Geminis i'm curious.

is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive? Confused.
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  • is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

    Confused.
  • Posted by blackphase
    That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

    Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

    Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
    That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected
  • Posted by nanobyte
    Sounds like she's bored with your small talk, too busy for it, read it and forgot to respond, (could be anything), but she's still interested enough to meet up with you still.


    thanks nanobyte for your feedback,yeah your right I do a lot of small talks ? ,i m not used to talking with girls,i m a shy person and dont know which subjects to talk about.but can it still works?
  • Mutabull
    female
    Not normal for me at all. If I'm into someone they get an immediate reply. It might be short if I'm busy at work, or the small talk isn't interesting or something, but they are never ignored. If I don't reply it's because I'm busy and not that interested in you, or just not interested at all.

    But, if she wants to meet then maybe she is giving you a chance; thinking maybe it will be better in person.
  • Posted by blackphase
    Posted by ResistYourself
    Posted by blackphase
    That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

    Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

    Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
    That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but she i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected


    I understand cause I would feel the exact same way..

    How long have you been seeing her and how serious is it at this point?
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    I started seeing her a years ago i'm serious about her not sure what she thinks about me,yeah i might be only good at small talks but i'm always trying to make it works ,just no opportunities to proove that.
  • Posted by Mutabull
    Not normal for me at all. If I'm into someone they get an immediate reply. It might be short if I'm busy at work, or the small talk isn't interesting or something, but they are never ignored. If I don't reply it's because I'm busy and not that interested in you, or just not interested at all.

    But, if she wants to meet then maybe she is giving you a chance; thinking maybe it will be better in person.


    Thanks you for your feedback Mutabull,

    well if she is giving me a chance then she have to give it fully not ignoring my texts!;and yeah i love to have little chit-tchat sometimes ,i mean what's the point of meeting someone if i'm going to say all via text..
  • Posted by Blue_Froggie
    Posted by ResistYourself
    is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

    Confused.


    Normal for me especially if I'm very busy with work... If I don't read your messages, then yeah I'm not interested.
    Did you guys meet? I'm
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    You ignore that message completly or you answer back after?

    yeah i 've met her a few times..
    sorry your busy,i'm bothering you?
  • xomelindabelle
    Aries Sun ~ Libra Moon ~ Scorpio Asc. ~ Taurus Merc ~ Taurus Venus ~ Gem Mars
    29 years old female from California, United States
    My boyfriend is a Gemini dominant Gemini, and he's always in contact. I also have a Gemini best friend. She's more flaky haha but it's ok -- she's off with her man a lot. One thing I can tell you is if you're dating a Gemini, they stick around if they're still interested and you become their complete focus. They'll keep in consistent contact if they like you. Not in a clingy way, but an invigorated way. They love to chat with their loved ones.
    It's cool she met up with you, but in my experience they should be keeping in contact via phone too -- Gemini is a Mercury ruled sign -- all about communication with their chosen people.
    I'm a Gemini Mars and that's how I can be as well.
  • xomelindabelle
    Aries Sun ~ Libra Moon ~ Scorpio Asc. ~ Taurus Merc ~ Taurus Venus ~ Gem Mars
    29 years old female from California, United States
    Posted by blackphase
    Posted by xomelindabelle
    My boyfriend is a Gemini dominant Gemini, and he's always in contact. I also have a Gemini best friend. She's more flaky haha but it's ok -- she's off with her man a lot. One thing I can tell you is if you're dating a Gemini, they stick around if they're still interested and you become their complete focus. They'll keep in consistent contact if they like you. Not in a clingy way, but an invigorated way. They love to chat with their loved ones.
    It's cool she met up with you, but in my experience they should be keeping in contact via phone too -- Gemini is a Mercury rule sign -- all about communication with their chosen people.
    I'm a Gemini Mars and that's how I can be as well.


    Nailed it! Tongue
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    Yay! Tongue Even before dating him, as a Gemini Mars I know that I love chatting with my people and I don't hesitate if I feel the urge to haha he and I get each other in a lot of ways.

    Btw my bf has your big three! lol
  • Please just leave Gemini's alone. Their capacity for deep and meaningful relationships is next to none and for a sign that claims it gets boring a lot, it sure leaves much to the imagination.

    Posted by ResistYourself
    is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

    Confused.


  • Does she have Mercury in Taurus? Confused
  • Posted by blackphase
    Posted by ResistYourself
    Posted by blackphase
    Posted by ResistYourself
    Posted by blackphase
    That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

    Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

    Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
    That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but she i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected


    I understand cause I would feel the exact same way..

    How long have you been seeing her and how serious is it at this point?


    I started seeing her a years ago i'm serious about her not sure what she thinks about me,yeah i might be only good at small talks but i'm always trying to make it works ,just no opportunities to proove that.


    So the two of you have been seeing one another for a year and have not made a serious commitment yet? Or you are in a relationship?

    Has she always been a bit distant through text? And do you see one another frequently?
    Just trying to get on the same page here with what's been going on with the two of you..
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    Yeah she dosen't want a serious relationship..because of a past relationship.i don't know what kind of relationship we are having , but we always stay late out, but i don't think we have started anything
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  • Posted by blackphase
    Posted by ResistYourself
    Posted by blackphase
    Posted by ResistYourself
    Posted by blackphase
    Posted by ResistYourself
    Posted by blackphase
    That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

    Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

    Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
    That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but she i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected


    I understand cause I would feel the exact same way..

    How long have you been seeing her and how serious is it at this point?


    I started seeing her a years ago i'm serious about her not sure what she thinks about me,yeah i might be only good at small talks but i'm always trying to make it works ,just no opportunities to proove that.


    So the two of you have been seeing one another for a year and have not made a serious commitment yet? Or you are in a relationship?

    Has she always been a bit distant through text? And do you see one another frequently?
    Just trying to get on the same page here with what's been going on with the two of you..

    Yeah she dosen't want a serious relationship..because of a past relationship.i don't know what kind of relationship i only see her face to face each time but i don't think we started anything


    Hmmm.. Okay. So kind of just FWB? You have feelings for her though? Do you want a relationship? And have you told her that you have feelings for her and want more if that is the case?

    Sorry.. I'm a bit over the top with questions.. LOL
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    Don't worry ,feel free to ask.
    Yea......Kinda..with less option i guess...
    Yep ..yeah i hope for one really but i don't want to push her..i leave the decision to her
    Yeah i did told her once she just giggled ..then i had difficult expressing more..i hope i didn't blow it ;(

    yeah the changes started from there i guess..


  • Posted by neves
    Does she have Mercury in Taurus? Confused


    Mercury In cancer
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