I have a crush on a GEM guy. Should i appraoch?

Ok so im taking a summer class at school (6 weeks long). We have 2 weeks left. On the 1st couple days of class i noticed a guy who sits across the room from me like completely staring at me. it sparked my attention and i began gazing over at him. However, he eventually stopped "staring" and would just glance over at me from time to time. I normally have no problem talking to guys who are in my classes but with this one im really shy. i think the problem is that he is NEVER alone. he drives his friend to school every single day, and they are compltely unseparable. during breaks he stands with a group of like 4 guys and 1 girl so thats already established. i feel like im just really attracted to him and really wanna talk to him.

I found that he has a facebook profile which says he is single luckily, and his bday is 6/2/86. btw im a leo, 8/17/88. im hesitant to be-friend him on facebook because he might think im a crazy stalker lol. maybe leave a note on his car the last day of class— i need advice/ideas please help! i dont want him to think im desperate/stalker i just wanna come across cute and approachable. thanks!

I wouldn't leave a note... we are very social creatures... lol try to find something light to talk to him about. if he has made that kind of eye contact with you, he could be just playing coy. find an excuse to talk to him and be FUNNY... use some wit... don't come on too strong.. That's the best i can tell you.

thanks baby-grl. so there was a bit of pregress. yesterday during the class break he moved his "group" next to me and started talking to me and including me into their convos. i was really happy. we locked eyes a few times during class again. im wondering, are gemini guys shy when it comes to approaching girls? do they like to be approached instead?

Go for it your story was kind've cute.

If you want to try and develop some sort of relationship, even if it's on a platonic level .. then why leave a note on his car the last day of school? He gets a note from you, and then your gone? Wouldn't you want it NOW, while there's still time?

Makes no sense ....


Geminis are social creatures, and it's doubtful that he's being shy. Geminis and shy are a contridiction.

He's likely wondering why you are shy and hesitant, why you are being coy .. and so that's why he moved his group towards you to include you in a group conversation .. because he likely realizes that to engage you on a one-on-one level would make you uncomfortable.


He's a Gemini ....... OPEN, OPEN yourself .. BE FREE.

thanks everyone!
emeraldgem: Ok so i dont think im gonna leave a note, thats just weird altogether. Im also hesitant to add him on facebook because hes prob gonna think im desperate to have went thru all the guys with his name (considering he thinks i dont know his last name). so i dunno what to do there, i want to add him but im hesitant to seem stalkerish/desperate.

joe stickler: Thanks, What should i go for specifically?

p-angel: I really want to approach him one on one but that is highly unlikely. Him and his best friend never separate from each other. Thats why im kind of confused as to what to do?

I am gonna see him in class tonight and im pretty excited! i just really hope we start talking now, because after tonight we only have 2 more class days left 😢HELP