Geminis i'm curious.

is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive? Confused.
is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

Confused.
Posted by blackphase
That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected
Posted by nanobyte
Sounds like she's bored with your small talk, too busy for it, read it and forgot to respond, (could be anything), but she's still interested enough to meet up with you still.


thanks nanobyte for your feedback,yeah your right I do a lot of small talks ? ,i m not used to talking with girls,i m a shy person and dont know which subjects to talk about.but can it still works?
female
Not normal for me at all. If I'm into someone they get an immediate reply. It might be short if I'm busy at work, or the small talk isn't interesting or something, but they are never ignored. If I don't reply it's because I'm busy and not that interested in you, or just not interested at all.

But, if she wants to meet then maybe she is giving you a chance; thinking maybe it will be better in person.
female
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Posted by ResistYourself
is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

Confused.


Normal for me especially if I'm very busy with work... If I don't read your messages, then yeah I'm not interested.
Did you guys meet? I'm
Posted by blackphase
Posted by ResistYourself
Posted by blackphase
That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but she i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected


I understand cause I would feel the exact same way..

How long have you been seeing her and how serious is it at this point?
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I started seeing her a years ago i'm serious about her not sure what she thinks about me,yeah i might be only good at small talks but i'm always trying to make it works ,just no opportunities to proove that.
Posted by Mutabull
Not normal for me at all. If I'm into someone they get an immediate reply. It might be short if I'm busy at work, or the small talk isn't interesting or something, but they are never ignored. If I don't reply it's because I'm busy and not that interested in you, or just not interested at all.

But, if she wants to meet then maybe she is giving you a chance; thinking maybe it will be better in person.


Thanks you for your feedback Mutabull,

well if she is giving me a chance then she have to give it fully not ignoring my texts!;and yeah i love to have little chit-tchat sometimes ,i mean what's the point of meeting someone if i'm going to say all via text..
Posted by Blue_Froggie
Posted by ResistYourself
is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

Confused.


Normal for me especially if I'm very busy with work... If I don't read your messages, then yeah I'm not interested.
Did you guys meet? I'm
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You ignore that message completly or you answer back after?

yeah i 've met her a few times..
sorry your busy,i'm bothering you?
28 years old female from California, United States
Aries Sun ~ Libra Moon ~ Scorpio Asc. ~ Taurus Merc ~ Taurus Venus ~ Gem Mars
My boyfriend is a Gemini dominant Gemini, and he's always in contact. I also have a Gemini best friend. She's more flaky haha but it's ok -- she's off with her man a lot. One thing I can tell you is if you're dating a Gemini, they stick around if they're still interested and you become their complete focus. They'll keep in consistent contact if they like you. Not in a clingy way, but an invigorated way. They love to chat with their loved ones.
It's cool she met up with you, but in my experience they should be keeping in contact via phone too -- Gemini is a Mercury ruled sign -- all about communication with their chosen people.
I'm a Gemini Mars and that's how I can be as well.
28 years old female from California, United States
Aries Sun ~ Libra Moon ~ Scorpio Asc. ~ Taurus Merc ~ Taurus Venus ~ Gem Mars
Posted by blackphase
Posted by xomelindabelle
My boyfriend is a Gemini dominant Gemini, and he's always in contact. I also have a Gemini best friend. She's more flaky haha but it's ok -- she's off with her man a lot. One thing I can tell you is if you're dating a Gemini, they stick around if they're still interested and you become their complete focus. They'll keep in consistent contact if they like you. Not in a clingy way, but an invigorated way. They love to chat with their loved ones.
It's cool she met up with you, but in my experience they should be keeping in contact via phone too -- Gemini is a Mercury rule sign -- all about communication with their chosen people.
I'm a Gemini Mars and that's how I can be as well.


Nailed it!
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Yay! Even before dating him, as a Gemini Mars I know that I love chatting with my people and I don't hesitate if I feel the urge to haha he and I get each other in a lot of ways.

Btw my bf has your big three! lol
female
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Posted by ResistYourself
Posted by Blue_Froggie
Posted by ResistYourself
is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

Confused.


Normal for me especially if I'm very busy with work... If I don't read your messages, then yeah I'm not interested.
Did you guys meet? I'm


You ignore that message completly or you answer back after?

yeah i 've met her a few times..
sorry your busy,i'm bothering you?
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It depends you know. If it is something that doesn't need a reply then I would read it and not reply... But if it's a question about me/us/something relevant that needs to be answered, then yes I would answer it as soon as I receive/read the message. 90% of times, I'm not going to reply to forwards/memes/gifs etc...


Please just leave Gemini's alone. Their capacity for deep and meaningful relationships is next to none and for a sign that claims it gets boring a lot, it sure leaves much to the imagination.

Posted by ResistYourself
is it normal that a gemini never replies when i text her about random stuff.but when i text her to set a date she becomes reactive?

Confused.


Nonconformist ?
Does she have Mercury in Taurus?
Posted by blackphase
Posted by ResistYourself
Posted by blackphase
Posted by ResistYourself
Posted by blackphase
That's not normal in my world. Speaking as a Gemini, if I have genuine interest in you, you won't have to wait for msgs from me.. You'd likely be wishing I would knock it off and stop coming up with more butter to say.. LOL

Someone I am into will NEVER be ignored.

Thank your for feedback, blackphase.
That's sweet i wish if she could do that too, even in her birthday she keep it everyone waiting for reply ,i had to remind her lol,but she i know she hates social media . I don t know if she thinks the same about texting..kinda feel rejected


I understand cause I would feel the exact same way..

How long have you been seeing her and how serious is it at this point?


I started seeing her a years ago i'm serious about her not sure what she thinks about me,yeah i might be only good at small talks but i'm always trying to make it works ,just no opportunities to proove that.


So the two of you have been seeing one another for a year and have not made a serious commitment yet? Or you are in a relationship?

Has she always been a bit distant through text? And do you see one another frequently?
Just trying to get on the same page here with what's been going on with the two of you..
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Yeah she dosen't want a serious relationship..because of a past relationship.i don't know what kind of relationship we are having , but we always stay late out, but i don't think we have started anything

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