Is it just the sex ? Please help

What do you guys think of this pairing , I feel so different with him .. hmm or is just the physical ?

September 21st 1995 with June 12 1972

Him

Rising: Virgo

Sun: Gemini

Moon: cancer

Mercury: cancer

Venus: Gemini

Mars: cancer

Jupiter: Capricorn

Saturn: Gemini

Uranus: libra

Neptune: Sagittarius

Pluto: Virgo

My chart

Rising : Leo

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Leo

Mercury: libra

Venus: libra

Mars: Scorpio

Jupiter: Sagittarius

Saturn: Pisces

Uranus: Capricorn

Neptune: Capricorn

Pluto: scorpio

Different how?

We actually met online believe it or not ... lol but we had an instant connection with speaking and when we first met .

I enjoy being with him . We get along great . Minus minor communication issues . He says I have a huge ego and attitude problem at times ... I get controlling vybes from him at times . And he loves keeping me in the house . We do go out though . He wants to know when I'm going out etc. he's charming , and is protective of me . I'm guessing its all the cancer in his chart ... Idk it's very caring in a sense . He pampers me . We have great conversations and great sex ... ugh and I do feel he can be selfish at times .

Posted by nanobyte
Well there is no way to tell if it is just sex based on a chart alone... maybe some info into the relationship dynamic?

But astrology aside, I am also seeing that he is more than twice your age... to me that is a red flag that yes, it's probably just sex. Who knows though, some older men are into that whole sugar daddy thing. I think it's probably just that he's excited about porking someone who's young enough to be his daughter doe ??‍♀️

His chart is very watery.

How did you meet this man?

I agree with the power struggles . How can I use the good to manipulate his trust, and to make him obsessed . He has major trust issues ... how do I get this chart ?

Posted by Blue_Froggie
You didn't post the charts 😡

But based on the placements & signs, it looks good for sex and for a strong emotional connection...

Things can be too exciting/unpredictable if there is a tight Venus/Uranus conjunction and can lead to power struggles if his Pluto sits on your Sun.

Nice legs 🙂

"How can I use the good to manipulate his trust, and to make him obsessed"

^^^^

Why? Isn't he paying you enough...?

Ignorance isn't accepted here. This is not an arrangement. I love that man. Now excuse yourself! Sound like an idiot.

Posted by Undine
"How can I use the good to manipulate his trust, and to make him obsessed"

^^^^

Why? Isn't he paying you enough...?

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Posted by Dash

I agree with the power struggles . How can I use the good to manipulate his trust, and to make him obsessed . He has major trust issues ... how do I get this chart ?

Posted by Blue_Froggie
You didn't post the charts 😡

But based on the placements & signs, it looks good for sex and for a strong emotional connection...

Things can be too exciting/unpredictable if there is a tight Venus/Uranus conjunction and can lead to power struggles if his Pluto sits on your Sun.

I won't help anyone to manipulate anyone. Astrology isn't used for that

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Yeah, what do you mean manipulate him? You mean him to love you?

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Blue_Froggie

Posted by Dash

I agree with the power struggles . How can I use the good to manipulate his trust, and to make him obsessed . He has major trust issues ... how do I get this chart ?

Posted by Blue_Froggie
You didn't post the charts 😡

But based on the placements & signs, it looks good for sex and for a strong emotional connection...

Things can be too exciting/unpredictable if there is a tight Venus/Uranus conjunction and can lead to power struggles if his Pluto sits on your Sun.

I won't help anyone to manipulate anyone. Astrology isn't used for that

Yeah, what do you mean manipulate him? You mean him to love you?

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Ok my bad, I see... manipulate him to trust you... well I don't think you can manipulate someone to trust you and if you do then that's not real trust. What do you want out of this?