I'm kinda puzzled by this Gemini lady. Help would be appreciated.

Will be straight forward with this post b/c I don't want to waste anyone's time.

1 year ago I met a girl who I liked, but didn't do much because at the time I had little to no interest in dating. This year I managed to meet her again at the very same event and finally got around to acquire her number indirectly.

Several months later, I managed to chat her up via private messages and we got a conversation going. At first it was okay, but basically, both of us kinda dropped out since I was very busy with school and didn't have much time. I didn't ask her out because I don't have a lot of time.

As far as her placements go, she's either a Sag or Cap moon, with Mars in Gemini and cancer Venus as well as Jupiter or Saturn iirc. Don't know the ascendant. I highly doubt this helps, but whatever.

TL;DR

How do I manage to get her attention despite my possessiveness, insecurity and lack of confidence? I have absolutely no relationship experience and would appreciate advice.



E: To clarify, I didn't have her number until a few months ago.

E1: Apologies for the OP looking like a messy soapbox rant. I was exhausted and didn't have the ability to write a competent post.

How do I prevent this 10/10 lady from treetrunking half of my team? My only way of communication with her is via text messages and my shyness as well as distrust is preventing me from taking shots. She is the only decent human being within my group of friends. I am a very unforgiving and judgemental person who will never trust or like a hoe

What was that about?

Have you read before you posted?

You are mediocre judgemental unforgiving whatever want woman way out of your league?

BWHAHAHA...

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You should compare pros and cons, if rejection is too hard for you then don't try it. Life is rejection : D

Also, beauty/attractiveness is subjective; and if you are that insecure this match is already lost. Venus in Cancer could handle vulnerability but neither Gemini nor Sag/Cap like insecure ppl in my opinion. Show your strengths (intelect? fun?).

I don't know your definition of "hoe", but sounds kind of disrespectful and resentful

Luck

Posted by Blackburn
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You should compare pros and cons, if rejection is too hard for you then don't try it. Life is rejection : D

Also, beauty/attractiveness is subjective; and if you are that insecure this match is already lost. Venus in Cancer could handle vulnerability but neither Gemini nor Sag/Cap like insecure ppl in my opinion. Show your strengths (intelect? fun?).

I don't know your definition of "hoe", but sounds kind of disrespectful and resentful

Luck

Let's hope he gets none of this or any woman! He sounds like ugly shit!

Yolo. Just go for it. You have nothing to lose.

Posted by littlenanobyte
Dude, you are moving way too slow on this. A year has gone by and all you've managed to do was to text message her a few times? I know aquas never make the first move, especially the males, but got damn. I wouldn't even remember your name. The ship might have sailed by now 😢

Another thing that I hope to point out to you - I can easily identify your crippling insecurity. And what I find disturbing about it all is that you have this weird possessiveness over her whenever you speak about her potential involvement with "your team", who I assume is your friend group. She has no obligation to be faithful to you, who happens to be practically a total stranger to her, whenever you've made zero moves on her for a year. I would also not call her potentially a hoe. Even if she enjoys having sex, it doesn't mean she's a hoe.

You do realize that if she was fucking your friends, it would have happened by now, probably with one of your friends who would have already made a move on her? Lol, I mean, it's been years. I can't say one way or another that that happened, but I also sense a bit of desperation in this post like "how can I keep her from having sex from my friends".... Trust me, she already would have or is.

Gemini doesn't like judgemental people because we are very open AND open minded. I find judgemental people to be suffocating and unrelatable, and I want to keep my interaction with them to a bare minimum.

Also, I don't understand this part:

"I never got around to ask her out or to go beyond friendship b/c she is WAY out of my league and I know like half of the people in my hometown."

Let me clarify - I didn't have her number until August. I think I went overboard with the post and will most likely make a few edits.