from day one. With Uranus/Neptune + angle rulers it is always good to take it slow.


I feel like everything is laid out in the open. It seems like it’s easier for him to open up since we only talk on the phone for now (won’t finally meet until Tuesday). He accepts my past and everything! I’ve told him pretty much everything about my life, and he’s told me everything about his (or at least he thinks he has because he will be like “you know how I told you about this and this?...”

On the note of moving too fast, this boy is already saying he loves me. I think that’s his Aries Venus shining strong.

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Oh jeez... yeah Gems typically do this when they get excited about something... just pace it

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Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Whorpio
I feel like everything is laid out in the open. It seems like it’s easier for him to open up since we only talk on the phone for now (won’t finally meet until Tuesday). He accepts my past and everything! I’ve told him pretty much everything about my life, and he’s told me everything about his (or at least he thinks he has because he will be like “you know how I told you about this and this?...”

On the note of moving too fast, this boy is already saying he loves me. I think that’s his Aries Venus shining strong.


Oh jeez... yeah Gems typically do this when they get excited about something... just pace it
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I am sorta scared it’s gon wear out fast... How do you pace it?

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Posted by Whorpio
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Whorpio
I feel like everything is laid out in the open. It seems like it’s easier for him to open up since we only talk on the phone for now (won’t finally meet until Tuesday). He accepts my past and everything! I’ve told him pretty much everything about my life, and he’s told me everything about his (or at least he thinks he has because he will be like “you know how I told you about this and this?...”

On the note of moving too fast, this boy is already saying he loves me. I think that’s his Aries Venus shining strong.


Oh jeez... yeah Gems typically do this when they get excited about something... just pace it

I am sorta scared it’s gon wear out fast... How do you pace it?
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Ignore his words and pay attention to his actions. Don’t give in to his “in the moment confessions” but y’all young soooo that makes it difficult.

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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Whorpio
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Whorpio
I feel like everything is laid out in the open. It seems like it’s easier for him to open up since we only talk on the phone for now (won’t finally meet until Tuesday). He accepts my past and everything! I’ve told him pretty much everything about my life, and he’s told me everything about his (or at least he thinks he has because he will be like “you know how I told you about this and this?...”

On the note of moving too fast, this boy is already saying he loves me. I think that’s his Aries Venus shining strong.


Oh jeez... yeah Gems typically do this when they get excited about something... just pace it

I am sorta scared it’s gon wear out fast... How do you pace it?

yep

don't be available for a few days...go out of town

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Yeah... don’t be too available like you all in already

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He has similar placements to my Gem, same mars and ascendant. He's on the cancer/gem cusp, maybe that has something to do with wanting to be wifed up.

Mine got all worried when we slept together that it was 'too fast'. After 1 month of dating and knowing each other for years 🙄🙄🙄

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Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Whorpio
How about I just be genuine

What does that have to do with it? I’m not saying be fake, I’m saying don’t get wrapped up in the excitement and moment that you say or do things you can’t take back.
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Woah I meant to be responding to Arielle.

I generally agree, and I am careful about what I say or how I respond to his words so it can’t be used against me in the future or sumn 👀 I don’t want to get his hopes up.

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Posted by Whorpio
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Whorpio
How about I just be genuine

What does that have to do with it? I’m not saying be fake, I’m saying don’t get wrapped up in the excitement and moment that you say or do things you can’t take back.

Woah I meant to be responding to Arielle.

I generally agree, and I am careful about what I say or how I respond to his words so it can’t be used against me in the future or sumn 👀 I don’t want to get his hopes up.

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Ah ok... well you got this then 👍