Is this a Gemini female thing or plain insecurity?

My Gem bf & I have dated on and off for past eight months. His Gem female roommate has been chasing him for months (constantly texting him when they're not together), they've hooked up, I'm pretty sure she thinks she's in love with him. She's moving out end of April.

After months of my bf and I being on the down low, he has been in hot pursuit of me again and has actually KICKED HER OUT OF HIS BED three times when we've shown up at his house late at night so we could sleep in there. In the morning, I can hear her joking around and talking (the other morning, she was actually inviting me to breakfast through the bedroom door) ... until this morning. This time she was PISSED she got kicked out.

Given that, I told my bf this is making everyone uncomfortable and he should just stick with her until she goes. So what's he do? Blows up my phone all day about how he wants me in his life and nothing's going on with her.

Question: is that a Gemini female thing: to be totally ok with a man you're interested in having his old gf coming around and you being ok with him choosing her over you, or is this plain insecurity on her part?

I can't even fathom this scenario.

you are just as sick as her to tolerate that ish period

please don't come back here with this nonsense.

This isn't a gem girl thing...this is a crazy girl thing. And oh boy if my boyfriend had a girl in his bed sh*t would be hitting the fan. I would take a break with him till she's out of the house. To much drama for me.

lol

i would so like to be that guy right now! :p

He is leading her on in some way, she feels there is an open door. I would NEVER do such a thing, so I can't relate. I have way to much pride to allow someone to think I'm sweating their man. NO THANKS! I do not want what isn't mine.

There is more to this..

Take J.U.S.T a break.....the word D.I.G.N.I.T.Y. does mean something, or it should.

I don't really get the question; she's NOT ok with his choosing you over her. She may actually like you and want to hang out with you, but she'll still take him away from you if she possibly can. You both need to lay down the law with her.

It's a gemini female thing... Not all gem females are like this, but I've been there. Be careful, because you've just made an enemy. She's going to stalk your ass.

As far as the guy goes, maybe he slept with her, but since he invited you over to sleep in his bed, I doubt if he even cares about her. Talk to him and ignore her.

Posted by Arielle83
Y'all are easy as.

Pretty much... Most anyway...